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What signs is a girl showing you, that are indicators she may want to sleep with you. Some signs are obvious : she asks you for sex, while other signs she wants to sleep with you are discrete.

This is the most comprehensive article on ”How To Tell a Girl Wants To Sleep With You”, I’ve scoured the internet to learn what are the conventional signs and what are not so logical and collected them below.

It’s entirely up to yourself to decide what would work and what doesn’t, I just did the research and put it all below, enjoy!

Signs a Woman Wants to Sleep With You

1. She wears sexy clothing to meet you
2. If you guys are hanging out she asks where you live
3. She invites you to her place
4. Touches you often
5. She brings up sex in conversation
6. You catch her looking at your lips
7. She compliments your appearance
8. Tells you personal things about her life
9. She is happy to have dinner at your place without suggesting eating outside
10. She sends you a picture of herself
11. Tells you that she is bored and has nothing to do
12. She is asking what are you doing
13. When you slightly touch her, she leans towards you
14. She asks if you live alone
15. She laughs and smiles for no good reason
16. She will share her food with you
17. She asks if you are single
18. When other girls are around, she tries to take all your attention
19. She wants to know everything about you
20. Others notice that she’s interested in you and mention it

She wears sexy clothing to meet you

If she is turning up to meet you while wearing sexy clothing, this is a sign she wants to catch your eye. Other signs are that she is wearing a skirt that could be taken off easily. On the other hand, if she turns up to meet you while wearing baggy clothing, doesn’t look like she even tried to dress up for you, this is a bad sign.

If you guys are hanging out she asks where you live

While spending time with you, she may ask where you live. This means that she is trying to figure out how far from her place you live and whether it’s possible to go to your place today, before she has to be home.

She invites you to her place

If she invites you to her place, this is as good of a sign as it gets. You will be isolated together in her own environment, this is as good as just asking you straight up for it.

Touches you often

A girl who wants to have sex with you wants to touch you. Therefore a girl that enjoys being touched by you and is always looking for excuses to touch you, is definitely looking for something more intimate.

She brings up sex in conversation

Let’s just put it this way. She is not talking about sex with a guy she would not be interested in. There are exceptions, say for instance she has a gay friend who is talking about sex, but generally, she would be a little disgusted if she was talking about sex with a guy she finds repulsive.

You catch her looking at your lips

Here’s a subtle one. If you were to catch a girl doing this, it would be extremely subtle and difficult to discern whether it was a sign or not. So, this one needs to be collected with many other signs.

She compliments your appearance

If she is telling you that you are handsome, or tall, or you work out or something positive about your appearance. There is a good chance she is attracted to you and would like to sleep with you.

Tells you personal things about her life

If a girl is opening up to you, this is a good sign. Not many girls open up to guys they are not interested in. For instance, how many times have you been on a date with a girl that only says one word answers and you have trouble learning anything about her, well I bet you didn’t sleep with that girl. On the other hand, a girl that opens up to you and tells you all her inner most secrets is more likely to be attracted to you.

She is happy to have dinner at your place without suggesting eating outside

Usually if you suggest dinner at your own place, a girl will ask if we can eat at a restaurant first. Girls usually understand that a meal at your place has a higher probability of ending in sex (not all girls though, some are less aware). So, if a girl is totally keen to come back to your place for dinner, there is a higher than normal chance that she is ready to have sex with you (not always though).

She sends you a picture of herself

If a girl sends you a picture of herself, she is showing you how attractive she is, this is a good sign that she is attracted to you and possibly wants to sleep with you. Most of the times a girl does this from my own experience, she is keen on having sex with you. In other times, I’ve had manipulative girls send me photos in order to try control me, they use this as a tool to get you to do things for them. It’s up to you to figure out the difference.

Tells you that she is bored and has nothing to do

How often have you asked a girl to come out on a date and she tells you how busy she is. This is their default all the time, so, if a girl is telling you that she is bored, she is saying that she wants to spend time with you. Simple

She is asking what are you doing

This one is connected with the one above. If she is telling you that she is bored and constantly asking what you are doing, then she is definitely wanting to spend time with you. And girls don’t try spend time with guys that they are not attracted to (well not often, mostly they have an agenda). And her agenda is more likely than not, to be wanting to sleep with you.

When you slightly touch her, she leans towards you

This is a great sign to look for, in my opinion, whenever a girl behaves like this, they usually sleep with me the next time we have the opportunity. If you were to touch her lower back, would she lean towards you? If so, she is probably attracted to you.

She asks if you live alone

She will only be asking you this for one reason and that reason is to come visit your place without dealing with anyone she doesn’t know already. When a girl comes over to your place, they only want to be with you alone, this is why they ask this question.

She laughs and smiles for no good reason

Here’s an obvious example for you. How many times have you seen a guy with literally zero charisma saying boring things to a girl and this girl is giggling or laughing. She definitely wants to sleep with him, this guy we’re using as an example is an extreme case but it is still relevant. A girl who finds you humorous when you are clearly not, is actually attracted to you but she is showing it with her nervous laughter.

She will share her food with you

If a girl will share her food, allow you to use her fork, share the straw to her drink with you, she may well want to have sex with you. This is a great sign that she is not afraid of your germs, in fact is okay with having your germs in her mouth while eating or drinking, this is a powerful sign that should not be taken lightly.

She asks if you are single

A girl only asks if you are single for two reasons, she has an ugly single friend that she’s trying to hook up with you or she wants to hook up with you herself. Just simply screen for the loser fat friend who she wants to set you up with and if she doesn’t exist, then go for this one yourself, it’s game on.

When other girls are around, she tries to take all your attention

When other girls are around, she may start to talk to you more intensely. This could be that she wants all of your attention because she is insecure that you might end up talking with another girl who is nearby. If other hot girls are around and she is touching you more than usual and taking up all of your attention, there is a good chance she wants to sleep with you.

She wants to know everything about you

If she wants to know all your inner most secrets, she is definitely invested in you. Let’s be honest, women don’t really care about most men, they are very simple creatures and therefore are only interested in stories coming from guys they want to sleep with. All other men who are not attractive to them can go tell their life stories to someone else, this is mostly how women feel.

Others notice that she’s interested in you and mention it

If you are a little unaware of social cues, then sometimes you may not be aware if a girl wants you badly and it’s right in front of your eyes. When this happens, someone might point it out to you. If someone is pointing out that a girl is attracted to you, this should be taken seriously, don’t say ”nah, she’s just being friendly” and pass it off, as if you know better, because you most probably have no idea. Take this one seriously and if you are attracted to her, go for it!

Learn Cold Approach From Myself

Sure, sometimes girls will be attracted to you and will openly try to show you signs she wants to sleep with you, but most of the time girls just don’t do anything. Now, the best solution to this, is for yourself to approach girls in a cool way, in order to meet them and possibly date them. This is better because you are choosing girls that you want and not the other way around. Click here to learn how to pick up girls

Did I miss any signs a girl wants to sleep with you?

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