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Some people out there will say that you are a hero for becoming a stepfather. They are wrong and their advice will not only ruin your life, but you will most probably ruin the life of the child you’re adopting as well.

There are so many reasons why you should NEVER date a single mother and I’ll try scratch the surface of all of these problems.

Also, only a guy with very few options would ever consider dating a single mother. I’m here to tell you, that you have options, you just need to increase your cold approach skills and you will have more female options faster than you think.

Getting involved with a single mother should be an absolute last resort option. If anything else can be done, do that before considering a single mother as an option.

Never Date A Single Mother and become a Stepfather. There are no exceptions to this Law.

Dave – One Man’s Life Mission

One Night Stands Are Okay – But Be Warned

Sure, you can have one night stands or keep her on as a regular sex partner. But be warned, she will use sex to lure you into a relationship. Don’t fall for it, because it will ruin your life.

A girl who has a child to take care for is always on the look out for a provider who will support her and her child, this is at the top of her list. Imagine how difficult if would be, being a single parent, trying to raise a child.

Every aspect of her life would be devoted to her child’s every need. So, why is she sleeping with you in the first place? Ask yourself that. Sure, women like sex too, but she’s a busy single parent, with a huge work load, how does she have time to spend with you at all?

The answer is – She doesn’t. Her goal is to lure you into a relationship with her, so that you can take some of the financial and manual labour work load off her shoulders. And she thinks that transacting sex for that, is going to be enough for you.

A man with no game and no options may take the bait on this one. Only an absolute fool who is thinking with his dick would think this is a good idea.

Only a loser with no option’s. If you want to learn how to get more options, then join my groups, sign up to my newsletter and even contact me directly through this website.

A man with options would never think that’s a good deal, he will most likely sleep with her, but would never trade his freedom in for sex.

Only an absolute loser would do that and if you are considering dating or marrying a single mother, contact me for a coaching call. I’ll give you a good talking to and explain how many better options there are out in the world for you.

Is She Damaged Goods?

There’s only a few reasons why she is a single mother in the first place and only in a small amount of cases is it the man’s fault.

• She decided to leave the father because she was unhappy in the relationship(huge warning sign)
• The father left his child because the mother is damaged goods (he must have good reason to do so)
• Mutually agreed breakup. This means she is a terribly selfish woman, knowing how this will destroy the life of her child
• The father was ”abusive”, this is the least probable reason, while being the most common excuse women use.

A single mother by definition, is damaged goods and someone who you should avoid. There is almost no good reason for a woman to become a single mother, all of the warning signs above should be enough reason for you, but lets did a little deeper.

She decided to leave the father because ”she was unhappy in the relationship”. Enormous warning sign that she is a selfish, self centred piece of work. What type of scumbag would leave the father, knowing the disastrous ramifications for her child’s future for taking such selfish action. She’ll milk you for everything you have and leave when she’s unhappy with you too.

The father left her. In our modern society, women have far more rights than men. If the father left his child, this means that the mother is severely dangerous. She is likely to lie to authorities, she is most probably violent etc

When a man leaves his child, he does this out of fear. She’s possibly a psycho who is hiding her real self until you are trapped.

Mutually agreed breakup. Let’s just say they agreed to breakup and it was totally peaceful. She cannot plan even 1 year ahead of time, she’s a spontaneous lunatic who changes her mind depending on the weather. While simultaneously only thinking about herself, a selfish, spontaneous mother. Selfish girls think they deserve all your money, she’ll take everything you have and spontaneously do something better after ruining your life.

Father was abusive. Most of the time, they use this as an excuse for their own failures. I’d only ever believe a woman when she says this, if there’s solid evidence he was abusive. A court order for him to stay away is not evidence he did anything, it just evidence she’s capable of crying victim.

Never believe that he was abusive unless he’s in jail for it (even then, some men are put in jail for no reason). Other than providing solid evidence, you should be very careful with her, soon you will be the next guy being accused of being abusive if you get in a relationship with her.

She is a bad judge of character. Let’s just say the guy was violent, then she would have seen multiple obvious signs of his behaviour leading up to his becoming abusive towards her. This means that she is attracted to violent men too, which means that if you are not a violent man yourself, she’s looking for a beta provider for the short term.

Just so she can get back on her feet, next thing you’ll know, a big, jacked guy, covered in tattoos will be having sex with her behind your back. And maybe one day he’ll pay you a visit, because you are the beta provider after all.

Maybe your future is being cucked by the next bad boy that comes along. Might take her a few years to find one though. But be warned, he’s coming.

Stepfathers Have Zero Rights

If you ignore common sense advice and date or even marry a single mother, know that you have no rights. The kid is not yours and she will never allow you to act like the kid is yours.

There will be subtle signs every now and then, of her reminding you of your place. Remember, your job is to work and provide money to support someone else’s child. Nothing more.

Again, i’ll remind you that, if you are reading this because you are in such scarcity with women that in your desperation, you are seriously considering becoming a stepfather. Set up a coaching call with me and I’ll give you the hope you dearly need.

Here are some of my best posts:

• Cold approach is a lifestyle (My Philosphy)
• What is indirect daygame
• What I say to Girls (Logistics)
• How to Write a PickUp field report
• How to spot a fake dating coach
• How I got laid in Japan (epic post)
• Why Thailand is NO longer good for getting laid

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