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The Purpose Of Daygame Logistics?
Logistics is a novel idea that I’ve brought to the dating industry, which I’m quite proud of. It comes from my own experience of frustration trying to line up a date via text.
Every part of a pick up is process connected, from the first thing you say to her, all the way to the bedroom. After decades of cold approaching girls, I learned that scheduling a date via text was one of the most difficult aspects of my system.
When I’d send a girl a text asking her to come out on a date with me on a specific day, time and location. Sometimes she would reply with ”sorry I’m busy that day”, sometimes it was work, sometimes it was university.
No matter what the reason for her being busy, she would never send me her schedule for the week. Very rarely she would send the second message telling me when she was free next.
They never thought that I’d like to know when she’s free next, they rarely made it easy for me to line up date.
So, I found myself thinking hard about how to keep the text conversation warm, while trying to figure out when she was possible free for a date.
Then after strategically keeping the conversation alive, I’d throw in another date invite via text. It was always a gamble whether she was available for a date on the day I chose.
Texting girls from a huge disadvantage, simply because I didn’t have the right information to help me line up a date. This was costing me a large amount of contacts, because after a few rejections via text, many of these girls would end up going cold and ghosting me.
When a girl says she’s busy on the day you invite her out on a date, very rarely in my experience, will she tell you the next day she’s available to date you. She’ll just tell you she’s busy and leave it at that, which makes organising a date with her quite difficult. Getting her logistics during the cold approach will help make texting and lining up a date smoother for you.
Dave – One Man’s Life Mission
What Cold Approach Logistics Do You Need To Know?
Don’t go into interview mode !!
Girls in general are not going to drive an hour for a date with you, nor are they going out of their way to date you either. It’s just not how women are, especially when you are in the early stages of a relationship, she won’t put in any effort.
So, you need to make the whole process as frictionless as possible.
This is why guys usually pay on the first date, pick her up and drive her around and organise everything. Because if you make it even slightly difficult for her, she may prefer to simply stay at home and you won’t get a shot at dating her.
- Where Approximately does she live?
- You don’t need to know her address or what street she lives in. If you ask questions too personal, she might think you’re a creep, so just ask what suburb approximately. The reason is, if she lives only 5 minutes walk from the spot you met her, then you know where the date should be organised. Girls can be lazy, if you suggest a cafe or restaurant that’s close to her home, she can walk to meet you and leave if she doesn’t like you. This reduces the risk for her.
- Where does she work? (Location and industry)
- Now you know the distance between where she works and lives. Also, you know the day and time you are meeting her right now during the cold approach. With all this information, you can figure out with far more accuracy when and where to set the date.
- Usually when a girl tells you where she works, she will add her job title too. Whatever job title she gives you will help you to know what industry she’s in. For instance ”barista” now you know she starts early in the morning, can work everyday (including the weekend) and finishes work early in the afternoon.
- Here’s an example : You cold approach a girl in the city at 6pm on a Tuesday afternoon. She tells you that she works in the city as an accountant but lives 30 minutes away by train. Now you know that if she’s available on a Friday night for a drink, you can text her inviting her out in the city after 5pm. But, if she’s only free on the weekend, you should invite her to a date location near her home (30 minutes away by train). You don’t want to invite her to a date in the city on the weekend, because she’ll have to catch the train 30 minutes both ways and this will decrease the probability of her turning up. This makes it easier for her to agree to a date with you, because there’s less effort on her end.
- What is she doing right now? At this point, you effectively have all the logistical information you need to organise a date, the easiest location and best time, with the highest probability of her accepting your date offer. Now, you can go all in and try for an instant date right this moment, as long as she is free. Why not go for it right now!
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Here are some of my best posts:
- Cold approach is a lifestyle
- How to get a younger girlfriend
- What is indirect daygame
- How to spot a fake dating coach
- How I got laid in Japan (epic post)
- Why Thailand is NO longer good for getting laid
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