What Women Think About Men Cold Approaching Them?

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February 24, 2022

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What Women Think About Men Cold Approaching Them? The ‘cold approach’ is defined as: Attempting to get close to a completely strange woman, whom you do not know and who you do not have any social ties to or social trust with, with the intention of engaging with her in a conversation that can lead to a relationship.

What Women Think About Men Cold Approaching Them?
What Women Think About Men Cold Approaching Them?

What Women Think About Cold Approach?

Anyway, I was recently approached by a very sociable and friendly guy during my commute to work. To be completely honest about my experience, it was hard for me to tell if he was open to picking up any girl or was specifically interested in dating me for some reason and that was why he cold approached me in the first place.

Anyway, the way he did cold approach me and was very respectful. He tried to make me laugh, and we had interesting stories to share, and he tried to form a bond and a common conversation.

I was still somewhat unclear as to what he wanted, but I appreciate his solid effort in approaching me. Plus, I thought he was quite a funny guy and I’d like to know more about him because he seemed to have fun stories to share.

So, I released at the end of our conversation, that he was somewhat romantically interested in me and that’s when we exchanged numbers.

Then we met up the next week, and it was a great experience with him.

So yes, the cold approach does work sometimes when a man does it in the right manner. So, I appeal to all men to learn how to read body language and identify ways to practice the cold approach.

It is vital in order to improve your success rate. But if you’re not socially talented, you should probably work on that first. For example: before you approach her, if you know you’re going to fail miserably, you should dare try regardless.

In addition, appearance also makes a difference, working out and dressing well does make a huge difference with women you cold approach.

But often I consider it not something that would spark any actionable romantic interest in me, men don’t need to be male models, just presentable. But my appearance definitely affected him, I think!”.

Tips To Improve Your Cold Approach From a Woman

  • It’s important to treat any girl you cold approach with respect.
  • Keep trying cold approach even if your first attempt didn’t work.
  • Talk to other girls to find out more about the qualities that a boyfriend should have.
  • Listen carefully to all the details. The little details can turn out to be very important one day.
  • Be yourself, the girl will love you the way you are.
  • Style your hair, chew a refreshing mint gum and bring out the best in you.
  • Do not speak in a rude tone, especially to the girl you are trying to impress; Relax, be yourself, and be polite.
  • Don’t try to impress her but try to get her attention by being yourself. If she doesn’t like it, don’t try it with her.
  • Try to build a strong friendship between the two of you before you start dating her.

Cold approaching girls can be terrifying, especially if you’re not very familiar with it, but you can win over any girl you like by building your confidence and learning body language. In addition, learn how to act in a way that makes you comfortable, without worrying about any failure. Take care of your appearance and go for it!

Types of Women You Will Meet While Doing Cold Approach

Let’s have a look on what women think about men who are trying to cold approach them:

A girl says “For me this depends on the quality of the approach, it is the context and situation when it is appropriate for me to randomly talk to a stranger.

If the approach is in the club, of course I can accept it easily because the place itself is known for meeting new people. Thus, it is not unusual for a guy to approach a girl in this place.

I would say to men, never cold approach a girl that you see regularly at work, in class, at etc… because frankly, that’s a bit rude. If you do not even know whether there is a mutual attraction, then avoid cold approaching her. it is an inappropriate way to build this attraction or confirm its existence, and then go for it.

I think that there are two types of women, every time a man approaches her, he can meet one of two women:

Type 1: The woman who doesn’t care about you, and who gets annoyed with your approaching style, and may response negatively.

Type 2: The woman who will be interested in you and is enthusiastic about your approach. Definitely she will response positively to your approach.

Cold approach has many benefits including:

  • A cold approach lets you know that you can go out randomly and engage with women you like.
  • With a cold approach, you can rely on yourself.
  • One of the benefits is that you can go anywhere you want, whenever you want, and you can meet new women just by walking around.
  • There are always endless options for you if you live in a big city.
  • You can improve yourself with the cold approach. The cold approach can be an opportunity to confront your (social) fears, learn more about people, and practice reading body language, social dynamics, and nonverbal cues.

In general, the cold approach is a tool for freedom. You can practice it in any way you want, and the more you practice it the more professional you will become in it.

Well, there are some disadvantages too for cold approach, such as:

  • The cold approach may affect your ego, success in it is statistical luck. A series of rejections can undermine a person’s confidence and self-esteem.
  • In cold approach, a girl knows nothing about you, except what she might see with her own eyes: from how you look, and how you come across in the first minutes or seconds.
  • Early interactions in the cold approach may be fragile, but you can look for quantity instead of quality.
  • If you practice the cold approach for a long time, it can cause a risk to your reputation.

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