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How to get girls to Think About You Non-stop? How can you get a female to notice you? Better yet, how can you get her obsessed with you that she becomes addicted? And can’t help but be put in a state that she is emotionally attracted to you?
This secret I previously got from a dating coach I met a while back, is a lot simpler than you think, and few use it because they’re too busy salivating or self-sabotaging themselves. Let me explain.
Remember Small Details About Her
Most men just don’t remember the small things about girls they date, hell, some don’t even remember the girl’s name. One way for you to stand out from the crowd is to remember the smallest of details about her and relay them to her.
Let her know that you are taking notes, make sure she knows that you see everything she does, or at least make her believe so.
Some obvious things are her hair color or the clothes she is wearing, hell, anyone can do that, we want to really stand out, so we need to dig deeper than any other guy.
We want to notice things about her that even she isn’t aware of and we want to tell her that we notice these minute things. Yeah okay, you want an example:
When she doesn’t like something, her nose gets these little wrinkles of disgust. Imagine you noticed something small like this and told her about it but she didn’t know, well, this would gain you some brownie points for sure.
Let Her Know You’re Thinking About Her
It’s funny how people tend to replicate each others emotions. If you were to let her know that you are thinking about her all the time, without coming across too needy. There’s a good chance she would start to think about you all the time too, I know, it’s weird how that works sometimes.
She Needs To Know You Come First
She needs to be aware in a way that you have so many things going on in your life that it’s impossible for you to drop everything for her.
Not in a bad way, I mean this just simply needs to be something she is aware of. You have a life, you have obligations outside of the relationship and she needs to fit into this life of yours.
Perhaps she will start to think, what is her doing right now? Is he busy? When can I see him next? etc
What’s the secret to getting her to think about you non-stop?
Let’s imagine we’re at a formal party, people are talking to each other and having a good time.
There are some of the guys by the bar getting their drinks, some of the women by the dance floor, and a few people by the food station getting some snacks and catching up with each other. Is this painting a picture in your head yet?
Now imagine if we were talking, and I suddenly pointed out every person who I thought was thining about going to go to the bathroom in the next 5 minutes. As time passes us by every minute give or take, one by one, those individuals I pointed out start heading to the bathroom.
How could I know this to begin with? How could I precisely predict each one? Did previously I talk to them and ask them when they would be going to the bathroom?
Did I do something to their drinks that would affect their bladder? Well actually, I just read their body language. But the trick was you didn’t know.
So what does this bathroom thing have to do with getting a woman to think about you non-stop? I didn’t tell you that I’m a specialist in body language. And all I was doing was assessing each individual through an examination of their body position…
By evaluating their body position, for example, you may identify with a reasonable degree of accuracy who has to go to the bathroom.
People who:
● Are talking very fast to get to the point
● Seem uncomfortable
● Moving around to distract themselves while talking to people
● Not talking at all because their concentration is somewhere else
● Or a combination of these
You wouldn’t have known this though. I would have looked like I was reading the minds of the people around me or a professional dating coach… and this would have created a feeling of mystery in your mind about me and prompted you to ponder about me afterward.
Don’t Explain Yourself – Create Mystery
Showing a woman one of your characteristics, talent, or ability without explaining how you got it makes you appear mysterious. And this is vital.
We’re wired to seek answers. We search for answers when we don’t comprehend what’s in front of us. We hate unfinished business. When you leave a lady wondering about anything about you, her imagination starts working on it.
You’ll be in their thoughts even if she doesn’t notice it. Mesmerizing a woman is part of that. A woman must think about you to fall in love. This is how women fall in love in the first place! So you have to remember to create mystery in some way.
Now is The Time to Create Mystery
Create a mystery and keep it going. A woman will find you more intriguing if she knows little about you. Once she learns these pieces of information about you, you will become just another individual to her.
Besides, in the end, she will discover these things about you when you’re going out, married, or whatever your end goal is here. Each time you meet, she will learn more about you so keep her in the dark until she’s in love with you.
Then it won’t be as crucial to be mysterious while you’re together.
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