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How Do You Pick Up Random Girls? Picking up a girl can be daunting, whether you meet her at a club or at a supermarket. If you want to get her attention in a cold approach situation, you just have to be fun, humble and show a real interest in her.

The key behind picking up a girl is trying to be calm and be yourself. She will be yours before you know her. So here are some ways to pick up a random girl

How Do You Cold Approach Random Girls?

Know When to Approach Her. One of the most valuable aspects of picking up a girl is knowing how to approach in a covert way and when to make the move. 

If the girl throws cues, such as looking for eye contact, looking at you, smiling at you and then looking away, or being with friends and looking outside the group, you will surely be welcome if you greet her.

Even if you can’t wait for the perfect situation forever, you should choose your timing carefully to improve your chances of success. Here are some things to consider before cold approaching her.

Read Her Body Language

Did she look around instead of being fully engaged with her friends? If so, this is a sign that you want to take your approach. Watch if she seems bored with her friends, or check her phone a lot, play with her hair, or open her bag a lot, this could be a sign that she is open to meeting new people.

Make sure that the girl is not in the middle of a serious conversation with her friends. If they tend to each other, talk too hard and if one of them is about to cry, then, tonight won’t be your night. Don’t interrupt an important session between girls.

Impress her with your Confidence

Women are naturally attracted to outgoing men who are confident in themselves. So, you should show her that you are comfortable with yourself.

Even if it takes some time to build up self-confidence, there’s nothing wrong with pretending that when you’re approaching a girl, only then you will feel the inner peace. Here are some ways to win over a girl with confidence.

• Show her that you are not afraid of anything. 
• Make solid eye contact as you cold approach her and smile. 
• Don’t be shy and don’t look down. 
• Show that you have confidence in your body language.
• Turn your body toward her.
• Don’t underestimate yourself. If you make comments like, “You probably wouldn’t want to talk to guys like me…” you’d discourage her from talking to you.
• Wear clean, ironed clothes that look good on you, and appropriate for the occasion. Above all, wear clothes that make you feel comfortable.

Open the Conversation With Confidence

When you want a girl to seriously think about you, and think about going out with you, then you should choose the words carefully.

Some say girls decide if they like you in the first fifteen minutes, so you can’t waste too much time having a conversation instead of fascinating her with your words and manners. Here are a few important things about cold approach you need to keep in mind:

• Avoid statements that are too trivial. 
• No matter what you read online about cold approach or what you hear from your friends, it rarely works. Moreover, the girl will think that you only see her as a conquest, and not as someone you want to know.
• Introduce yourself and ask for her name. Nothing strange. Simply say, “Hey, I’m Charlie, what’s your name?” Short and simple.
• Be direct. Don’t be shy when you approach her. 
• Make it clear that you want to talk to her.
• Don’t act as if you think you’re annoying or boring to her.

Flirt a Little with Her

Once you start talking, it’s time to give it a try right away without introduction. Make eye contact, walk toward her, and show her that you are interested in her. Flirting is important when you want to get her attention.

Say something to a girl like, “Do you always wear pink because it looks good on you?” Give her little compliments. Tell her that you like the way she styles her hair, or something else that’s harmless, to show her that you’re meticulous.

Don’t avoid telling her something nice because you think she has heard it before. Just because you’re sure all the other guys she knows have talked about her beautiful eyes; doesn’t mean you should ignore them.

Ask Her Good Questions

You need to show her that you want to meet her. You can ask her about her interests, and who she is, so she knows you’re trying hard. Make sure to talk a little about yourself, to have a balance.

When it comes to picking up a girl, it’s more important to be interested in her.

Here are some things to ask: Her hobbies, animals, friends, the city where she grew up, her favorite music groups, films, and actors.

Show Her What You Think is Special

Let her know that she is different from the others. Give her compliments to her eyes and clothes, tell her you think she’s unique and make her understand that it’s not just words.

Make her feel like you are really interested, and you’re not just there to pick up any girl. Approach her, tell her she has the best laugh you’ve ever heard. No girl wants to be seen as a simple piece of meat.

Make her understand that you see her for what she is and that she is not like any other girl.

Ask for Her Phone Number

Randomly Ask for her phone number. Just say, “Hey, can I call you?” or “I’d like to see you again. Can I have your number?” Don’t make it too important, and don’t tell her she’s the perfect girl for you.

Just ask her the number and show her that you didn’t think much about it. Remember, when you cold approach a girl, the absolute worst thing that can happen is that she will say no and reject you, which literally does’nt matter.

Well, it is not a serious matter. But, if you really want to pick up the girl, try to get her number

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• Cold approach is a lifestyle
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• What is indirect game
• How to spot a fake dating coach
• How I got laid in Japan (epic post)

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