How to analyze your DayGame when you hit a bad patch We always go through those phases. Everyone has those periods when they aren’t having much success.

When they hit the tough patch, the best guys get the best results because they pivot and figure out how to innovate and get out of it. So I’m going to talk about a trough I’ve been in for the last three days.

I will break it down and tell you how I will work on pivoting out of it, hoping that it will help you. If you are currently experiencing that situation, So how to pivot when you innovate when you are hitting a bit of a trough now?

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Dave

Grooming Matters When Daygaming Girls

For instance, about two or three days ago, I had this haircut, and the problem with this haircut was my gray hair.
This negatively affects my results often. If I make those, they don’t reply.

If I get their numbers, I get more flaky numbers. Girls that I’d go out on dates with, they’re just not interested anymore. They notice the Gray hair, which affects negatively. It’s my experience, and I’ve also seen a few little white grey hairs poking through my beard, which is terrible. So these are two factors.

Let me tell you what has been going on the last three days. So I had it my way. It’s similar to the game of meeting girls, and simply making it a part of your daily life is something you do every day. It’s something I do daily. Everywhere I go, I run into girls. I’ve had quite a few girls ghost me and flaky numbers in three days.

So if I have a lunch break, I will get a coffee or lunch at the soap shops. If there’s a girl nearby, I’ll say hello and play my regular day game. I have a lot of experience, so I know what I want and should do. I understand how to position myself.

Daygame Openers

Most men don’t know how to strike up a conversation with girls, myself on the other hand I do it every day. The first one, at lunchtime, I can’t remember who she was, so I just sent her a standard opening text message, and I’m pretty sure that I sent I. I was extra careful, like you sure you want to hang out.

Maybe we should do something at this particular time, no response 24 hours now, and then at about 5:30, I spoke to another girl, and there was a lot of banter, so I sent her hey, tough hey, tough chick.

So that was my opener for her. Both have not responded. And about an hour and a half ago, another girl I met at lunchtime has ghosted me, so it’s been a very flaky ghosty three days.

Beginners To Daygame

If you’re new to the game, this would be your life. Sorry, I don’t mean to scare you, but that would be how you are all the time.What are the tools at my disposal when I’m in this situation? One of the most common things that guys will try to do is make more approaches, and I need to make more time in my day to get more done.

So I’ll work two hours a day to make more approaches in this particular location. Specific time and I’m going to get a wing. He’s going to come out with me. Maybe I’m not making all these other things.

OK, I’m not going to do that either. I’m not going to tweak my game; I’m not going to increase the approaches I do. What other tools do I have at my disposal? You’re either inactive, sick or in a wheelchair.

There is no excuse in life not to be social; there is never an excuse not to act. It would be beneficial if you were always taking action. Whether or not the results arrive.

Age Matters in Daygame

Two, I intend to. I’m going to color my hair. I’m going to get my hair colored. I’m going to get myself a pack. I’m going to try dying it—Gray as a result of this.

I’m going to shave it all off, so I can start to change my appearance and get some more sleep. Another thing that I’m going to do is have the clothes I’ve been wearing, a lot of black shirts and a jumper might not be working for me, so I’m going to wear a different jumper, and I’m going to.

I got some white T-shirts. I’m going to go the total opposite of black. I’m going to go in white shirts this time. Maybe that will help. I’m going to tweak a few of my daygame strategies and how I’m dressed. What are other tools at my disposal? Well, in the short period when I have my little breaks.

Indirect Daygame is the Most Advanced Strategy

So, for instance, I indirectly teach many guys because it’s sustainable. But what you can do when you hit a through is repeat the same thing repeatedly and expect different results.

I know you guys know I’ve heard the saying, well, you will get the same results, aren’t you? So sometimes, when I hit a through, I make a game which is a lifestyle of mine. It’s a lifestyle. To make it attractive for me continuously, I tweak it, so I’m going to tweak this now.

I might try a different day game style, so I might not be so indirect. I might go a little bit more direct. I might try positioning myself differently when I make my approaches. That’s what I might do on my own. My particular situation, because keep in mind this is you just listening to my specific situation.

I can’t see you out there. I don’t know what you are dealing with, but if I were to see you and hear what problems you have at the moment, I’d be like, tweak this and that. Another tool at my disposal is I could approach girls that are my mate value.

Only Advanced Older Daygamers Get Laid (Like Myself)

I’m 40 years old, and I’m not wealthy, so my mate value is low. I could aim for girls that are more in line with my mate’s values. So, for instance, the girl I met about 2 hours ago is probably 21.

She was taller than me, her body like a supermodel. I even knew that this was a little delusional for me to approach her. I could start aiming for girls over 30 years old and not as attractive because my level and standards are way above who I am. It’s at a delusional level.

If I was to lower it down, I do get excellent responses from girls that are ten years younger than me. They’re like 30 or something like that. I get great answers. Conversations flow much easier because they’re my age, and the girl is more interested. You see, there’s no difference.

Daygame Coaches in their 20’s Are Frauds

If I were 25 and handsome, I would be speaking to a hot 18-year-old. As long as she’s attracted to me, the conversation will be interesting; it’s not because we have more in common.

You can speak to a girl with literally nothing in common with you. If she’s interested, the conversation will flow because she will add her bit. This can be not easy sometimes, and so for my game style, I’m aiming for a girl above my mate level. Girls that are always maybe to the nose.

It’s almost impossible for me to find a yes girl when I aim for girls above my mate level. So one strategy could lower it down. I don’t want to do that.

They have two girls in my life that are way above my mate level already. I’m thrilled with both of them. I and society would not be delighted with someone like me hacking the system. They wouldn’t like that, but, That’s what a good game is, right?

What is Advanced Daygame (Cold Approach)

So I refuse to drop my standards. So you keep it interesting for yourself, and I will tweak it. I’ll tweak my approaches a little bit, and I might add a little bit more energy, so hopefully, this will be interesting for you guys, but this is how I evaluate my game continuously.

My delusional rate of aiming for girls is way above my mate value of about 4%. So 3 to 4% when I put it when I gauge it over time, and I put it in an Excel spreadsheet, and I come up with Well, what are my accurate statistics? It’s 3 to 4% when I aim way above my level.

If you are one of those guys and you’re not getting results, you hear a lot of guys, they’re like, oh, I’m Asian, that’s what’s holding me back.What I just told you is how to take the proper red pill and enjoy it and have success. I’m thrilled with my success.

I’ve got friends that are my age, and they’re married, and I’ll bring a girl that’s you know, under 25 out for a drink with them and it’s you know it just for fun. But the way I do it, I tweak it. I look at it. I look at it. I see the negatives, and I try to figure out how to solve that. Enjoy it. You know I enjoy this.

You see, I’m thinking, OK? Well, dye my hair. I shave this beard; I will get some success on my way out later on. So this is what you should be doing with yourself all the time.

It’s what happens when you work with me for coaching. Because I can provide you with the mindset, I can explain things you may not know and point out minor details holding you back.

We require measurable objectives. We have to. Have incremental gains, you know. Then repeat it every day. If it doesn’t work, try a different approach. That is a mental recipe for disaster for you.

Here are some of my best posts:

• Cold approach is a lifestyle
• What is indirect daygame
• How to Write a PickUp field report
• How to spot a fake dating coach
• How I got laid in Japan (epic post)
• Why Thailand is NO longer good for getting laid

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