How To Build Momentum In Daygame. Most people are scared to go out at the moment. Because of covid, there are many closed spaces like nightclubs or bars, and it’s difficult to start a conversation (daygame opener) with a stranger because of the face coverings.

You could try to defy the law and still try to lead a normal life, but there’s a high chance of receiving a fine.

Daygame is Life

Dave

Daygame 101

On the other hand, daygame is on the highest difficulty level at the moment, not only because people have their faces covered but also because there are police officers everywhere.

It’s difficult to make momentum, but you need to stop blaming the world. There will always be obstacles in daygame and in your life, so you need o face the fact that you and most men are responsible for your action.

You need to do your best when you go out and remember that as long as you follow the security measures and you are healthy, there’s not much to fear.
There are two types of momentum. The first one is the short-term momentum you build during the day. It’s about your daily routine and what keeps you moving during the day.

You shouldn’t waste hours on the daygame, it should be done around your daily routine. Be mindful that your first approach will be a tough one. Say hello to a neighbor, for example, but don’t expect too much, and this way, you will be building momentum during the day.

Daygame Momentum

The second one is the long-term momentum. You’re not only starting your engine for the day you’re also starting your engine long-term. If you have been doing approaches every day, after some months, starting your engine will be easier.

But if you haven’t done any approaches and you haven’t long-term momentum built up, your daily momentum is going to be very difficult.
If you don’t prepare daily, the moment you decide to make an approach you’re going to be overthinking, you’re going to be nervous, and possibly judge yourself.

You need to accept that the first couple of approaches is going to fail. You still should be doing your best to be as social as possible.

If you don’t go outside enough it will affect your mental health and you might start to feel scared to go outside. So, you need to challenge yourself a little every day.
Once we get our freedom back and go out there again, it’s natural if you feel anxiety and find it thought to build momentum. If you have a free hour after work, you can go grab a coffee or go for a walk and make a few approaches.

Daygame Like a Pro Daygamer

I suggest that you put a lot of pressure on yourself to make an approach. If you don’t make an approach during that hour and you go home and feel disappointed in yourself, build that up.

Be annoyed at yourself that you did nothing. That anger that you feel toward yourself is going to motivate you to make a few more approaches the next day.

That is the engine that drives the short-term momentum that builds up the long-term momentum.
Many men don’t make any approaches and make excuses for it.

However, these excuses are not valid. If you are not making enough approaches, then you’re not getting enough opportunities, which means are not getting enough leads, which definitely won’t get you many dates, getting laid, or a girlfriend.

All that goes back to how you behave when you start to build momentum from the very beginning.
Let me tell (single guys) a story about a man who had everything to be successful at daygame, but still failed.

He has a good career, dresses well, goes to the gym, and is an overall good-looking guy. There’s no reason why he shouldn’t have girls in his life. He makes good money, is very well-spoken, connects with people well, and is surrounded by friends.

Daygame Wingmen

Because he couldn’t get a successful approach he decided to seek out a coach. He found a coach that had developed a philosophy of the indirect game. His technique would include him sitting at a café where girls would walk in and somehow convince them to notice him.

He got a lot of success with this technique and that’s what he used to coach his new mentee.
However, despite being a very successful technique, the man complained about the coaching.

The problem was that, even though he was good-looking, well-spoken, had a lot of friends, and a good physique and there were no excuses for him not being surrounded by girls, he had extreme approach anxiety and didn’t get over it.
He would build momentum within one day, but he never built long-term momentum for days in a row.

He never got to that point, he would only approach on the weekends or after work sometimes and only accompanied by some guys who would make many approaches and who were aggressive with their approaches. Because he hung out with these guys, he was only pressured into making an approach because the guys pushed him to take action.

It never came from within. He was not motivated and did not take action. Instead of building momentum within himself, and short-term momentum by going out alone and trying to do it through consecutive days, to build long-term momentum, he was never able to implement any of what he was taught about daygame when he was being coached. He wouldn’t approach without wingmen who were yad stoppers.

Daygame Hacks

If you related in some way to that story, you should know that this is bad for you because it seems that you’re taking a lot of action, but in reality, the success rate is very low. When you compare this success rate it looks like you’re taking more action than in reality.
The message to take from this is, that if you’re not out there alone building momentum each day and you’re motivating yourself and then building long-term momentum as well, you will never going to be good at the game.

If you delude yourself by saying that the coaching was bad, but you’re not playing the game, you will be creating an illusion of success.

Here are some of my best posts:

• Cold approach is a lifestyle
• What is indirect daygame
• How to Write a PickUp field report
• How to spot a fake dating coach
• How I got laid in Japan (epic post)
• Why Thailand is NO longer good for getting laid

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