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You want to choose places to meet girls that actually work for you. All of the places that I recommend to you guys, are places that I have personally met girls in, and that I’ve dated afterwards.

Some places have a higher probability of success than others. My facebook group is full of educational infield breakdown and analysis videos, join up to change your life.

Where ever in your world you can come in contact with a girl, it’s possible to try date her. The only issue is some environments have a higher social risk to you involved than others.

The amount of intent you show (indirect to direct), should depend on the environment you are meeting girls on, and analysed on an individual basis. The most important thing to take into account is that you can make this a lifestyle and meet girls anytime and anywhere.

Cold Approach Pick Up is a Lifestyle, NOT a Hobby

Best Place to Meet Single Girls

• Nightclubs and bars
• Online dating apps
• Social Media

The 2 best places to meet girls are simply online dating apps and nightclubs. Both of these places are designed for single girls who are looking for a date. So, you don’t have to worry about a girl being offended by your romantic advances in either of these places. There is a lower probability that she will be in a relationship already, which increases your chances of a good interaction.

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Nightclubs and Bars

Great for one night stands and it can be good fun to let loose in a nightclub. But there are a few downsides. You may be tired from all those late nights, staying up until 3am and the loud music can make you go deaf from prolonged exposure. Most men cannot resist the temptation to drink too, this can lead to addiction.

Online Dating Apps

This is where you will find the highest amount of yes girls, girls who will agree to sleeping with you on the first date. The downside to meeting girls via online dating is they will have a huge advantage over you online. Studies have revealed that online dating is just a meat market for women to have access to men they normally would not in real life.

Put simply, you will have to lower your standards for success online.

Social Media – Status Game (DHV)

This is an extension of online dating apps, what has been happening lately is the most attractive men on social media are being contacted by women directly. This means that you will need to be of such high mate value/status that people would be willing to follow you on social media in the first place. Therefore this option is only available to extremely good looking guys. Here’s my thoughts on displaying high value.

Best Events to Meet Girls

• Meet-ups (great website for events)
• Outdoor festivals
• Volunteering Groups
• Sporting events

Meet-Up – Game

There are many Facebook groups, forums and one useful website called meetup.com (just one example of many), where you can join a community in whatever hobby you choose and go to events with them. These live events are great for meeting single women at.

Festivals – Cold Approach

At most festivals, they have aisles of temporary stores where you can start a conversation with strangers quite easily. Walking along window shopping while asking girls questions about what they are buying etc. Check out my course on how to cold approach women here.

Volunteering – Game

Having a shared passion is a great way to connect with people, and a passion that is external can work wonders when trying to build an emotional connection with women. This is why volunteering can be so powerful.

Sporting event – Pick Up

Usually girls go to sporting events with their partners, but on the off occasion you’ll see groups of girls who attend some sporting events. When you mix in alcohol at a sporting even, this can help grease the wheels when doing a cold approach. Be warned, men can be violent at sporting events, so be careful.

Shopping Centres – Art Galleries

• Grocery shopping
• Art gallery
• Museum
• Book stores
• Library
• Cafe’s

Grocery Store – Pick-Up

This is one spot where I have managed to get laid countless times. It’s somewhat similar to the food festival where you have so many opportunities to start up an indirect conversation starter.

Art Gallery – Cold approach

I’ve painted before and studied art as a hobby in the past, so this has worked for me. Whenever you attend an event that you have some knowledge about, this give you plenty of opportunity to start a conversation with girls. Simply cold approach and show your knowledge, then transition into a pick up. This is how you make it happen in an art gallery.

Museum – Game

Some museums have a range of fun and interactive exhibits that will give you the opportunity to start up a conversation with girls in the vicinity. Use anything in the environment as a prop to start up a conversation.

Book Store – PUA

You’ll have to be quite covert in your approach and definitely go solo. Make sure that you talk in a quiet voice, to avoid attracting too much attention. It can be done, I’ve done it in the past but it’s not that easy to do. Also, the girls who attend book stores are usually less open to meeting new people, they’re usually introverted too. Ironically, girls who love books can be quite sexually repressed and if you can somehow open her up, the flood gates will open up and she’ll be keen for sex all the time (in my experience).

Library – Game

Picking a good spot next to a girl to read, is from my experience the best way to get library game happening. It’s slow, somewhat painfully slow, but can be done. It’s not a big deal if you went into the library to actually read too.

Cafe – Coffee Shop – Game

One of my friends would go to the local starbucks with a book everyday and sit near a cute girl while looking for an opportunity to start a conversation with her. It’s didn’t really work for him. I like to start a conversation with girls while waiting in the line for a coffee. Or sitting on the outside chairs on the footpath, then wait for girls to walk past the cafe. When they walk past, jump up to approach them.

Daygame

• Park
• Beach
• Street

My preferred method to meet women is definitely daygame, which I explain what it is in more detail here. If you are an older man or less attractive guy, then daygame is the method for you. If you would like to change your life by learning the sweet art of cold approach from myself, click here and fill out the form. I’ve also got a facebook group with over 30 hours of educational videos on how to meet women through the day here : Infield breakdown and analysis videos.

Bonus Places To Meet Single Girls

• Backpackers accommodation
• Weddings

Backpackers

Almost everyone I speak to who has travelled in backpackers has got laid. The environment is perfectly aligned with having fun and sexual encounters, you should try it next time you travel.

Weddings

I think there’s been a few movies on this topic, where men gate crash weddings so that they can meet women. From my experience, this is totally true, there’s something about a wedding that makes girl want to meet a guy.

High Risk Girls To Try Date

• Workplace Colleagues
• Business Contacts
• Family Friends
• Religious Environments (church, mosque etc)

Here are some of my best posts:

• Cold approach is a lifestyle (My Philosphy)
• What is indirect daygame
• What I say to Girls (Logistics)
• How to Write a PickUp field report
• How to spot a fake dating coach
• How I got laid in Japan (epic post)
• Why Thailand is NO longer good for getting laid

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