How Do I Cold Approach a Girl on Public Transport?

Dave

February 8, 2022

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You must have plausible deniability when cold approaching girls on public transport, because picture this.

You start a conversation with a girl in a confined space filled with multiple onlookers who are all listening to your conversation. Under these conditions, you definitely want to have plausible deniability, so that everyone listening to this conversation is unaware that this is in fact a cold approach.

You want them all to think that this is some guy being friendly to a random girl because he’s bored or whatever.

That’s me cold approaching a girl at the bus stop a few weeks ago

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How Do I Cold Approach Girl’s on Public Transport?

You’ve seen a woman out and about who you’d like to know but aren’t sure how to go about it. Perhaps you’re shy or thought of as “socially unattractive” by a lot of people individuals, or you’re just not interested in the whole “dating thing” and aren’t sure how to approach someone you’re drawn to.

Making a cold approach to anyone is an intimidating experience, especially if you’re unsure of the best way to begin the conversation.

It is possible to approach someone cold girl and make the encounter smooth. Cold approaches happen when you meet someone with whom you don’t have a social relationship.

Unlike a warm approach, it’s a complete and complete stranger without having the “friend-of-a-friend” protection to make it easier. It’s not easy to handle. It’s a bit terrifying at times. It can feel as if you’re handing your whole worth into the hands of others.

How To Cold Approach Women on Public Transportation

Get Ready to Warm Up Before Getting on The Trains. Most people like to talk to several people with questions in the street before getting to the subway platform.

This way, people warm-up and get ready for the journey when they arrive. Make Sure to Avoid Going in The Rush Hour

There was some men’s dating advice article a few years ago in which a gentleman took a train ride every hour to find out how many females versus males there were in the rush hour between evening and morning, 55% females.

After 3 am, the ratio is down to five percent. Lunchtime during the week and on Saturdays isn’t too bad also.

Position Yourself Before Opening Your Mouth

Go Next to Her (positioning) It’s usually a good excuse to enter her area at the station or on the train: act as if you’re looking over maps and indications for directions.

If she’s on the opposite part of the train, you can stand up, glance at a map, and then walk around her. You could try looking at the nearby signs if you’re on the platform. You can stop walking once you reach her, then look around to see if a bus or train is moving towards her.

You Can Find a Place to Sit Next to Her. If there’s an empty seat adjacent behind her in the bus, train, or platform, make sure you use the opportunity to use it. Sometimes you’ll need to act swiftly when many people are shuffled about, making sure you keep your eyes on the road.

Use Indirect Cold Approach (Daygame)

Because it’s an enclosed space, it’s best to be more careful when approaching women. A few methods to help women open which have been successful for me are:

“Do you know the location of a zoo that is within Central Park?” Example.

“Love these boots! Where did you find these boots? My friend was searching for identical shoes to those.”

“Do you know of a great venue for Karaoke?” Example.

Speak To Her on This Platform Before You Do, If It Is Possible. Begin talking with her at the station If you spot her, instead of waiting. If you’re scared to let her off the platform or if you feel the situation isn’t working, then you’re not likely to be able to relax after you’re on the train.

Please find Out the Location Where She’s Getting Off. In the course of conversation with her, you can ask her which way she’s going to get off.

So, you can determine how long you’ll need to speak with her and get her contact information. Based on the topic you’re looking to ask, you could be able to say, “No! Yes, I do.’

Have Contact Details Ready. You don’t want to be awkwardly scrambling with your phone at the last moment to exchange contact details when her stop occurs.

Make it a priority to do this ahead of time whenever you can. It is also possible to keep a notecard with your email address for the occasion that you need to swap information fast.

Benefits Of Learning Cold Approach

The cold approach refers to the practice of making contact with women you do not know with a romantic motive to make contact with the woman better or even to find an opportunity to meet. The cold approach differs from dating online or a warm approach.

It is about putting yourself in front of people, and you may encounter rejection, awkwardness, and occasional embarrassment. But it can be an enjoyable experience and could result in a relationship or romantic relationship. Below are my five advantages of cold-calling women.

Improves Talking Abilities. The people who take the cold approach compared to online dating are more effective in their communication.

They’ll be able to communicate with different kinds of women and succeed socially with other people. Knowing what it takes to become a great talking ear can assist you in specific business fields and build relationships with clients.

Pick Any Girl You’d Like

If a person is online dating, he restricts himself to only a few girls he is matched with through the app. Many attractive women do not respond to messages on dating websites because they are bombarded with many messages.

So, your message might not be noticed, and you might receive messages from women you don’t consider attractive, but with a cold approach, you could pick any attractive girl you come across.

It’s all you need is to walk up to her and start an exchange. If the girl is interested in what you have to offer, she might even offer to give you a chance.

Enhances Confidence. Cold-approach improves self-confidence. After you have approached a number of women, you’ll improve how you communicate, and you will become proficient in your approach.

Cold approach will boost your confidence as a man, and you’ll be able to make friends with women easily.

Reduces Anxiety About Social Situations. When you begin coldly approaching women, the social anxiety you experience will decrease as you are exposed to different kinds of people.

The more you interact and talk to people you engage in, the more the social anxieties and anxieties will diminish.

What Are The Benefits of Cold Approach?

Creates new opportunities. Cold-calling can indeed open many opportunities for you.

If you make more contacts, the greater your chance is likely to meet people you enjoy, and even when you don’t get one of those dates, however, you will create more friends by hanging out and building an improved lifestyle for your social circle.

Thus, you’ll have a better chance of meeting an individual partner and making new acquaintances.

Sometimes, it can seem a savage experience, and with the many rejections you could face, it is possible to overcome the rejection part and not take it personally.

You’ll see that you can accomplish more quickly than waiting for weeks to find a possible meeting that may not be in the dark after a few days.

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