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People often use each other in relationships, to obtain what they aren’t able to acquire by themselves. It’s a sad truth about the world, yet it happens all the time in reality, so you should be careful, to choose a girlfriend that loves you for who you are.

This can happen in a relationship at times, and it’s caused by many different things.

Remember that everything is in your control, if you find yourself in a relationship with a girl who is using you, then there’s a good chance that you are 99% responsible for the situation you find yourself in.

How can you tell you’re being used?

If you suspect you’re being used by a woman, look for any of the indicators listed below; if you notice more than one of them, the woman you’re in a relationship with may be using you.

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Your Girlfriend Only Calls When She Wants Something From You

The most obvious example is, some women may take advantage of you by only contacting you when they require assistance. Perhaps they need you to fix something or get something for them from the shops.

Pay attention to when ladies call and how they communicate with you over the phone. She may not be that into you if she just calls every few weeks and asks for a favor each time.

There is nothing wrong with your girlfriend asking for help, nothing at all, but when you ask for help in return but she never helps you, then that’s a huge warning sign.

Remedy to your girlfriend using you

So, if you suspect your girlfriend of using you, by only contacting you when she needs something. The best strategy is to contact her on a regular basis, and ask for her to help with something. If she helps you most of the time, then she isn’t really using you is she?

Though, on the other side of things, if she starts to get a little annoyed at you for asking for her help, then she clearly thinks this is a one-way relationship. One way, as in, you are here to serve her, and she has zero obligation to reciprocate. Warning, it’s time to get away from this type of girlfriend asap.

Blue Pill Men Get Used By Women The Most

Women who are users are drawn to men, who they assume have the resources they desire, mixed with a passive nature (the classic blue pill nice guy). These women tend to concentrate on finding blue pill men who are easily manipulated.

In case you think these guys are pathetic, keep in mind the majority of men on planet Earth are blue pilled, which means there’s a possibility you are one too but are unaware of it.

In this context, a blue pill man is the type of guy who is living in sexual scarcity, these men are usually quite good at their jobs, they usually make plenty of money, but when it comes to women, utterly clueless.

Manipulative women know how to identify a man who is living in sexual scarcity, then use access to sex, as a powerful lever to extract as much resources as possible.

If you are in the early stage of a relationship with a girl, here’s one thing you should be looking out for :

Constantly being asked about how much money you have or status-related things like, what type of job do you have, education questions etc Are of course, a good clue you’re being assessed by a girl who is only after resources.

Girls who do this frequently will not give you the time of day unless you have money or status. Warning!, you’re practically exchanging sex for things at this point, which indicates she wants to use you in the future, to support a lifestyle she can’t afford on her own.

It’s really difficult to maintain an act when you’re relying on someone. Within a short time, perhaps the first three months of a relationship, women who are users will show their true selves. Some users may take up to a year or two to show their true intentions.

When a woman shows you who they truly are, it’s a good rule of thumb to leave them. Remember, this is what I teach all of my students, one of your most powerful tools as a man, is the ability to walk away at any moment.

Believe me, that if she starts acting like a psychopathic user, it’s time to get out of there.

Please don’t be naive enough to think that you can change her.

The last type of life and girlfriend you want is one where you are paying for everything, every time you go out with her. When you go out on a date together, you always pay the bill.

You pay for her new clothes when you go shopping together. You pay for your tickets and lodging whenever you go on a trip. Maybe she gets you to pay for her mobile phone bills, cosmetics.

If she’s from overseas, you’ll discover that your girlfriend is sending your money back to her family, in another country etc.

While it is acceptable to occasionally pay for your girlfriend, keep in mind that a relationship should be equal, and the two of you should be on an equal footing, she should at least try to meet you half way sometimes.

If you’ve been paying all of her bills up until now, it’s a sure sign she’s swindling you out of your money.

A relationship should be a two-way street. To make it work, both partners must put in the effort. You should never accept a relationship, when it’s one-sided if you are the only one putting forth the effort, it’s time to escape.

Does She Appreciate You?

A girl who genuinely likes you would appreciate all of your efforts to make the relationship work. She will appreciate all of your gestures, no matter how tiny, and will make every effort to reciprocate and make you happy.

She will never withhold sex or use it as a bargaining chip to get you to comply with her demands, a girl who appreciates you, will never see sex this way.

Have you met her family and friends?

A good girlfriend who is genuinely interested in you will gladly introduce you to her family and friends. She’d want the entire world to know you’re dating.

However, you are unimportant to a female who is using you. You’re merely someone who is currently meeting her needs. She’ll move on once she’s gotten what she wants from you.