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There are only three ways to meet hot girls, and have a good chance to make them your girlfriend:
- Daygame – This is what I call the sweet art of cold approach which means that you are walking over to a girl who you have never met before, you don’t have any mutual friends, nor do you have any connections or reason to talk to her other than being attracted to her. Yup, this can be scary for some men, and I guess this is why it’s the most effective way to meet hot girls and make them your girlfriend. If you would like to know more, sign up to my mailing list here.
- Night clubs – Some men get together with a bunch of guys, have a few drinks for courage, then they hit clubs and bars in order to meet women. You do need a group of guys that are keen to hang out all the time to make this an effective strategy. So, the barrier to entry is higher than most might think, not to mention the Sunday morning hang overs, the possibility you could become an alcoholic etc. Sure, this strategy can work, as long as you are within a certain height, age, attractiveness level.
- Online dating – This is great for women, it gives them the opportunity to meet the highest possible status men they would not have access to in their day to day lives. But how does that help you? Well, it doesn’t help you. Online dating can work for you, I’m not saying that it will not, but you’ll in most cases only get girls who are less attractive than yourself.
Where should I go to Meet Hot Girls?
Depending on what part of the world you live in, will determine what areas you should go to find hot girls.
I live in Sydney Australia, and some of the hottest girls hang out in shopping centers, they hang out at the beach on hot days in summer. But you see, I have met hot girls in the local grocery store, or this week I met a hot Italian girl in 7/11.
One of the main lessons I teach my students is, you should be ready at all times, to meet girls, because you don’t control when the opportunity will present itself, most of the time, a hot girl will appear and everything is up to you in that moment.
Will you approach her or will you just have a look, and allow fear to stop you going after what you want in life. This is the question that all men need to ask themselves every day.
And the difference between a man who succeeds with women and a man who have to settle for the scraps in life, is which man is willing to take a chance and risk everything for a better life.
It’s up to you
Here are some of my best posts:
- Cold approach is a lifestyle
- How to get a younger girlfriend
- What is indirect game
- How to spot a fake dating coach
- How I got laid in Japan (epic post)
If you want to learn more about the sweet art of cold approach, join my group, where I’ll have a chat to you before entering. Get my free video series and finally, if you are adventurous, try my 30 day challenge.
Connecting to a woman you’re attracted to can be a challenge. Where do you even meet someone? A beautiful person who you can form a relationship with? You don’t have to make it more complicated than it needs to be. Here are some of the best, simple and effective ways to get a hot girlfriend.
Get out there and be social with girls
No hot girl is going to knock on your door and say ‘Hey, I’m a beautiful woman, let’s date.’ You actually have to get yourself out there in order to meet someone.
It can be daunting, sure, but it doesn’t have to be. One of the best/most common ways to make a connection with someone, is if you have things in common. Similar interests and viewpoints, a sense of humour that matches up.
Join social situations that have something to do with your hobbies A comedy club, an art class, the sky’s the limit. If you have hobbies in common, it’s not just easier to make a connection, it’s also a great foundation for building a relationship.
Online Dating Sucks But It’s There
Online dating apps, for some men, can be a great way to meet women that you might not have met otherwise, especially if you’re on the shy side.
It might take a little longer for you to find someone you actually have a connection with, and who wants similar things as you. But don’t give up on love, I believe in you.
With online dating you’re sure to find women who are also looking for a relationship. You already have that in common.
Don’t let it end there though. Online dating is great, but you do have to actually meet in the real world for things to progress further. The upside is that you already know things about her, you already have some sort of foundation to keep building off of.
Show interest in girls you are attracted to
One of the pitfalls guys can fall into when they talk with women, is that they don’t show enough interest in her as a person. The conversation needs to be a two way street, and when she asks you a question, you need to be able to answer it and keep the conversation going.
If she asks you what you do for fun, don’t just say that you like to watch movies, or that you don’t really do much.
Silent time together
If you’re into movies, give her examples of what kind of movies you like, tell her a funny story about that one movie you thought you’d like but it turned out to be a complete disaster.
And most importantly – ask questions back. Don’t let the conversation die just because you’re done talking about you.
Open your mind to different types of girls
It’s easy to get stuck in your thinking about what kind of woman you would want. But limiting yourself to only wanting to date brunettes, or women with a certain body type, or women who like a certain type of music, can make you miss out on someone great.
It’s completely fine to have preferences, but if you look outside your usual ‘criteria’, the results might surprise you.
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