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Women are attracted to men who look approachable and friendly. Men who seem to be generous and somewhat charitable. Being tall is number one on most women’s list, humour is a close 3rd.

However, none of these characteristics matter if a man is poor, without a career and uneducated.

Height is one of the most important things that make a man attractive and it’s something you cannot change.

Dave

What Makes a Guy Attractive?

What Do Women Find Attractive in Men? Most guys are on a never-ending quest to appear more intriguing, desirable, and beautiful to the other sex, whether it’s through grueling gym sessions, intellectual refinement, or personal shopping sprees.

It’s not our fault; it’s how we’re wired.

However, you might be committing more dating mistakes than you realize.

I’ve included seven (mostly non-physical) attributes that women find appealing in males below. They happily debunk some of the tall, dark, and gorgeous cliches that guys despise but believe women adore.

Instead, here are a some of the most enticing features and attributes that every guy should strive to embody, ranging from a generous attitude to the power of approachability…

A mans nationality can be a signal of status that women find attractive too. Yup, how very superficial, but hey, welcome to reality

Dave

Approachability

A promising start; it pays not to be overly attractive. Of course, men with symmetrical features, chiseled jawline, and beautiful hair will always score better in the attractiveness criteria, but multiple studies have found that when seeking for a long-term companion, women prefer approachable, ordinary looks.

According to a Florida State University study, women are still more prone to seek out stereotypically handsome guys for short-term flings.

Ordinary-looking gentlemen, on the other hand, have an advantage if they’re seeking for a long-term partnership.

The findings were explained in 2017 by researchers who suggested that handsome males in peak physical shape can make women feel inferior and force them to diet or exercise in order to ‘keep up.’

Selflessness

Another good discovery is that most women will still prefer gentle and attentive men to ‘bad boys.’ Over 200 women were asked to rate a dozen online dating profiles in a 2016 dating study created by the universities of Worcester and Sunderland, and the majority favoured the altruistic options over the usually handsome but less giving males.

It’s logical. Who wants to be with a man who is attractive on the surface but lacks decency or gallantry? Women searching for a one-night stand, on the other hand, would still prioritize looks above compassion, which is excellent news for monogamists but bad news for aspiring playboys.

Sense of Humour

Act as though you’re not surprised. Women have been teaching men for years that a sense of humour is not just necessary, but maybe the most important and beautiful attribute a guy can have.

We, the skeptics, have raised our eyebrows in response to the assertion. However, it passes muster.

Being funny is one thing; being a clown is quite another. Be confident in yourself enough to laugh at yourself, but not at the expense of others.

A good chuckle may lift spirits and make everyone in the room feel better. Men who express themselves in small ways are attracted to women. Don’t be scared to be stupid or foolish.

Financially secure men will always win, when a woman is preparing to settle down.

Dave

Men With Pets

That’s correct, if you have a dog, the fairer sex will immediately think you’re more attractive. It’s a common misconception, but there have been a few studies that support the idea that a man’s best buddy can improve his chances with women.

The most important of these is that having a dog helps you appear to be a more caring person.

According to a men’s dating advice study published in the scientific journal Anthrozoos in 2015 titled ‘The Roles of having Pets like Dogs and Cats in Human Courtship and Dating,’ women are twice as likely to be drawn to a man with a pet than men are to be attracted to women who have pets.

This shows that he’s stable and can care for someone else, which means he might be able to care for her. And the science behind it is straightforward: Women are hardwired to be drawn to men that have the potential to be excellent Father’s.

Light (thin) Beard

We’re attempting to stay away from physical characteristics here. After all, advising women that guys over six feet tall are more handsome (spoiler: they are) isn’t going to help the shorter gentlemen.

But, with the exception of the follicularly challenged, practically every adult man can develop facial hair — and a light beard can work wonders when it comes to dating.

The University of New South Wales undertook groundbreaking study in 2013 to establish the ideal length of facial hair for attracting females.

A light beard or heavy stubble was strongly preferred by over 350 heterosexual women. It’s a pleasingly reachable level of scruff to aspire for, displaying virility, maturity, and masculinity.

Patience in a Man

Men with a gentle, calm voice appeal to females. But why is that? Because they have the upper hand. Women don’t want a man who whines, complains, or is always rushed and stressed out when it comes to patience. Fathers who are patient are more often than not terrific fathers.

Humans have a natural need to teach; we often do it via talking, but no matter what the subject, we gain a sense of purpose by sharing what we know.

It might be about meaningless drama, complex engineering, or anything else with which we can describe our own experience or point of view. As a result, a man must be patient in order to listen to all of the ladies’ nonsense and stories.

Fun and Spontaneous

No girl wants to be stuck in a boring and predicable relationship that is both boring and uninteresting. Fun men appeal to women because they keep them guessing throughout the relationship.

You don’t have to engage in any games; only maintain a sense of mystery. Woo her like a god damn magician who enthralls the crowd.

Tall Men Are More Valuable Than Short Men to Women

What is your height? Height is very important and we know you cannot change this one. While this is not true for 100% of all women, the vast majority women are drawn to tall guys.

It’s most commonly linked with high school partnerships in which women outgrow men. However, the adage “tall, dark, and attractive” applies to grownups as well.

Assurance and Confidence

Yeah, it’s a cliche. The way you answer exudes confidence. You say no to something if you don’t want to do it, and yes to something if you do. Men who say no and are willing to walk away generally receive what they want in the end, just like when bargaining.

A Large D – You Know What I Mean

Most women find tough and hilarious males in bed appealing. Make her wishes come true. Don’t be frightened to assert yourself. A little levity in your under the sheets life can help you form a stronger bond.

Confidence, too, can help. Inquire as to what she enjoys the most. Don’t make assumptions or be concerned about her response. Rather than just performing, aim to impress.

Here are some of my best posts:

• Cold approach is a lifestyle
• How to get a younger girlfriend
• What is indirect daygame
• How to spot a fake dating coach
• How I got laid in Japan (epic post)
• Why Thiland is NO longer good for getting laid

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