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How Can a Guy Find a Hot Girlfriend to Date? Love is always in the air, but with the last two years of the pandemic, it may have become even more difficult to find a stable girlfriend.
It may be that your game is a little rusty, but don’t worry, it’s nothing that can’t be fixed.
In this dating advice for men article we will give you some types so you can find a beautiful girl to date and who knows, maybe it will transform into something more.
The tips range from how you should present yourself, the clothing that most attracts women, how you can find a beautiful girl (either online or in-person), and the best topics of conversation for a first date (so you make sure that there will be a second one).
How to Meet the Perfect Girlfriend?
The moment of meeting the girl is the most important since without this any other advice will not help you at all. It is estimated that 3,402 billion women live on planet earth, so apparently, it should not be difficult to meet a beautiful girl, but in reality, this is not an easy task.
Ideally, most men reading this should look for a woman who has some kind of interest in common with yours, since it does not matter how beautiful your girlfriend is, but how well you two get along and how many interests you have in common.
If your hobbies are almost all men or the girls already have boyfriends, you can seek to expand your horizons. This means you can look for a type of hobby where there are more women.
For example, a reading club (you can find one that has a theme that interests you), a course to learn languages, or to learn to play instruments in a group. If you are brave then enter the world of sewing! It is full of beautiful and intelligent women.
If you are a gamer, you like anime or some kind of series or movie saga, in particular, you can look for meetings or conventions of people who have the same interests and get together in person.
In some cases they plan the meetings through social media, so you can already see who will attend from your home.
How Do I Find The Perfect Girlfriend?
Even if none of that works, there are still hundreds of things you can do. Go to a bar or nightclub with friends, and be nice to the local girls.
Do not say anything negative or disrespectful, girls love it when they are treated well. If a girl tells you no, then let her be! If she is interested in you as a man, she will look for you again and make it easy for you to approach.
Also, don’t forget that there are meet-cutes. I know it may sound like a dating industry cliche, but the love of your life can be anywhere.
If you see a girl you like, it doesn’t matter if you’re in a mall or on a train, try to respectfully approach her, or give her a piece of paper with your cell phone number (or some social media so she can see your posts), This way you will not scare her but she will know that you are interested in her.
Finally, you can also meet her on conventional social media or dating apps. These may seem annoying at first, but many people meet their future wives on Tinder. You must have your profile updated and with good photos, I will talk about that later.
How to introduce yourself to a hot girl
Appearance is all that matters. While it is true that you should be yourself, do not forget that the first thing someone sees is your physical appearance, and if this does not attract them, then they will not be interested in knowing you as a person.
Do not let this scare you or make you do crazy things, think that there is nothing written about tastes, and you will be able to find a woman who loves you as you are regardless of your height or skin color.
However, there are some ways of dressing that immediately appeal to women.
A mix of a casual and formal outfit is perfect. It can be typical blue jeans and a shirt, with a hoodie (if all goes well she will steal it from you!).
You can also use gray joggers, which is something that drives them crazy. Also, try to keep your hair and beard neat. You don’t have to change your niche style, but be sure to keep it clean, showing that you care about the way you look.
Conversation starters for a first date
Unless she is a friend you have known for years, the first date is always a difficult barrier to cross, especially if you do not have the best conversation skills.
Something essential is that you do not talk about yourself all the time. When she asks you a question, answer it, but also follow up with a question for her to answer. In this way, she will feel that you really care, and you will also get to know more about her (and if she really is the perfect fit for you).
On the first date, try to be flirty but not rude. No woman likes a man who seems desperate, or who just wants to get her into bed. Be respectful, ask about their hobbies, their favorite series or movies, and what she do for a living.
This is very important, especially if it’s a date with a girl you didn’t ask a lot of information about, this way you’ll get to know her quickly.
If she’s a friend or someone you’ve known for a while, show her that you’re that same person and that you didn’t change just because you want to date her now. But if you have a more flirtatious posture, otherwise you will be in the friend zone forever.
Choose the right location for the date with her
The best thing a single man can do is let her choose where she wants to go, be a simp. The world is an insecure and scary place for women, so if she chooses she will feel more comfortable/safe and willing to spend more time with you.
Now if she doesn’t want to choose, you can do something fun. Send her a list of different places or types of dates you can do, and let her choose the one that interests her the most.
The best options are to go to escape rooms, or some other type of game if you like action, go to eat and see a movie in the cinema (it never fails!), visit museums or historical places in the city, go to a cute cafe, etc.
These places drive them crazy, and they will definitely want to go there with you for a second date.
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