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It’s possible that your girlfriend is upset with you, but it’s also likely that she’s dealing with a difficult situation unrelated to you. In any case, don’t press her to talk right away if you’re receiving unpleasant sensations from her.
Allow her to relax for a while, give her some time to think. Leaving her alone will also allow you the time to reflect on your own feelings, keeping your emotions under control is so important when dealing with women.
Has your girlfriend’s attitude toward you altered at all? Is it conceivable that you’re depressed or concerned about something, and you’re imagining her behavior to be more extreme than it is?
She may be always been chilly toward you, and in the beginning, you accept that as how she is. But as the relationship progresses, you’re starting to feel that you don’t like how she acts anymore, and it’s something you are not willing to tolerate anymore.
Does Silence Help in a Relationship?
Have you recently gone through a terrible time with your girlfriend? Relax this is totally normal, people in relationships argue all the time.
Perhaps you’ve been pressuring her for more attention recently, and she’s finding it difficult to meet your demands, causing her to withdraw.
It’s possible that you and your girlfriend misunderstood how much time you want to spend together or how often you want to talk. Are you being consistent?
What If she was acting this way during the beginning of the relationship, and you accepted it, but now you have decided that you need more attention.
Setting the rules early on in a relationship is so important, she does need some consistency on how to behave around you. It’s a good rule to decide early, on what you need from a relationship, and slowly ask for it from your girlfriend over time.
This will not only be good for yourself, but also for her too, consistency is key to a good relationship.
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Should you make a girl feel guilty for ignoring you?
Some men think this is a good strategy to get the power back in the relationship, I would totally disagree. Remember with every action, there is an often equal reaction in the other direction.
Don’t think that you can dominate your girlfriend, she will probably act submissive, however, she will secretly be planning your downfall afterwards. Be mature and fair at all times, other wise you will regret it.
Discuss how often you’d like to communicate with her and what she requires in return from the relationship. Try to strike a balance between your two requirements, compromise is key to a good relationship.
It’s tempting to ignore her or try to make her jealous, but it’s neither healthy nor effective.
Furthermore, ignoring your girlfriend back if she is depressed or dealing with another unpleasant personal issue will only cause more problems with her and your relationship, you don’t want to act childish, by vindictively making things worse for her.
Being immature could seriously harm your relationship permanently, all you’ll be achieving is proving to her that you can not be trusted.
Make yourself happy by doing the following:
- Visit friends,
- go to the gym,
- start a new hobby
- Meet new girls
- be sociable
What do you do when your partner ignores you?
How do you tell if your girlfriend is mad at you? You need to still be courteous and respectful to your partner while taking time for yourself.
Don’t dismiss her, listen carefully, not only to what she is saying but to the meaning behind those words. Also, make sure that she knows you have a life away from her, she shouldn’t feel that you are using this life to get back at her in any way either.
Go hang out with your friends, forget about the trouble with her, try to clear your mind, then return with a fresh perspective on what has played out.
Try not to think about how hurt/upset you are by your girlfriend’s behavior. Remind yourself that she can’t “make” you feel anything and that you have a choice: you can admit that you’re upset, but you don’t have to let that stop you from living your life.
You may not be able to contact your girlfriend by phone or in-person if she is entirely ignoring you. If you know she’s still receiving your texts, you may send her a message expressing your concern and inviting her to meet up for a chat.
Use empathic body language if you manage to meet up with her in person to discuss whats been going wrong. This will demonstrate maturity to her and that you care about hearing her side of the story, and it should encourage her to speak out.
Communication is the key to fixing most of the problems with relationships these days. With everyone staring at their mobile phones most of the time, we have lost the most basic of communication skills.
That’s not saying things were better in the past, I’d argue that things are slightly better today in a weird twist of fake, but either way, communication is the key to solving most dating and relationship problems. Remember that.
Instead of trying to accuse her of doing something wrong, calm down, remember peaceful communication focuses the mond on your thoughts and feelings.
A woman does not want to be in a relationship where she has to teach a man how to be a man she can admire, respect, and fall in love with.
If you don’t know what made your girlfriend quit talking to you, you need to figure it out before you approach her; else, she’ll think you’re not ready for a relationship with someone like her.
Rather than asking her to assist you in becoming the kind of man she requires, figure out where you’ve been going wrong and begin making changes to your conduct.
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