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When a girl totally disappears, without even showing enough respect to at least tell you why she has disappeared in the first place, this is the main reason why ghosting has such a bad reputation at the moment.
Imagine you met a girl, then agreed to go on a date with her, after the date you thought that everything was okay, you thought the date went well.
Then…. NOTHING
You send her a test the next day but she doesn’t reply. Maybe she’s busy with work, maybe something came up, well that’s what you convince yourself.
A few days pass, yet no reply from her, so you start to worry it’s over, to be honest, deep down you already know it’s over. So, you send one more text. No reply again.
You give it a few more days, it’s now the next weekend and you’ve been thinking about this all week at this point in time. You get to the point where you at least want some closure, it’s would be nice if she at least told you it was over so you could move on. But nothing.
This is what it feels like to be ghosted….
The harsh truth is, she sees you as so unimportant, that she literally forgot you even existed, she decided to see you as if you are not even human and to move on with her life like you never met her.
She’s most probably got a new guy to date, maybe he’s made a better impression on her than you, maybe he’s even taking her home right now.
It’s difficult to imagine this, however, it is the harsh reality of what you are going through right now.
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How Common is Ghosting?
What does it mean to be ghosted by a Girl? Before even getting into details, we would like to say something. There is nothing wrong with you if a girl ghosted you.
It can be very confusing and strange to you. Unlike a real ghost, it leaves you thrown for a loop instead of scared. Buddy! Just consider it a wonderful stroke of luck.
Instead of over-thinking, it is way better to understand ghosting and the potential reasons behind it. It will enable you to process in a sound manner. In fact, it allows you to know the reason and help her if the reason is valid.
Ghosting is quite prevalent. A 2018 survey revealed that around 80% of millennial singles have been ghosted at least once in their lives. Ouch!
That is not it. Another survey brought to light that according to 71% of the men, ghosting is an everyday phenomenon in the digital era. Oh, Man! Let us now set things straight.
Guys! It is now a great time to dig deep into the details below. First, let us briefly understand what ghosting is.
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What is the Definition of Ghosting?
Women who don’t reply, don’t turn up for a date, basically when a girl disappears without any reason or explanation. This is what ghosting is, but more importantly, ghosting is the act of not explaining why the girl has decided to disappear, this is the real mystery about ghosting that keeps men guessing.
In essence, ghosting refers to the abrupt cut-off with someone without explaining or reason. It is a relatively new, novel term in the dating vocab. The contact remains off even when the person ghosted tries to re-connect. Sounds terrible, right! It surely is.
Putting the term ghosting in a line will be “vanishing in the thin air.” Now, it is time to get a bit of the context.
Potential Reasons She Ghosted You
Let us now round off the potential reasons behind a girl ghosting you. Mate, take a deep breath and dive straight in.
- First, she might have a breakup or got divorced. Now, this means she is having a hard time and has not been able to process it well. Actually, she might be on the rebound, and her emotions are out of balance. And, in the heat of the moment, she reached you because of the loneliness and hard time.
- Next, her emotional unavailability took control. Just a tip. If you sense this in the early time, prepare yourself and take things slow. If you did not catch the red flags, no problem. At least you got the lesson. Emotional unavailability can wreck any relationship. Some of the early symptoms of emotional unavailability are mood swings, addictive behavior, excessive praise, bashing, rudeness, or speeding up things.
Brother, know that you cannot fix her. It is her job to work on this. You can just give her hints.
- She has a bad experience of being in a relationship with aggressive boys, having anger management issues. Honestly, in such cases, her behavior and ghosting make a lot of sense. She ghosting you can be due to her trauma or fear of having the same experience again. If you reconnect, you can lend a helping hand and make her believe in good.
- That is girl is just crazy! This is a less prevalent case. You can recall the time with your girl and know if that was the issue. Now, there is a higher chance that she might be a sociopath or has a narcissistic personality disorder. Guys, alert! Such girls are pros at manipulations. That is why; you have to play it very safe next time and observe the next one carefully.
- There can be a possibility that she got back with an ex. This mostly occurs when a girl has a long relationship. Still, ghosting is not a way to do that.
Buckle up yourself, boy! Now, you know the potential reasons and signs. You have to be smart now. If it still happens again, do not worry. Get your game going and stay strong. Talk to your friends or dating coach if you still feel it challenging. Good luck!
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