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So you’ve been on a date with a girl, and she’s into you. Maybe things have escalated to kissing-and-grabbing within five minutes of meeting her, maybe it has been a few dates, but either way–you want this girl in your bed now. How do you make that happen?
There are many ways to seduce a girl, but I’m going to give you the 6 most important tricks to seduce a girl.
I’ll start off by saying that every girl is different, and what works on one girl may not work on another.

This means that it’s up to you to figure out exactly what makes each girl tick, but that’s another article for another time.

How to Talk Women into Bed with you?

Make Short Talk, But Make It Mean Something. What do I mean by “make short talk?” I’m not talking about chatting her up for a few minutes before you try to take off her bra, but rather engaging in small talk with a girl before you actually start trying to hit on her.

The key here is that the conversation should be easy and relatively painless for both of you. You should talk about things that are interesting to YOU, not just trying to find common ground so you can start talking about yourself.

You want the girl’s attention to be on YOU as little as possible during this time for many reasons because this will make it harder for her to object or walk away when she realizes the conversation isn’t going anywhere.

Get Her To Talk About Herself

Talking about yourself is not attractive because it signals that you are not interested in the girl–it’s only there to make conversation. A girl wants to know that you’d rather be talking with her than anybody else.

If she can tell that you would rather be talking about yourself than her, she’s going to want you even less.

Don’t start with the questions that give away information either (What do you do? Where are you from?), because it’s likely that she’ll ask the same kinds of questions back. Keep it casual at first until some kind of rapport is established, then move on to the questions that will help you get to know her better.

Keep Some Mystery About Yourself

Keep her guessing about you, if for some reason you decide to reveal everything about yourself on the first date, she will get bored with you, I promise. So, remember to keep a few secrets about yourself up your sleeves for future meetings.

Let’s say you ask a girl what kind of music she likes, and she tells you that she loves country music. You immediately jump into a conversation about your favorite country artists and then proceed to tell her everything about yourself that has anything to do with country music.

How does this make it easier for her to judge you as a potential mate? There is no mystery whatsoever.

You want the girl to have enough information so that she can come up with reasons why she might or might not be attracted to you, but if you give away too much too soon, those questions will disappear entirely–and don’t forget: Mystery is attractive.

How To Talk Girls Into Bed?

Confidence is the key here. If you’re not confident in yourself, it’ll come across to the girl.

So what is confidence? It’s more than just being able to talk to a girl without your voice cracking or turning into a warbling mess after a few sentences.

People have different conceptions of confidence, but for our purposes, being confident means that you’re not going to let anything she says to keep you from moving forward with her seduction.

Most importantly, don’t be so humble that you convince yourself she’s out of your league–if nothing else, sports teams can help clue you in on who “out of your league” really is. Even if she is too hot for you, it doesn’t matter–you never know unless you try.

You Must Make a Move Or She Won’t Respect You

Some guys are so afraid of rejection that they never try to approach girls, but here’s the kicker: You don’t need to be smooth. All you as a man, have to do is simply ask for her phone number, social media, apps or even email address if you’re desperate lol–if she says no, then move on and try again with another girl.

Once you take enough action and get into the swing of things, your confidence will carry you through; just keep talking until you can find a good opening (without bragging) that allows you to escalate physically with very little effort–and remember that escalating doesn’t necessarily mean the s word

Use Your Nonverbal Communication Skills

The most important thing about nonverbal communication skills is understanding how attraction works. For example, if somebody accidentally bumps into somebody else, it’s not simply seen as an accident–it’s a way for both people to check each other out and see if they would be compatible.

When you talk to a girl, most of the nonverbal signals you send should come from your tone of voice and body language. Oneof the most important things here is not to keep yourself in a closed-off position by crossing your arms or legs while talking, even if she does it too.

You don’t have to mirror everything she does, but being relaxed and open will show how confident you are and also show her that you’re interested in what she has to say.

How To Get Any Girl into Bed With You

This process itself may be counterintuitive. If you act like someone who’s not interesting in what she has to say, then you’re going to seem like somebody who isn’t interested in her.

Once again, the key is confidence–make sure that when you talk to a girl, it seems like your mind is on other things, even if it really is totally focused on her.

All of these seduction tips are meant to serve one purpose: Get the girl interested in talking to you. Don’t try too hard; don’t put on some kind of show; just be yourself and let her do the rest.

Here are some of my best posts:

• Cold approach is a lifestyle (My Philosphy)
• What is indirect daygame
• What I say to Girls (Logistics)
• How to Write a PickUp field report
• How to spot a fake dating coach
• How I got laid in Japan (epic post)
• Why Thailand is NO longer good for getting laid

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