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Cold approach pick up is a skill that takes a long time to master, sure men cold approach girls naturally on occasion and have some success, but this is not consistent success.

I’ve spoken to so many confident young men who say that this is something that comes naturally to them, however, after I dig deep into their real results by asking questions, the truth comes out.

The truth that their interactions with women mostly suck, they often tell me a story about meeting a girl 6 months ago when out drinking with friends, their lay count is tiny compared to how good looking they are.

And at the end of the conversation we both realize that all of their ”success” was purely because they are pretty boys who were born with great genetics. Not because they have any cold approach skills, in fact the opposite, their bravado is exactly that ”bravado” without any substance to back it up.

Don’t kid yourself. Cold approach is not something that you can figure out yourself without years of hard work and dedication. The best way to get good at this, is to get coaching from an expert like myself, it’s literally the only way.

How To Learn Cold Approach?

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How Do You Start Cold Approaching Girls? Many guys have difficulty meeting women and having any social interaction outside of online dating. Some people don’t have the skills to attract attractive girls; others think they are too beautiful for a woman to look at them, and some people are afraid of approaching women.

This is a topic you can relate to, and if this is how you approach anxiety, congratulations! You will be able to cold approach women on the street easily if you can do so. Most men are afraid to approach women cold because they feel intimidated by the thought of meeting someone new. Second, your success in cold-approaching depends on how you manage approach anxiety.

How to Cold Approach Women

Let’s imagine you have just noticed a girl you like and you instantly fall in love with her. You don’t know if she is alone, with a friend, or just sitting there drinking coffee.

It doesn’t matter what she is nesecarily doing as long as you have an easy way to reach out to her to start up a conversation. Although you are attracted to her, you don’t know how to proceed, social anxiety could be kicking in.

You want to get to know her but don’t know-how, hell, you might even be super nervious about the whole thing.

Here’s what you need to know: How to approach a girl you don’t know. This skill can be learned and practised, or you can get in person coaching with me (by far the best way).

Learning cold approach can be difficult at first, especially if you’re shy or awkward. I’ll show you how to do it. This is the best dating strategy to improve your cold approach skills quickly, especially if you see a girl sending you signals of affection.

Pay Attention to The Situation

You don’t know who she is, so show her, even before you speak, that you are normally friendly and that it is safe for you to talk to her. Do not creep up on her from behind. Instead, approach from the front or side and smile.

To give her the hint of what’s coming, it’s a good idea to make eye contact when approaching her. This will help to ensure that she isn’t completely shocked or startled. Be open and relaxed with your body language.

Try To Cold Approach Her with A Creative Opening Line

This is nerve-racking. But you guys got this one. You’ll quickly be flirting with her if she notices that you approach her with a genuine smile. Be careful with your words and presentation.

Keep it real and be authentic. Don’t try to do too much. The specific tool will have a self-confident smile and a self-assured attitude. He will attempt to control the situation by saying, “Yup, you want me.” No. We want to spit at your popped collar.

Confidence is key with cold approach

Even if your confidence is not high, it’s important to feel confident when approaching a girl. Confidence can give you confidence and help you feel better about yourself. You will have a calm approach, have good conversations and achieve your desired result.

Don’t think negatively about yourself before or during the process. You are a positive person. Accept yourself as you are and believe that a girl will love you for who you are.

If she doesn’t like you (she rejects your proposal), that is okay. Do not worry about what other people think of you. Your actions should not be affected by the opinions of others.

True confidence is a man who lives by his own rules. He is not dependent on others to make his decisions and lives the life he chooses.

How To Cold Approach Cute Girls?

Social skills

You must first approach her and have a conversation. It would help if you had a conversation that isn’t awkward for you both. A conversation that is fun, interesting, exciting is ideal. It would be best if you were socially competent. This is something you might try first.

Pique Her Curiosity With Flirtation

A flirt can make her want more and keep her interested. If you’re on your best foot, you might even get her to say “hello!” You might be surprised at how much girls notice.

It’s a gift that all girls have…the uncanny ability to scan a room to determine who’s hot or not. His ego, far greater than his personality or looks, will travel with him when he uses a tool. He is like a performer, enjoying the attention of all around him.

Don’t Try to Impress, Show That You Are Impressed

This one is obvious, guys. Let her know if you are captivated by what you see in front of your eyes and it seems like you are having an amazing time together. She will pick up these positive signals.

He believes that he has outshone all competition and impressed all women with his charm, wit and good looks. Don’t be that guy.

How Cold Approach Works?

Get Her Number or Contact Info

If you feel the conversation is going, ask her for her number to call you later. Example: “You seem like someone that I would like to get to know better.” Let’s exchange numbers and have a conversation later.

You don’t have to wait for your conversation to ask for her phone number. It’s okay to ask her for the number when you feel that you have made a strong connection during the conversation. It’s known as the window of opportunity. It’s important to use it well.

End The Conversation on a High

Even if you feel that you can talk for hours, even if you have a great approach, it is important to let the conversation end. Tell her when it’s time for you to leave.

If the conversation was enjoyable, get her number or plan to meet again. Cold approaching is about making a good impression and leaving her wanting to meet again.

Finally, you will learn to be a good improviser by being exposed to dozens of interactions with cold approaching. It’s necessary to be able to improvise quickly.

It’s essential to understand how to flirt, tease and interpret social cues. This is the best way for single men to meet more women, but it also allows you to practice other skills necessary for success in dating.

Acceptance is something that can be learned. Acceptance that you are not attractive to all women is the key to success. Accepting that you are not attractive to all women is the first step in being free from rejection.

It is not about you. It doesn’t talk about you. It doesn’t reveal anything about your success, failures or identity. It’s just the economics and luck of dating.