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Your emotions can be contagious to women. If you feel angry or happy – she will feel that emotion emoting off you. Good emotions can spread to the women who are around you, not always, sometimes.

When I’ve gone out to meet women when I was in a bad mood, most of the girls I’ve approached during daygame would respond to my emotions, almost like they were mirroring me.

Yet, When I’ve had sessions where I was in fantastic every girl I approached would treat me like a stud. The way people treat you, sometimes is a direct reflection of the emotions you put out into the world, not always though.

The sheer degree to how our own emotions can be contagious to those around us, can be surprising, and it’s something that most people are completely unaware of how powerful this is.

Because of this, if you learn to master the art of pushing positive energy out into the world, and your personality will become magnetically attractive to women.

Well, most of the time anyway.

Outcome Independence

This is one thing that is going to ruin your vibe every time. It’s annoying I know, you are going out to meet women and therefore results matter, so how dare I say to not focus on the results and become outcome independent.

It’s an annoying contradiction that does depend on how emotionally strong you are inside. Can you smash out 18 hour days of game for the next week without getting laid once and still keep smashing it out at the same intensity? I can and do often, but very few guys can do this without it lowering their vibe.

What if you treated game like a hobby sport that you do for fun and the results don’t necessarily matter, could you make that mental shift? If you are capable of doing this, then the whole lifestyle of cold approach will be flipped on it’s head and counterintuitively, the results will start rolling in.

Meditation

This is something that many guys who struggle with these negative emotions use to help dealing with the rejection they feel in the field.

From what I’ve seen, it’s not exactly a proper solution, because I can still feel the pain emoting off them. But hey, you should definitely use this strategy to mitigate the pain enough to keep you going.

The goal is to actually become positive and that sometimes requires a total revolution of your life and thinking.

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One quite important thing you need to do is create positive energy around yourself. Try meditating or yoga to help to clear your mind of negative thoughts and relax.

Girls can feel negative energy, and they tend to get their defenses up.

When you are relaxed, she will be as well, and this will help your interaction to be more positive than negative. Make sure that you are comfortable and fun to be around.

Be open and not shut off. This will also give it a positive vibe. Build up your self-esteem. If you are nervous and jittery, that will rub off onto her.

If you are confident within yourself, she will sense this and have more of a positive reaction to interacting with you. Be open and honest with her about what you are feeling and what you want. Girls like the structure and confidence. They also like a man who knows what he wants and goes after it.

Make her feel special like she lights up a room with her smile and that you feel privileged to be in her presence. Get the Girl to see how amazing she is.

Talk about her likes, her hopes, and her dreams. Talk her up and let her know she can do anything she sets her mind to. Flatter her in any way you can, and this will lift her spirits and keep the vibe positive. The best way to be able to bring positive energy instead of a negative one is to approach women every day.

This will build your confidence and keep your spirits high. Simply spend thirty minutes a day approaching random women and flattering them, speaking openly to them and making them laugh. It will enhance your skills and keep you comfortable, which will bring more positive energy to your conversations.

Touch her, not a full arm grab or anything. Just light, playful touches with the back of your hand. Keep it light, and make sure you don’t overdo it. She is not one of your buddies that you can smack lightly, so be very gentle with the touches, and this will keep playful and positive energy to your interaction.

Be a little mysterious but charm her with your passion. Such as; your enjoyment of hiking, animals, or anything else positive that you are passionate about.

Talk to her about what your passion means to you and ask her what her passion is. Talk to her about new passions that you have and ask her what she thinks about exploring those. This will get her thinking about doing her passions with you.

Be direct, don’t beat around the bush. It causes nervous feelings, which can seem very negative. You need to associate the Girl with positive emotions.

Do everything within your power to put her and your interactions in a positive light. Take rejection in stride, take the positives from the interaction and use those each time.

You will get to a point where all of your interactions are positive. Then you can finally approach a girl and use positive emotions and interactions to your advantage.

If you are having trouble keeping positive, then simply fake it. If you fake it long enough, you will become addicted to positive thinking and re-train your brain to think positively.

It may be a bit odd for you at first, but each time will get more accessible, and then you will do it naturally. Think about how a
positive person talks, walks, interacts with others, and mimics it.

Spend less time with negative people and in negative situations. Negativity spreads like wildfire. Try daily affirmations that build positivity within yourself.

Try surrounding yourself with positivity and positive thinking, and you will soon feel so much more positive within yourself, therefore, becoming more positive in your everyday life.

Try smiling more and practice gratitude. You can be grateful for many things in your life and do not necessarily need to dwell on the negative aspects.

A girl will be able to feel the energy you are putting out. It’s not just a smile when there is positivity behind it, but the smile falters when there is negativity, and she will sense this.

There is a scarcity mentality that makes people settle for what they think they can get. Make sure to use an abundance mentality where you may have to wait some time for the right Girl to come along who feels your positive energy and who could potentially be a life partner if that’s what you are looking for.

Keep an eye on places that you go with the Girl and have a good time at. It is always a fantastic idea to revisit these areas as there is positivity to them and you have both enjoyed the venue or location.

Remember songs that she may sing to as these are positive for her, and you can play them back to get that positivity flowing again.