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Love is a wild ride. You don’t want to be on it alone, but you also don’t want to be in a relationship with just anyone. So how does a single man know when it’s time to take the next step? Is she your girlfriend?
The answer is: It depends. It depends on what you want in a relationship, what she wants, and how you both feel about the terms “girlfriend” and “boyfriend.”
If you’re looking for something casual, it doesn’t make sense to call her your girlfriend until you’re ready to commit to exclusivity.
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How Many Dates Do I Have To Go On With Her Until She Becomes My Girlfriend?
If she’s looking for something casual but would like to go on dates with other people, then she shouldn’t have to commit exclusively either.
But if one of you wants something more serious or exclusive than the other person does and if neither of you is open to an open relationship, then there’s no reason not to define things as soon as possible before things get even more complicated than they already are.
You know what they say: One date is to get to know someone. Two dates are to see if you like them. Three dates are to decide if you could live with them. Four dates are to know if you’re going to marry them.
But how does a single man know when it’s time for the fourth date? Here are some signs that it’s time to take it from dating to the official:
- You’re talking about your future together
- You’re spending most nights together
- You’re doing things for each other (like bringing them coffee)
- You’ve told each other about your past relationships (and they’ve heard all the gory details)
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The 5-date rule
The 5 date rule is a common rule of thumb for dating that states that if you go out with someone for five dates, you’re supposed to be their boyfriend or girlfriend.
There’s no one magic number that makes someone your boyfriend or girlfriend, but this rule provides a good starting point for defining what is and isn’t considered dating.
The idea behind the 5 date rule is simple: If you’ve gone on enough dates with someone to really get to know them, it’s safe to say that you’re either ready to move forward as a couple or at least want to do so.
Some people may want to wait longer than five dates before jumping into something serious, but the idea behind the 5 date rule is that after spending some time together, you should have a better idea of if she’s attracted to you and whether or not this girl is right for you.
Are you casual dating or in a serious relationship?
If you’re like most people, you’ve probably been in a few relationships in your life. Maybe you have a bunch of exes, or maybe you’re married, either way, it’s something that we all seem to go through (unless you’re one of those weirdos who never dates anyone).
But what exactly is dating? And how are relationships different from dating? Well, let’s start with the basics:
Dating is when you meet someone new and start hanging out and getting to know them.
You may be quite confused where you stand or may not be sexually involved (or even interested in each other), but generally speaking, this is when both parties are still figuring out if they want to get into a long-term relationship or not.
Dating is casual and fun; it’s all about having fun together and getting to know each other better. It’s all about exploring new things together and trying new things out.
It’s about learning about each other and seeing where things go from there.
Relationships take all of those same elements from dating but they also add commitment and exclusivity into the mix.
A relationship typically involves more emotional attachment than dating does; typically after just one date, two people are already talking about their future together and how they want to make things work.
Relationships also require both parties to be 100% committed to each other. This means that both people are exclusive to each other and are not involved with anyone else.
Before making a final move on her
So, you’re thinking about dating someone. Maybe it’s a little more serious than that, but maybe it’s not. Maybe you’re just trying to get to know somebody and see what happens.
There’s nothing wrong ( as a man) with being cautious when it comes to your heart and there are a few dating advice things that you should think about before you make a commitment to some random girl.
Do you want to be monogamous?
We all know that the topic of monogamy vs. polyamory is one that needs to be addressed before getting into a serious relationship with someone, but it’s also something we don’t talk about enough.
It’s easy to assume that everyone sees things the same way you do, but that’s not always the case. And when it comes to finding love and down to it, there are no rules for what you should be doing in your relationships it all depends on your goals and expectations.
If you’re looking for a serious commitment, monogamy might be more your style. But if you’re interested in casual dating or having multiple partners at once, then polyamory might be more up your alley.
Either way, it’s important to have an open conversation about what kind of relationship you’re looking for so everyone knows where they stand from the start.
Are you okay and happy to be in a relationship?
If you’re in a relationship, you need to ask yourself: are you okay and happy to be in a relationship? The answer to this relationship question is very important to answer if you’re a single man.
If you are not happy to be in a relationship, then it is better if you do not become official. This is because the relationship will end up hurting both parties and it will not last long.
However, if both parties are happy with the relationship, then there is no reason why they should not become official.
When you become official, there will be more expectations of each other. You will see each other more often than before and your lives will be connected together as well. This means that there will be more chances for arguments and disagreements between both parties.
It is important that both parties agree on what they want out of this new relationship before they officially declare themselves as being together or having any type of commitment toward one another.
If both parties agree that they want something serious rather than just casual dating then there should be no problem with becoming official once again.
How Much Do You Trust Her?
Trust is a huge factor in relationships, especially these days. If a couple doesn’t trust each other, then the relationship won’t last long. A couple needs to be able to trust each other and know that their partner will always be there for them.
Trusting each other can help build a strong foundation for any relationship because it allows both parties involved in a relationship to feel secure knowing they have someone there who they can rely on when times get tough (or even just during everyday life).
How Long Have You Been Dating?
If you’ve been dating girls on and off for a while and have established a solid foundation of trust, respect, and mutual attraction, then the next step is to consider whether you want to make things official.
If you and her are still in the early stages of dating it may be too soon to talk about being official. Your partner may not be ready for a serious relationship or don’t feel the same way that you do.
If you are a single man who is ready to settle down and looking for something more serious with her, then they might not be ready to commit.
If they are not feeling the same way as you do then it will cause tension between the two of you and could potentially ruin any chance of making things work out between the two of you in the future.
If you’re looking for a way to tell if she’s your girlfriend or not, you’re in luck. The answer is: it depends. It depends on what you want, and what she wants.
If both of you are ready to take things to the next level, then it will probably happen quickly. But if either of you isn’t ready yet, then it might take some time. We hope this blog post has helped clarify how many dates until she’s your girlfriend? Good luck on your next date.
Here are some of my best posts:
- Cold approach is a lifestyle
- How to get a younger girlfriend
- What is indirect daygame
- How to spot a fake dating coach
- How I got laid in Japan (epic post)
- Why Thiland is NO longer good for getting laid
If you want to learn more about the sweet art of cold approach, Enquire here, join my group, where I’ll have a chat to you before entering. Get my free video series and finally, if you are adventurous, try my 30 day challenge.
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