Five ways to create sexual tension with a Girl. Number five is you should always be willing to walk away, and she should know that you should always have this abundance kind of mindset.

An Independant Man Who Doesn’t Need Her Is Very Attractive

Dave

She Knows You Will Leave At Any Moment

A lot of people talk about it. I know. But you should be willing to walk away at any moment. And it shouldn’t just be a surprise to her. She shouldn’t just be like, deep down, you’re getting frustrated, and then you just walk away.

She’s like, what happened? She should feel that. She should know that. And if she doesn’t know that, you should let her know. And you can do that by saying things like, you can just go back to your place if you like, I can just go home alone.

Let her know that you’re happy to go home alone and she can go back to her place. Or look, if your friends are doing something more exciting, you’re welcome to go out and hang out with your friends. If you got something else and you got work tomorrow, it’s okay. Go do that. What’s more important that’s letting her know that you can walk away.

If even the smallest thing gets in the way for her, she can go do that. And you’re totally okay with that. If anything, you insist that she goes and does. It doesn’t matter what it is. She’s got to wash her hair like the old excuse, sorry, I can’t come out on a date today because I’ve got to wash my hair.

Ask her, have you got to wash your hair? If you got to wash your hair, maybe we shouldn’t go back to my place. So let her know that she’s free to leave and you’re more than happy to let her go. And you’re more than willing to walk away at any moment. This is key.

This is very powerful. And you cannot really build sexual attraction if you are constantly chasing her and you’re so needy and she knows that you’ve got nothing else on. I met a girl recently, and we’re going back to my place, and she was saying that there’s this guy that was just so desperate to her, and he said that he wanted to get a hotel that night and take it to the hotel. And what did I say?

I said, well, the hotel is probably better than my place. You should probably get a hotel with him. And then I went in with a hotel. He must be really desperate to get a piece of you or he just doesn’t have any other options. Right?

You see where I’m going here? Sure. If he’s got a hotel, the hotel is better than my place. Maybe it’s cleaner, maybe it’s got a spa bath. You go.

But this guy that is so desperate to get her, he’s willing to get a hotel room. And then that shows that he doesn’t have many options. And so, therefore, she’s got him. She can go meet him anytime. This guy is desperate for her.

Ignore Her Shit Tests

It’s hard to build sexual tension when you’ve got no other options. So what you have to do is at least pretend you have options. The best way is to always be willing to walk away. Okay? And so when I told her, look, you should go get the hotel.
Maybe all three of us should go back to his hotel. It was like a joke. And then she said, oh, no, it’s not that he’s desperate. It’s that he’s got lots of money. He can afford that.

So she was, like defending him. I said, well, look, you should probably stay at the hotel. He’d probably come back to my place and go stay at his hotel. But she knew that I could always walk away. That is your fundamental platform.

You need that. Don’t fully answer her questions. So you’re going to get a lot of what people call shit tests. She’s going to try and I get it all.

Remember last time I told you guys, I dye my hair. So I looked younger. But then she said, you don’t look 28, I’ve been 28 for over a decade now, maybe longer now. But I wouldn’t fully answer her questions.

It’s like, what do you do for work, you know? Well, I’m an author now. What’s the book? I can’t tell you that. I just didn’t tell her.

I’ll just skip around it. What am I doing? What am I doing for work? Give us some vague answers. By not fully answering all of her questions in a logical manner and giving her everything that she wants.

Well, she has more to get. She wants to find out more things that create this form of mystery, like the mystery of the man. But what it does is that she doesn’t fully own all the information. And there’s something about women when they know everything about it, it’s as if you’re less important at that point. It’s weird.

So don’t answer her questions fully. Don’t give a full answer. I guess it’s also that you’re not really talking about yourself too much as well. You want to get her talking as well. Three is very important.

Lead Her To Build Sexual Tension

Once you’ve established that she can go and you can walk away at any stage and there’s a little bit of mystery there, you must lead. Three is lead. So you sit down to eat. Just say you sit down and you get the menus out.

Don’t even ask me. Your order. Okay, we’re going to have this, this. So if she wants to order, that’s no problem at all. But that’s leading. You’re taking charge. As soon as you finish eating, go. Okay, let’s go. We’re going to the next place. So where are we going?

Do I get this? We’re going to a bar, we’re going to a cafe. We’re going to get dessert somewhere. Whatever you want to do. That’s leading.

We’re going to take this route to where we’re going. We’re going to do this and don’t really ask. See, women don’t really want you to be asking them, oh, where should we go? What should we do? It seems like you don’t know what you’re doing.

You’re not really a take-charge type of guy that leads and knows what he’s doing. I think that causes a lot of stress for women sometimes. Well, that’s my opinion. It feels like they get stressed when you’re asking them stupid questions. When you’re the man that’s supposed to lead and know what you’re doing, right.

So lead. That does build a lot of sexual tension because you’re ordering your ordering food, and you know where you’re going straight after there. You’re leading, you’re taking charge. That leads to the bedroom. Because a man has to take charge in the bedroom as well, right.

That’s generally how it works. Free is very important. You start building sexual attention by leading on the date. You’re leading in the bedroom. That makes sense, right?

Be Comfortable With Silence

Two is something a lot of guys, struggle with on dates. They’re with a beautiful girl. She’s more beautiful than they’ve ever been before. And there’s silence. They want to fill that silence with a dribble.They just want to dribble all night. Don’t do that. Just be comfortable with the silence.

I just don’t care if she wants to fill it. That means she’s nervous, right? It’s better than you chirping away like a little bitch. Get what I mean, right?

You get it. Don’t be filling the silences. Be comfortable in the silence. And if you try to fill the silences, that’s evidence that you’re out of your League and women can see that. And that doesn’t build attraction.

Imagine Taking Her Home And Everything Happening Perfectly

One, one. Now, this is my own little thing. I tried when I was there was a point there when I was getting older, I started feeling a little bit more nervous with some of the girls. She’s so beautiful. What is she doing with Grandpa? What is this beautiful girl doing with Grandpa? Like me.

And those times when I just couldn’t imagine I’m out on a date with this beautiful girl. I could not imagine myself sleeping with her in my bed. I just couldn’t imagine it. And I was able to just run my method and get these girls that were just way out of my League back to my bedroom. And then it was as if then they’re like, oh, no, it’s okay.

Let’s not do it. And nothing would happen sexually at home. Now, I tried this mental hack where I imagined while I was on the date as if it was going to happen no matter what. I look at her and go, that’s a beautiful girl. That’s a beautiful body.

When I get home, I’m going to take her clothes off like this. These are the positions I’m going to put her in when she’s back in my bedroom. This is how it’s going to play out. And it’s going to be awesome. I’m going to do this.

I’m going to take a bra off. I’m going to take this off. I’m going to take her high heels off. Then I’m going to lay her on the bed. This is how I’m going to do it.

And I would imagine it while on the date. Not like in a weird way where I’m sitting there looking at her like, imagine. She’s like, what are you doing? I’m imagining it as if it’s going to happen.

Manifest a Victory in Your Mind

And that made me more centered and made me actually believe that I could do it. And it’s a weird mental hack where I believe it was possible by imagining it. I guess some people would talk about this, the secret and things like that. Maybe that is it. It’s visualizing the victory right before you actually do it.

And this is something that you could possibly try. It tends to work for me. So I will be out with a girl where general society would be like, what is this beautiful girl doing with Grandpa and myself? I feel a little bit nervous as well. What is she doing with me? My day game is awesome.

How did this happen? Whoops and couldn’t imagine it happening. And I would somehow just not have the mental stability to make it happen. Maybe she sensed it. But then when I started just visioning, it happened. Then my success rate started to increase. I read a book a while ago.

What was it the mental game of tennis or something like that? I played tennis a long time ago but yet the mental game of tennis is just having the mental fortitude to out-think your opponent and envisioning a win.

So one I think is important and it will be good if you guys can test that out let me know what you think about it tends to work for me and if you’re not having success, what do you got to lose? Try it, it might work. Might not work. Who knows?

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