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Let’s be real, most men are invisible to women, they do not care about the majority of men who cross their path on a daily basis. Hell, if you were to ask a hot girl to describe any details of any man she has come in contact with during the last 24 hours, she would not be able to tell you one single detail about any of them.

Taking this into account, if a girl is looking in your direction, there is a good chance that she is physically attracted to you and in this blog post, I’ll be discussing what you should do about it.

• Most of the time she’s attracted to you
• It’s a far better mindset, to just assume she’s attracted to you
• She made eye contact as an invitation to approach her
• Decide whether you are attracted to her or not
• Do you approach her or not

Women Don’t Approach Men

Women don’t approach men, it’s just not in their nature, so they need to use other techniques to attract the man they desire. Let’s address women who approach first.

If a woman approaches you, there is a good chance that she is damaged goods, women who do this are going against nature. When you think of the types of women who approach men, they are extremely promiscuous or even in extreme cases, prostitutes.

The feminine is chased, the feminine is supposed to be protecting their innocence or at least giving token resistance.

Strong Eye Contact is an Invitation

One tactic women have been using for thousands of years, is strong eye contact and slight seductive moves of the body. This is designed to trigger the male to approach, if you go into any night club, you will witness women doing this every night.

A girl will spot a guy she’s attracted to and instead of approaching him, she will give him strong eye contact from across the room or on the dance floor. This will encourage the guy to approach her in most cases depending on how confident he is.

Most men are invisible to women

Dave Lee

Male Confidence

How often do women say that ”confidence” is important to them? Whenever women are asked, what is an attractive trait in men, women always say confidence. What does this really mean?

She doesn’t mean that a confident man is attractive, this is not it at all. She is speaking from personal experience, when she has spotted a guy who she’s attracted to and made strong eye contact with him, but he didn’t approach her.

Women get frustrated when a guy who they are attracted to doesn’t approach them, her job is to simply make strong eye contact and the man’s job is to make the approach. And if he doesn’t make the approach, she has no other tools at her disposal, from her point of view, it’s game over.

If this sounds like you, here is the solution, it will get you on the right track.

Are You Attracted to Her?

Once eye contact has been made, the clock is ticking for you to decide whether she’s attractive enough to you or not. She won’t wait forever for you to do something, she has things to do too. This is not exactly the 3 second rule, but time is limited, so make a decision.

Assume the Conversation has Already Started

If you have decided to do something about it, go over to her and simply assume the conversation has already started. Don’t justify your existence as a man, by explaining why you came over to talk to her. There’s no need to give a reason for talking to her and definitely don’t give a commentary on what just happened.

There’s no need to explain how you guys were just making eye contact and this made you decide to come over for a chat, none of this is needed.

Logistics

This is one of the most important aspects of cold approach that I like to focus on, when talking to girls. In this particular case, you should find out two things, let’s keep it simple.

• What is she doing now? Is she busy
• If she’s busy, line up a date in the future

If she’s busy right now, you need to figure out what she likes to do for fun, then suggest you both do it together in the future. If she agrees, then you should grab her number. Text her within 1 hour of getting her number (very important).

If she’s free right now, you should invite her to hang out with you for a while and have a chat to get to know each other better. Don’t forget not to get her contact information afterwards.

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Here are some of my best posts:

• Cold approach is a lifestyle (My Philosphy)
• What is indirect daygame
• What I say to Girls (Logistics)
• How to Write a PickUp field report
• How to spot a fake dating coach
• How I got laid in Japan (epic post)
• Why Thailand is NO longer good for getting laid

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