It would be deemed controversial, not because there’s anything wrong with it, but because if you scale this advice up, it’s because if every man in society played this game, it would have effectively destroyed society.

So what we do need is we need what, 90% 95% of men to get a girlfriend early. We need them to get married before they turn 30 and marry a girl that is maybe five years younger.

So when they turn 30, they marry a girl that’s about 25 years old. Start having children when the guy reaches about 35 and his wife’s about 30, they have worked, they haven’t slept around. They haven’t partied, they haven’t enjoyed their lives by the time he is 35.

Have children. Make sure that he’s married before that as well.

Produce more than two or three children to replace the next generation and do that around 35 or younger if possible so that you can replenish for the greater society. We need the next generation of taxpayers to come through.

Don’t sleep around, don’t get a divorce, stick together, bring up your children, and get them to do the same thing. And that is good for society. We need 95% of people to do that.

Should Young Men Get Married?

This advice is for the guys that I coach, the guys that are outside of the norm, the guys that want something better for their own lives and are willing to take advantage of the fact that 95% of men are going to play that game. This is their journey.

Let them have that journey. I’m pitching a better journey for you.

So you should never, ever have a girlfriend in your twenties. You should not if you are a man of the world.

If you get a girlfriend in your twenties, you are setting yourself up for disaster. I guess the best-case scenario is that you are 29 and three-quarters years old and you find yourself an 18-year-old girlfriend.

That’s probably the only real scenario that would work here. She’s eleven years younger than you and you’ve got a decade. You can wait till you’re 40 or 40 and a little bit more until she hits about 30. She hits the wall. And then you have some kids, right?

And you’ve got this hot girl that she’s going to be hot until she’s 30. And then you have some kids and then you run that game and you can have your midlife crisis a little bit later on.

That’s probably the only scenario that can work for you in this framework that I’m trying to pitch now.

To start with, I had a look at the movie “top gun one” where Tom Cruise was back in the 80s when he made “top gun one” and the girl that was his romantic interest in the movie, Kelly Mcgillis

She was hot, she was smoking hot and now if you look at photos of them side by side. Today Tom Cruise just looks a little bit older, not too much different and she looks like she could be his mum.

Men Should Never Get Married When They’re Young

So men we slowly rise our mate value increases till we’re about 40 and then it Peters out and then about 55 60 depending on how well you look after yourself.

Obviously, a lot of you guys if you’re drinking and you’re partying and you’re ruining your life, you’re going to look terrible by the time you’re 50 but we go up and we run our race and we’re still rising in value until we’re about 40 then we hit this Plateau

Women they go boom as soon as they turn say 18, they’re like boom 21 and then at 21 it literally just goes directly down by the time they’re 25 30 because men are judged based on.

Their charisma, what they provide to the world. What type of value do you add to the world? How intelligent, how ambitious you are. Ambition is very powerful. What potential do you have?

Are you intelligent? Are you conscientious? Are you hard-working? What do you add to society? And have you transferred that into some sort of skill?

Do you have wealth? Can you be a provider for children? These are all things that women admire in a man.

And obviously, if you are overweight and you are ugly and you’re deliberately destroying your body with bad food and you’re not working out and doing things to at least keep yourself on the level where you’re hurting your own mate value, aren’t you?

Genetically, you should be a lot higher than where you are and if you do it, you’re destroying it yourself.

Women Peak When They’re Young And Want To Trap Young Men

Women, on the other hand, peak when they’re about 18, peak, and then boomy, by 25, it just goes down. And their value is based on their looks. And that’s not me just throwing out some anecdotal subjective opinion of mine.

That’s the facts. And that’s why you will see an 18-year-old guy being treated like he’s a nobody, a 21-year-old guy being discarded by society, treated like he’s nothing.

And a 21-year-old girl who’s cute and pretty hasn’t done anything for society, being put on a pedestal, getting that job in the newsroom just because she’s pretty, getting a promotion just because she’s pretty and everyone is attracted to her.

So this is how society really works and this is how it is.

If you are in your twenties, you actually get yourself a girlfriend. Just so you’re 21, worst-case scenario, and you find yourself a girlfriend who’s 21 as well.

You met at University, for instance. You’re both 21, you finish your university degree, you’re in love, and then you go off into the world. You move in together, you get married by 25, you might start hitting the gym a little bit more, and you get a little bit more body mass going on.

You got a degree, you’re a little bit more educated, you’re making money. Your looks start to increase by 25. Your girlfriend of 25 is starting to decrease. In fact, you will be better looking than your girlfriend. Most cases at 25.

By the time you’re 30, she’s going to be okay. I’m finished with my career. I need some babies. And you’re going to be at 30 going, wow, my career is just taking off. I’ve got another decade of awesomeness ahead of me and she’s already run her race.

And then when you’re 40, usually this is part of the issues. We have a huge divorce rate. I think it’s like 52, 55% or more. And 80% of all these are actual stats. take a look at

Google it yourself, 80% of all divorces are initiated by the woman which is also counterintuitive when you think about it.

Divorce Is Too Common For Men To Risk Getting Married

So if I was to tell you that you’re going to catch a flight your next flight to Hawaii this year for the holidays and there’s a 52% chance that the plane is going to crash (marriage) and you’re going to lose half your money and you’re going to be paying alimony or child support for the next 15 years.

Would you catch that flight? No, you wouldn’t. It’s not just getting married but what it is during your twenties.

Now that’s the relationship issue and the fact that you will be able to get better-looking girls when you learn the game. Okay, that’s the first part that I wanted to cover.

The second part is just financially. Let’s just think about this from a financial standpoint because that’s where marriage can really be a tricky situation for men. Financially, you’re building your skills, you’re building your network.

You’re building yourself up. Joseph Stiglitz who’s a great American economist wrote a book recently where he says that the number one thing that you can do to ensure that you will be a success in life is to have the right parents.

And then joseph goes on to say, well, you don’t really have that choice, do you?

So let’s just say that you have had good parents. They’re together. They didn’t get divorced. If you are brought up by divorced parents, that really destroys your probability of being successful in later life.

Because what happens is you start this race when you turn 18 and you leave, say, high school or whatever. That’s when the race begins. And if you don’t have a solid platform of good parenting, parents that are not divorced, you have a stable home life.

If single men don’t have any of those, and because we have a 52 55% divorce rate already, 55% of you out there will be coming from divorced families, you would have been brought up by a single parent. So, therefore, that platform is not there for 55% of you reading right now.

Statistically, that is true. And so if you’re not starting with a good platform, you have a broken home, you’re brought up by a single mother, or something like that.

You’re starting the race at a lower level. You’ve got two guys, one guy from a family that is put together and one guy from a broken family. The platform is up there for the guy that has two parents and the platform is down here.

And you’re trying to race. As single men get older and you start to decline in age and all these other issues, you’re behind them.

Don’t Make The Same Mistake Your Parents Did

Now, if you come from a single parent, like 55% of you probably are, and you get into a relationship because you need some sort of love, you have all those issues back at home and you’re like, okay, I’m going to fall in love.

You’re more likely to have emotional problems from breaking up with girlfriends. You’re more likely to accidentally have a pregnancy and things like that that are going to negatively affect your financial freedom later on in life.

In your 20s, you’re getting a platform that can skyrocket the rest of your life and put you in a situation that guarantees you’ll be able to afford kids, guarantees that you’ll be able to travel the world guarantees that you’ll be able to start buying property and multiples of properties so that you can have a good retirement.

And the 65-year-old man who’s retired and has five houses and just sits back as a rent-seeking parasite, which is a very small minority of the world’s population, they started with a good platform.

They had good parents. Generally, and so if you’re in your twenty s and you’re getting into a relationship and you’re spending your time with this one girl.

Firstly, we’ve already discussed that her mate value is going to decline like nothing else.

And in your 40s, you’re going to be in your thirties and have money that you’ve lost money, by the way, you spent on the relationship, that you should have been spending on yourself and your own education in your future.

Instead, that money and that status that you have is going to guarantee that you could get hot girls in your 20s.That’s one negative aspect of getting into serious relationships.

Men in Their 20’s Should Focus on Self Improvement

In your 20s, you’re disrupting your education, your finances, and your emotional stability, and you’re not building a solid dating platform for the rest of your life.

Getting into a relationship in your 20s can literally destroy every aspect of your life. So what do you do? Well, this is another aspect of the divorce rate.

This is not for 95% or more of society because I believe that 95% of society should get a girlfriend at 21. They should meet their girlfriend. Most guys should meet their girlfriend for society, not for you.

This is bad for the man. But the more of these guys that we have out there that leave University, get their degree, find a girlfriend in University and pay taxes, join the rat race, try to climb the corporate ladder, become those bitter guys that when they reach their mid-30s, they just have enough money to buy a BMW just to keep up and continue paying taxes and supporting the economy.

These guys are good for society. They have kids. They do all the good things that keep society stable. Now, you guys, this gives you an opportunity because of all of their hard work. This gives you an opportunity to have a better life.

And that better life is avoiding relationships just having short term relationships. And that’s what I coach. I coach the Sweet Art of Cold Approach where you can have multiple of women in your life.

Have Short Term Girlfriends in Your 20’s

You can call them girlfriends. You can tell them that they are your girlfriend, but they’re not really your girlfriends.

They’re just girls that are borrowing you until you get into your 40s, right. You can lend yourself out to all these girls, but when you get to your forties, you can lend yourself up to higher quality girls you see in your twenties.

It is the easiest time to meet a girl because, well, there’s a lot of girls around and they’re all kind of down to bang anybody, right? And if you’re in their age range, they’re more likely to go with you.

So it’s easy, but it’s a little bit more difficult to learn the game. And that’s why when I pitched this to my clients, I say, look, the Sweet Art of Cold Approach, and you get yourself a regular girlfriend.

Let her borrow you for a little bit because you got places to be. You are an important man that has shit to get done and that shit needs to happen in your forties.

You can blow all of that without building a good platform in your twenties. You can literally ruin all of that without having a good platform in your 20s.

Don’t have shit go wrong like what happened to me. Don’t let this happen to you. Learn the sweet art of the cold approach. Focus on yourself, build a business, get educated, get some skills, and save some money. Plan for the future.

Make sure that in your thirty? S you are building this foundation and boom you’re ready to skyrocket into life and in your twenties. And if I learn some damn game you will be unbeatable. You’ll be educated, and skilled.

You will have the ladies and you will also have everything else totally built around you.

Don’t Get Married

Don’t fall into the pitfalls that 95% of men do fall into the 20s are when you build your life and build your platform to make sure that your Sixties are good to make sure that you are in your thirties with bullshit awesome 18-year-old girlfriend. Right. And that’s how we get somewhere.

You need a good mentor that’s been there before and there’s a huge difference between me and another 20-year-old guy in his 20 is giving you coaching advice because he doesn’t know Jack shit about how the world really works.

The malevolence of the world. I’ve seen it with my own eyes. I’ve got experience under the belt and that’s why I give advice sto you guys’ attention so I hope that made sense. Some of you single men might disagree, some of you might agree but all of you will know that I’m right.

Here are some of my best posts:

• Cold approach is a lifestyle
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• How to Write a PickUp field report
• How to spot a fake dating coach
• How I got laid in Japan (epic post)
• Why Thailand is NO longer good for getting laid

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