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Let’s diagnose why you run out of things to say to girls in the first place. This is just general advice for the majority of men that I’ve worked with who have had this issue.
Most men are so afraid of saying the wrong thing, that it puts them into a state of anxiety. So, when she says something to him, he would over think his response to the point of coming across as super weird/awkward, or like a man who has some form of brain damage.
On the other extreme, there are guys who literally do not give a damn what the girl thinks of him, so much that he comes across to her as over confident/arrogant, kinda narcissistic.
Now, whether you like to know the reality of how the world works or not, in most cases the arrogant guy will end up getting laid more often than the weird and awkward guy.
This is such a valuable thing to take into account when you find yourself overly censoring what you say to a girl you are trying to impress. Giving zero f’s will always get you better results with women than being reserved.
Don’t forget this
Never Run Out Of Things To Say To Women
Are you trying to have a positive and convincing conversation with a girl but fail to do so? Do you feel like you often run out of things to say, especially to girls? Is communication the only hurdle between you and your girlfriend to be? If so, you must be glad to hear that we will make it for you.
After your looks, your words are the only power to make a girl accept or reject you. Before you even understand the girl, she would already be impressed or disappointed by what you say to her.
Guys out there feel it is the most difficult thing ever. But you don’t need to worry about anything because we are going to give you some amazing tips and tricks to help you get any girl into the conversation.
Whether you want to convince her for a night out or you want to call her at your home for making love with her. I know you are more interested in knowing the tips. So let’s begin!
How For Men To Never Run Out of Things to Say To Girls
Many men and teenagers get entangled in thoughts and fear talking to girls. They often get stuck because men believe talking to a girl and convincing her is the most difficult task ever. All you have to do is kick out this thought and start reading the tips because they will work for you.
Be Yourself Around Girls
The first mistake you all make is trying to be as fake as possible, wrapping your words in hard phrases, and most importantly, trying to be what you are not. This will ruin everything.
Yes, you must be careful about your words while talking to a girl. But do not polish them so much that hide what’s underneath.
The problem of getting out of things to say will never bother you again, as you will not be making the words; instead, they will naturally be coming out of you. Do not consider your thoughts are bizarre; just say it but be conscious about the words without making them too fake.
You Can Say Sorry
Being yourself might sometimes lead to miscommunication, or what you are saying might not be liked by another person. If this happens, you must not get over-conscious because you both are human beings, and things you say might offend each other.
You can say a little word of sorry casually and take a step back from what you were saying without even bothering. Don’t worry; it will never make you look like a fool; instead, the other person will mostly love it because you are trying not to say anything offending.
However, when you keep pushing on what you said and try to clarify it, this might not help you, so just back off the moment you feel that you had said something wrong.
Show Intent When Around Her
If the other person, most probably a girl, is already talking, show your interest. Never try just to nod your head and give a one or two-word response because this expresses a lack of interest, and defensiveness to communication, ultimately breaking the conversation.
Try to respond as much as you can, being expressive but do not show fake expressions and interest. You must remember that emotions and feelings are on top to make a conversation successful, especially if you are talking to a girl.
Use Your Five Senses
Talking to a girl counts each minute detail because they love to feel the things they hear. Make your words imagining for the girl. Tell her what you felt, touched, smelled, heard and seen through your eyes.
Believe it or not, this will make the girl fall in love with you because a few guys really express the things they have gone through, and girls don’t like it. So try to be a special and unique guy to convince the girl.
Ask Thoughtful Questions About Her
Asking questions about her is a good way to keep the conversation progressing. Use simple words and simple questions, avoiding any disgusting questions like how many boyfriends you have.
You may ask how your day is going. Do you have any plans for tonight? Where have you bought this beautiful dress?
These questions initiate her to talk more about her life without touching the sensitive matters. Every girl wants to express the stories of the day, and of course, no girl hates it when you compliment her amazing purchase.
Use Active Listening
The best tip to never run out of things to say is to focus on each word she is saying and use it to continue the conversation. You might think it’s not possible, but it is.
If she says my friend is a swimming athlete, you can pick each word and start a new conversation like you may start talking about swimming which includes a story from your childhood or a question like, oh, do you love swimming?
You Will Never Run Out Of Things To Say
We are sure that the tips we have mentioned will help you motivate any girl to be your only one by saying many convincing things to her. Girls are not monsters, so try to be as real as you can, just avoiding harsh and hitting words because you don’t want to make her go away.
Things to say to a girl are not only about what you say, but it is more about how you say it! You can say even the most taboo thing using a better way of saying it.
Here are some of my best posts:
- Cold approach is a lifestyle
- How to get a younger girlfriend
- What is indirect game
- How to spot a fake dating coach
- How I got laid in Japan (epic post)
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