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Pick-up Artist Techniques That Will Get You a Girlfriend. “She’s not into me”, he shouted at his friends that props him to have won the heart of the hottest and most beautiful girl in town.

The guy named Mike happened to have won some laurel as a musician. Although he has been in many relationships as a superstar musician growing up, all was a failure as he had some mixed feelings about their genuine love for him and not for his fame and wealth.

Lately, he met a girl tagged “The unreachable for no one in the town” at a famous restaurant trying to order for her menu. Mike went straight to her table, took a sit and requested her to hand over the menu she bid for.

There were little conversations and an exchange of contact. They both left on their way, but you know, a conversation like that is not a done and dusted (I mean, one-time thing)

Do Pick-Up Artist Techniques Work?

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He asked her out for dinners at different locations which he thought had softened her heart, as she displayed some Interest that flared up in her chest and gurgled over, filling her whole body.

They do many things together and appeared in public as a couple to be, but Mike suddenly realized he’s sucked at socializing and there’s still a gap to cover in order to have an ideal bond. He decided to put her through some test but unfortunately she failed.

He was so frustrated and upset and thought of staying away from any relationship since all was not real. One evening, he saw a guy with his partner heading in the same direction with him.

He tried to examined their connection and study how the guy manages his lady. He was forced to seek permission from the lady to speak to her guy.

Then, he asked politely, “how did you do it?” The guy calmly told him to use the pick-up artist techniques by Neil Strauss’s book, The Game; “Disguised in the Secret Society of Pick-up Artists”.

Then, he began a quest into the concept and the intrigues of techniques used by the pick-up artists.

What’s Pick-up Artist Technique?

Pick-up artist techniques (PUA) are dishonest ways so-to-say of manipulating ladies emotionally to lower their self-esteem to get undue advantage and treat them as an object.

Some pick-up artists believed that women are deceitful shrews determined to take men’s money, and so it’s impeccable justification to use tactics to bait them do their bid.

Though, some techniques had been criticized by the public and tagged as “objectifying and horrifying”, because of the effect on the victim, but largely, most of it is widely accepted as it has contributed up to 80% real deal and relationship leading to marriage.

Valuable Pick-up Artist Techniques. Some pick-up artists adopt these tactics genuinely in the spirit of loving and respect for woman.

There are a number of values from the PUA techniques that virtually any man could apply to better himself romantically. These tricks are categorized in to; Attraction stage, Comfort stage, and Seduction stage which are discuss below.

Attraction stage – PUA Techniques

Improving physical attractiveness by using accidental and social touching – When you touch a lady frequently, and gradually increasing the body contact, it makes them feel comfortable.

This graduate into testing your boundaries which I think the idea is simple enough to make you attracted to the woman.

For instance, hugging or a high-five hand shake while greeting, spinning moves, faking accidental brushing through her back and touching of her hair and shoulder are some of the tricks that allow you to get deep into her, and this might skyrocket her affection for you.

Start conversations with assertiveness and confidence

 All women feel special when they hear a pick up line that complement their efforts and makes them feel natural. Words like, “you are so beautiful”, or “you smell nice” make her chuckles when pronounced without fidgeting. 

Cracking a joke or comment on what is happening around you, and listen as well to what she has to say gives you the opportunity to craft a better response.

Also, asking few questions about her life, job and what she does for fun, and make sure you have frequent eye contact during your conversations. These break the ice and put them at ease.

Pay adequate attention to your appearance – To be confident enough to speak to a beautiful woman, you need to look good, smell nice, eat right or have regular exercise to keep you fit.

Not necessarily to have six-pack, but to feel self-conscious about your body and presenting yourself healthy and comfortable.

Addition of new options to your wardrobe will also raise your self-confidence and makes you appear more trendy, smart and composed. Your personal hygiene is of ultimate important to make her proud she’s in your life.

Rewarding positive and attractive behaviors – Human being loves being eulogized for things done right. Applauding a lady and reward her with a gift occasionally when she does the right thing increases her trust and makes her feel secure and comfortable.

Investing in the relationship – Nothing meaningful develops if no one is ready to take responsibility, because relationships are based on social exchange.

To win a woman’s heart, man needs to show the capability of picking up bills and incur some expenses. However, this act must be done with moderation to avoid being seen as a bait or inducement.

Comfort Stage – PUA Techniques

Showing awareness and empathy – Pick-up artists use empathy to show that they really understand how woman feels and express their best intentions. Sometimes, they say “oh! Sorry, I should have been of help”, or “I’m sorry, my bad”.

These words indicate their kindness and respect for women and create a better chance to discuss personal issues and get deep in their hearts.

Women is unlikely to turn you down or ask you to leave when you use this trick because, they see you as go to person whenever they feel concerned. Your thought keeps running in their mind and can’t wait to see you anytime soon.

Being a little reserved, Indefinable and hard to get – I mean women necessarily don’t have to know everything about you. You keep them guessing for a period of time to know your next steps, and stands on sensitive related issues. Also, creating artificial scarcity betwixt you increases your chance of being unique.

Faking being busy sometimes gets her to want you more and doubled her affection for you.

Being funny and creative – A funny guy wins a woman’s heart quickly and easily. Women love comical things and enjoyed little play. If you can make a woman laugh with jokes, creative play and gestures, she will feel comfortable around you naturally.

You will keep crossing her mind thousands of times a day. She will entrust all her life to you because she’s experiencing security and fulfillment.

Go out for relaxation and fun – Going to cinemas, club or stadium to watch matches together build her affection and boost your chances of winning her heart completely to yourself

Show good judgment and handle negative issues appropriately – A woman could be left in awe if you treat negative or embarrassing issues appropriately and with maturity. Making her feels the situation is under control increase her affection, trust and respect for you.

Seduction Stage – PUA Techniques

Be a good kisser – Women appreciate men that had perfected their kissing skill. They expect their man to know where to hold and how to hold them perfectly. They prefer a slow-kisser to savor the moment a little longer.

Gradually increasing the intensity of touch – Touching helps to instill your true love in a woman. Holding her hands during a walk, touch her shoulder to adjust the sleeve, gently bush her back to dust off the dirt really keep things running smooth and help you gauge whether or not there’s chemistry between you.

Understand and support your partner – Making a woman feel at ease during conversation permit her to express her thought and feelings sincerely. They tend to become loose when you listen, especially when they realized you provide solutions or a support. This is a motivation for getting laid.

Increasing Arousal thinking through conversation subjects – Take advantage of some situations by introducing sexual discuss. Make your points firm and listen as well to her views on the subject matter.

Make effort to understand not only what she says but also what she reserved as secret to fully examine and subject your relationship to sexual test.

In conclusion, there’s no distinct or supernatural solution to getting love. However, some ideas and approaches can increase the chances of success.

Make sure you examine and choose the one that suit your standards and disposition. Then, with practice, you can find your desired love.