Simple tips on how to reduce your Flake Rate Today we will talk about a problem most men encounter during dating. Whether in a nightclub, bar or during a day game or anywhere. They see a girl who is appropriate for dating.

Then they approach, and when it comes to the point where they need the girl’s contact information, most men end up with flake contact details.

One of the most common ways that men do it is they pull out their phone and say, “so what’s your number?” “What’s your social media?” or “What’s your Instagram?” in a way, they decide.

They also determine if it’s social media or it’s a number. They demand it in a way that can come across as really needy, demanding, pushy, and can make the girl feel a little bit just a little bit helpless in that situation.

If you are a little bit too pushy, that can be a huge turnoff, and this is what I think is one of the biggest reasons why so many guys have such a high flake rate.

They will get a number, and the girl will not respond, and it might also be the first text they send. If they always send the same thing, hi, nice to meet you, or they send something semi-related to the interaction they think is funny, and it isn’t really.

She’ll feel that you’re a fool, and she won’t respond, so it could be the first text you send. If she’s a bit of a maybe girl, there’s one way that you can, during the interaction, find out how much of a maybe girl.

What Does a Flaky Girl Mean?

And convince her that she is in control and has the authority to give you a number or social media or another means. When she leaves the interaction, she’ll start to think, “I must have liked him because I decided what social media or whether it was, what type of contact information to give up.”

Because she decided to convince herself that she must have liked you, and the way that you do that is by using the word “how.” So when it comes down to the point where you pull out your phone. Instead of what’s your number? I suggest you say we’re going to meet up in the future sometime.

How are we going to keep in contact? How are we going to do this? the magic word is “How.” She will think for a second and think, is it Snapchat or Instagram? Is it Facebook? Is it an email address?

That’s a red flag. Is it her number? Is it an app? she will think about what she will give to you, and when she decides, you go and say sure.

She will subconsciously think that she decided to give you her contact information because she must have liked you enough. Because she not only chose to give you her contact information, she decided what type of contact information they give up. Unless it’s an email, and then you’re in trouble.So this is a little hack that I have noticed is very effective.

Reduce Your Flake Rate With Women

Sometimes you will get the girl saying, “I’m not sure if I want to give you my number and if the girl is a maybe or she’s on the fence, and she’s not quite sure if she even wants to give you her contact information when you say.”

How are you?” During the interaction, you should have a general idea of how she feels about you, where on the spectrum she lies, and how interested she is in you.

When it comes down to the point where you start to think, maybe she’s not that interested in me when you go for how it gives her a way out and giving her a way out also gives you a way off because, well, it depends on how you guys see this. I believe that I would rather have one solid number than ten flake numbers.

I demanded the number from the girl, but she flaked. Then what I did was I messaged her. She messaged back and just was nice. Then I messaged ten girls.

That’s ten messages, and I do it every day. And it’s like a flaky number that is never really going to convert the amount of time spent thinking about each interaction and each girl dealing with crisp numbers. I believe that the return on investment in all of these flaky numbers is not worth your time.

It depends on how you see this. If you think it’s worth your time, I’m sure to go ahead and demand the number and deal with all the flaky numbers.

Minimize Flakes on Your Dates

But I also believe you should focus on getting solid numbers and giving the girl out and out at the end and giving her the option by saying “How.” How Are we going to keep in contact? You should have, thus, just one number that is far more solid than having ten numbers.

That’s is just my opinion. These ten numbers can negatively affect approaching girls. If you have a ton of flaky numbers and 1000 numbers on your phone and message all of them once a month, I feel that that is toxic for you.

It builds up cortisol in your blood, and it’s terrible for your being as a man that’s going out there trying to find yourself a girlfriend. It’s far better, in my opinion, to have one, and also, you can focus a lot more on that one girl. You can start the thing.

OK? Well, I’ve got this much information about her. I’m learning about her, and you can spend more time focusing on what you text that particular girl instead of dealing with 10 or 20 numbers a day. You can’t remember all of them, and you start using canned messages.

You will mess up your text game because you’re not thinking about each girl. I believe that this can negatively affect you because then you have way too many flaky numbers.

It creates this snowball of negativity. It also establishes a Downward spiral of rejection.When in fact, the guy who tried to analyze the interaction from the very beginning.

Flaky Girls

And focus on not getting flaky numbers by giving her so many hours. Also, she’ll feel a lot more comfortable with you because you give her out.

Giving girls outs is a far more valuable way to be doing things because they would trust you, and there are a lot of dodgy men out there that are. Unfortunately, that’s just how it is that women cannot trust, and by giving her out and giving her the freedom to choose.

You’re proving to her that you are someone that can be trusted, and you have less flaky numbers to deal with, which will be far better for your mentality.

I feel that this is, in my opinion, I don’t know how many thousands of approaches I have made. I believe I’ve come full circle and tried the flaky number out, and I think that this is the best way for you to run your game. Just my opinion. So if you like this tip, this one little hack on how to reduce flakes in an interaction.

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