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Just admit it, the hard truth is, you fear being alone, you fear doing something that will offend her, which makes you submissive to her every whim.
Her neurotic emotions are scary to you because you know that even the smallest of thing could trigger her enough to just walk away from you.
You are effectively living in fear, which is negatively affecting every aspect of your life and the reason why you are clicking on this article is, you want to learn how to stop allowing women to walk all over you. Let’s get into it:
You feel on edge most of the time because she is the one judging you, let’s stop this right now.
Next time she says that she likes something (doesn’t matter what it is) I want you to say that you dislike whatever that thing is, then overexaggerate how much you dislike it, to the point of disgust.
Do this in an almost comedic way, so that she starts to recognize that you do have standards and that you have opinions that will be voiced whenever you feel like it. She will start to look to you for input on other things in the future from now on.
Next, I want you to start teasing her a little every now and then. Don’t go overboard, just start to question her choice in clothing, her choice in friends, her choice in food and hobbies.
Again, don’t overdo it, but start to challenge everything about her, bit by bit. She’ll learn that you have standards, over time she will start to respect you more and more.
Ability to walk away: Finally you need to learn to walk away from any girl who doesn’t respect you (the same way most girls walk away from you right now).
You need to go from the ”nice guy” who fears her leaving, to the guy who she fears leaving. How can you achieve this?
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How to Avoid Nice Guy Syndrome
How To Stop Being A Nice Guy Around Women. The Nice Guy’s popularity has been steadily increasing in recent years. It seems that in today’s world, more and more men are getting stuck in the passive role of a “nice guy,” where all they do is try to please women but get little to no love in return.
This men’s dating article will teach you how to stop being a nice guy and start being a man, so you don’t have to rely on tricks and manipulation to get what you want from women.
The most important thing about being a nice guy is that you feel miserable because it means that your needs aren’t being met.
You can be unhappy in a loving relationship or with a lot of friends around, but when the women in your life, who are supposed to love you unconditionally don’t, that’s when it becomes time to change things.
Self RecognizationThe first step is to recognize if you’re a nice guy. If you always feel bitter and resentful towards women because they never sleep with you or even smile in your direction, it’s quite likely that you are a nice guy and not getting the results you want.
Is Being A Nice Guy Is Working For You or Not
The next step is to identify if being a nice guy is working for you or against you. If it’s making you miserable and preventing you from getting the girls that you want, then it’s time to change your behavior around women.
You see, if you’re too nice, women are naturally suspicious about your motives because it’s easy to get what you want when you act like this. It’s like the old adage about catching more flies with honey than vinegar – if you’re nice to women, they’ll be suspicious of your motives and not give in to your requests.
Don’t Be A Womanizer
Being a womanizer isn’t the opposite of being a nice guy. A womanizer is a man who gets women to sleep with him based on his looks, money, or status. Even if he’s not always nice, at least the womanizer has substantial proof that he can get what he wants from women.
Be careful, though, because it’s easy for a womanizer to transform into a “nice guy” because he relies on female approval. The difference between a womanizer and a nice guy is that the womanizer has solid evidence that he can get women to sleep with him, while the nice guy only has his good behavior around girls to go by.
Don’t get too close too soon
Doing this comes from a lack of boundaries because if you let someone get too close to you before they’ve proved their trustworthiness, it means that you have low self-confidence.
More importantly, this behavior puts women on a pedestal. It’s equivalent to saying, “I don’t think I’m good enough for you,” which is why women naturally stay away from men who act like this.
Give women negative attention sometimes
This doesn’t mean in any way, that you should treat them badly, but you shouldn’t try to please all women unconditionally either.
The main reason why being too nice fails is that it’s not grounded in doing things for yourself enough – so even though you are being nice, it feels completely one-sided because the only person that benefits from it is you.
Stop trying to please women
It’s a basic law of attraction – women are attracted to men who take action and do things for themselves. If someone has an air of confidence about them that makes them stand out from the crowd, it means that they’re not trying to please everyone.
Stop being a people pleaser. Just like the previous point, wanting to please everyone makes you come across as weak and desperate. It also means that you’re too emotionally needy, which isn’t attractive to women at all.
Don’t Allow Women To Walk All Over You
If you want to get the girl, start by realizing that being a nice guy doesn’t work. If you push too hard to get women to like you, they’ll think you’re creepy and will run in the opposite direction.
So stop it! When you feel like doing something nice for a woman, ask yourself if it’s because of the effect it’ll have on her or because of the way it’ll make you feel. If you’re honest with yourself, you’ll find that 90% of your actions are driven by wanting to impress women and not truly being nice.
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