The six things that make you a good wingman during a day game Today, I’ll go over the six things you should keep in mind to become a better wingman during the day game.

What makes a good wingman? How does a daygamer go about finding a good wingman? Many guys have been playing a lot of day games, and they’ve become jaded. They’re not as entertaining at day games.

They frequently end up in what I call “intermediate purgatory.” Unfortunately, they will remain there indefinitely. You can overcome this with six qualities.

Be a Fun Wingman

Be very positive Day games are enjoyable. Every approach you take gives you a little adrenaline rush. Don’t be concerned about all of the negatives, such as being rejected.

Don’t be concerned about what onlookers in public think of you. It’s entertaining. When you meet a wing, you should be upbeat. You drive an hour to meet up with a guy you’ve never met before, and he’s a jerk.

Daygame is not going to be enjoyable for you. You should return the favor by remaining positive and having fun with it.

You Must Be Approaching

Try to push each other. That, I believe, is critical. It’s an important part of what day game is, but you see a lot of guys. They want to talk and walk around when they go out. That’s fine if that’s the goal here. In general, if you want to get good at this, you need to make a lot of approaches, push each other, and have fun.

If you’re making approaches and are focused on that, your wing will be as well. You guys accomplish more. You’re having fun with it, so your results will reflect that. That is also a very important snowball effect, and it is all linked.

Don’t Judge Your Wingman

Encourage your wing You’re afraid that if you go ahead and make an approach, your wing will judge you for being rejected. Rejection in Daygame is an unavoidable part of the game. Everyone is rejected. Have fun with it. When your wing is denied. Don’t berate your wing.

You’re meeting a winner. You’re going to go out there. Have a good time. You’re attempting to be optimistic. You’re trying to make a lot of approaches, and judging each other will prevent you from making more approaches.

Don’t pass judgment on one another. Everyone is turned down. Enjoy it, and laugh at the rejection because rejection is entertaining.

Don’t Go On Instant Dates, It’s Rude

Instant dates are off the table when you meet with a wing. Your wing just traveled an hour to speak to you for three minutes, and then you went on an instant date with some girl. No.

That is also a red flag for your game. That means you’re a leaf in the wind that you have no control over. In this situation, you are not the man.

You are suffering and jeopardizing your day-to-day game. The goal of the day game is to try to control everything. Make time for your wing to spend with you. Make a lot of approaches, you know. Don’t be judgmental, and don’t waste his time by vanishing for two hours on an instant date.

Don’t Be a Theory Junky During a DG Session

Talk about something other than the game. You’ve all read books about games. They’ve released a new digital product based on the game. You’ve got all the theory up right now.

What are you going to discuss? If it’s a game, that’s the most vexing thing ever. Talking about anything, even politics, which is a terrible topic, is far preferable to talking about game theory while walking around playing games. The last thing (as a wingman) you want to do is discuss game theory. That’s not very nice.

Wait For Your Wing To Finish His Approach

Don’t waste time searching each other You’re out there playing some kind of day game. One person approaches, while the other remains unknown. Allow your wing to complete the approach.

You wait, perhaps you observe and learn from his body language. You know what he’s up to, and you’re waiting for him. You can see her leave once he’s finished. He talked to her for a long time, and it went well. It did not go well. It makes no difference. Then you run into him right away, and it’s your turn to make the following approach.

When he does the opposite, that is, when he approaches you and you see another girl to approach, you go over and go out with her. You don’t know where each other is, and then you can’t find your wing, so you two call or text each other to find each other. Oh, where have you gone?

Oh, I’m only three blocks away. If you were to break down your entire day’s game session, you’d spend the majority of your time finding each other rather than approaching girls. The most efficient daygame method is to wait for him to finish, then meet up with him and take your turn.

Then you fire off the following approach, he waits for you, and you meet up again. Then you can get more approaches in, and you won’t waste your entire session trying to find each other. And some guys enjoy walking and talking, so they might take a two-block walk while talking to a girl.

You may have to walk 50 meters behind him and then follow him down and wait until he’s finished. It’s fine to have an unexpected date at the end, so say you and your date have been walking around for an hour or two.

You’ve had a cup of coffee and a pleasant conversation after you had enough approaches.If your last approach while you still together end up on an instant date, you can text your wingman and say, look, we’re ending it anyway or I’m going to go off and have this instant date right now. That’s fine because you’re finishing your day game now.

These are the primary six rules and fundamentals of the day game that everyone should understand. If you break any of these daygame rules, you’re a bad wingman. A good wingman is defined by how well you treat your wing, how much fun you have, and how good you are to your wing. That is what distinguishes you as a good wing. Not how well you interact with girls, which many guys confuse, and I just thought, And these are the six rules.

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