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The best way to get into a woman’s pants, is by first getting into her head and emotions. The key to her body is through her mind, by building an emotional connection with her, she will desire you sexually. By creating a bubble between you and her, that no one else can enter, like you both are a team, as if it’s you and her verses the world. When you create an impenetrable bond, then she will want you sexually.

Build an Emotional Connection

Building an emotional connection is about understanding each other on a deeper level than anyone else. Women want to be penetrated emotionally before they want it sexually, this starts by knowing her inner most secrets, making her feel as if you know her better than anyone else.

Confidence is important, if you have social anxiety, you’ll have to deal with this beforehand.

This can take time but it’s possible to speed up the process by focussing on this aspect of the relationship. Listen to her, when she talks about things that are important to her, take notes when she does something repetitively.

Let her know that you notice these things and it’s even more powerful, if she isn’t self aware enough to have realised that she does certain things, but you happen to notice them anyway.

She’ll feel that you know her better than she knows herself and that is a great start to building an emotional connection. Here’s a simple example : every time she feels stressed at work, she buys ice cream but only a specific type. Next time she tells you that work is stressful, bring her that specific type of ice cream.

This is a simple example and not the best because you run the risk of becoming a simp/provider that will eventually be cucked, by you get the point I’m making.

Create a Bond Between You and Her

Building a bond is the ”us verses the world” frame. You can start this off by having the same hobby or sport, it can build into perhaps supporting a political party or sports team (these are generalised). Then you can manufacture an enemy, there’s no better way to bring people together than a shared enemy.

Share a challenge, something small like trying a new diet for 30 days together or fasting for 24 hours. This are all versions of the ”us verses the world” frame.

Confess a few secrets to her and get her to confess things to you, that she has never told anyone else. You can try keep the relationship secret from everyone else, so that only you two know about your secret rendezvous, this builds a bond between you two.

Ever seen a guy ”white knight” over a girl, well there’s a good reason for that, when you get all ”alpha” and show dominance over another man in front of her, she is likely to become attracted to you. It’s a common strategy that most men use without thinking. You could use this, if you like.

Get her to talk dirty with you

You have to initiate it. Start by talking dirty with her, saying little things that are a little naughty while listening to see how she deals with it. If she is okay with this, then increase the naughtiness of the dirty talk. If she’s comfortable with it, she will copy you and say similar things back to you.

Have phone sex with her

Don’t just start by sending d&8k pics, start extremely slow by asking for a video chat. Ask to see a part of her body in an innocent way, then over time increase what you want from her.

Tips To Make Her Horny

Do this in isolation : Make strong eye contact, whisper in her ear, be passionate about something (anything will do, to be honest) just show passion, touch her neck, grip the hair on the back of her head, tell her how turned on you are and this will allow her to let go too.

How to Make a Woman Want You Sexually – Physically

As I discussed previously in a post about increasing your mate value. There is a minimum threshold for your attractiveness to reach for game to work for you. Obviously the better shape you can get your body into, the more that will help your results.

Keeping your basic hygiene up to scratch, plus choosing a nice cologne to top it off. It’s been proven that women like some stubble on a man with nicely trimmed facial hair.

Good news, women have a diverse taste in what they find attractive in men, this means that there is someone attracted to you out there. Girls tend to like certain styles of men, almost like cardboard cut out stereotypes. If you know what type of woman you’d like to attract, next time you see the that type of girl with a boyfriend.

Remember to take notes on his fashion style, if you want to emulate his style, perhaps it will help you to pick up a similar style of girl.

Make her feel sexually attracted to you by the way you interact with her

You usually have only a few seconds to give a good impression when you first meet a woman, so you need to project as much confidence as possible within those first few seconds.

Show your intent, she needs to know that you are a sexual threat and not a guy that she can friendzone, this does not mean that you can start throwing compliments around and putting her on a pedestal, this will only backfire the majority of the time.

Learning to interact with women is so important, I’ve got a facebook group called ”onemanslifemission” which has almost 50 hours of tutorials on this topic within.

Tease her, don’t be afraid to be challenging when she talks, it’s okay to disagree with her opinions from time to time too. This is attractive, she doesn’t want to date a snivelling yes man that’s agreeing with everything she says. If you are unsure whether a girl wants to sleep with you, I wrote a whole post on this previously.

Finally remember to lead, this is so attractive to women, they love a man who can take charge and lead her. Most women don’t even want to make decisions, they would rather be swept off their feet by a strong man who makes the tough decisions. Please don’t be the guy who’s constantly asking her what she thinks about everything you do, it just comes across uncertain and unconfident, this is unattractive.

Steps to making a Girl want you Sexually

• Give her space to come to you
• Be flirtatious with her
• Spontaneous men are attractive
• Touch her with intent
• Solid eye contact
• Masculine vocal tonality
• Alpha body language
• Dress to impress
• Show her you are confident
• Demonstrate protectiveness of her
• Show her you can walk away and you are independent

The Most Important thing make a Girl want you!

Self belief in yourself, that you are an attractive man who she would love to be with. I’d go so far as to believe in an entitled way, this is a great start to your inner self belief as a truly attractive man. Remember to be in control and not go too far with this (that could get you in trouble, if you know what I mean).

Foster her trust in you, she need to trust that you have the best intentions for both of you guys and your (possible) future relationship. When she trusts that you have good intentions, then she can give you more power over time and that is what most women want in a man. One good way to create trust is with a solid cold approach strategy and I recommend Indirect game, you should try it.

Rejection is Part of Life

Embrace rejection, not all women will be attracted to you, so the best strategy is to move forward and meet more women, I recommend you try my 30 day challenge in the sidebar of this post if you are a beginner.

And if you are a little more advanced, I recommend you do some live coaching with myself, this means that I will go out and be your very own wingman to help you pick up girls, I highly recommend it.

What’s your biggest tip for making girls want you sexually?

Here are some of my best posts:

• Cold approach is a lifestyle (My Philosphy)
• What is indirect daygame
• What I say to Girls (Logistics)
• How to Write a PickUp field report
• How to spot a fake dating coach
• How I got laid in Japan (epic post)
• Why Thailand is NO longer good for getting laid

If you want to learn more about the sweet art of cold approach, Enquire here, join my group, where I’ll have a chat to you before entering. Get my free video series and finally, if you are adventurous, try my 30 day challenge.