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Most men are attracted to women in their prime (18 to 25 years old), regardless of how old the men become, the majority will be attracted to girls in their prime.

When a man reaches his 40’s, women in their prime are mostly out of reach to him, simply because girls in their prime prefer younger guys. As every day passes, girls in their prime are slowly getting more and more out of reach of men over the age of 40.

Today I’m going to give some dating advice on how men in their 40’s can increase their chances of meeting and dating girls in their prime.

In your 20’s and 30’s, dating is by far easier for men. Girls in their prime years between 18 and 25 are usually attracted to guys in their mid 20’s to mid 30’s, the average age differential is between 3 to 8 years difference.

As an example, a 21 year old girl would prefer to date a guy who’s 24 yrs to 29 yrs old. This is just a rough estimate in my opinion.

Depending on how much effort a 25 to 29 year old guy puts into his charisma and what I like to call ”game”, cold approach skills etc. With basic cold approach skills, he should have the ability to get himself a girlfriend quite easily.

When a man reaches his 30’s, he’ll have to make sure that he has his life is some type of order. He will be disadvantaged if he’s still living with his parents. He’ll have to be in shape and have at least an average paying job.

The amount of effort he’ll need to put in will have to increase somewhat more, that is, if he wants to date girls in their prime (around 21 years old).

Dating is More Difficult for Men in their 40’s

An 18 to 25 year old girl in her prime, is mostly going to find a guy in his 40’s way too old for her to date.

She’ll usually say that he’s old enough to be her father and this would be somewhat embarrassing if her friends were to discover that she’s dating a guy almost 20 years older. For this reason alone, an average looking girl in her prime would be almost out of reach for the average man in his 40’s.

The majority of men don’t have status and wealth by time they reach their 40’s

One Man’s Life Mission

There’s one advantage some people refer to when pitching their case for men over 40. And that’s wealth and status, so I might as well address that right now.

These advantages are not relevant for the majority of men, as not all have a smooth run of luck through their 20’s and 30’s, the majority are not in the 1%.

And I’d argue that many successful men in their 40’s have been gamed by average looking older women into marrying them and are off the market in their 40’s.

Unless they have been divorced, but then they would most probably been divorce raped by the court system and be paying ”child support” to their ex-wife, which wouldn’t exactly put them in the highly desirable ”high status” and ”wealthy” slot.

I’d say that these men have been chewed up and spat out by society at this point and they might as well be starting from ground zero again, but they are no longer in their 20’s with all the advantages that gives them.

It’s rare to find a man who has avoided all the pitfalls of marriage and divorce by time he reaches 40 years old.

One Man’s Life Mission

Depending on how lucky the guy has been in life, by time he’s over 40 years old, he may have built up a large amount of wealth. Many men in western countries own some real estate, maybe even own a few investment properties too.

At the age of 40, men who grew up in a secure family environment, should have an education, at least a degree or maybe higher levels of qualifications too.

If everything went right for a man through his early years, by time he’s in his 40’s, he could be in a fairly secure financial situation with a career or business as evidence of his success in life.

Some Girls Do Prefer Older Men

• Daddy issues
• Gold diggers
• 3rd world girls after citizenship

People say only girls with ”daddy issues” would be prefer to date older men, because they have some type of childhood mental trauma. Sure, this makes sense, there would be quite a few girls out there who prefer to date older men for that very reason.

The classic is Hugh Hefner, there’s no way any of his playboy bunnies were attracted to him. The age difference was usually around 55 years, he was in his 80’s with a bunch of girls in their 20’s living with him, by that age, I doubt his penis could even work anymore.

These girls, most people would argue were in it for the money and status, the classic gold digger girls.

If a guy in his later years was to be luckily born in a wealthy country, women from 3rd world countries (developing countries) would love to marry him in order to get citizenship in a better country.

You see, everything is relative. When someone lives in a poor country with no social system to protect the average citizen, marrying a guy twice her age would be totally worth it, if she can move to a better country for a higher standard of living.

How Men Can Date Younger Women

Above, I’ve addressed all the surface level factors the are involved with dating younger women. Now it’s time to figure out how you as an older man can date younger women and rise above all of the problems above.

The time of writing this blog post, I’m currently 41 years old and have used these methods to date many girls 15 years younger than myself on a consistent basis.

Cold Approach Pick Up

All of the main stream methods that everyone knows about, are far less effective than cold approach. Girls who party in nightclubs and use online dating apps like Tinder are going to have more access to guys within their age range. These younger guys are going to have a natural advantage in the clubs and on Tinder.

Even if you are one of those 1% successful guys in their 40’s, you are still at a disadvantage in these two environments.

Look for environments where beautiful girls in their 20’s are, without the younger male competition.

The most effective way to have success with younger women is cold approach pick up, which is approaching a girl in a public place, with a clear strategy of dating her. This can be scary for most guys. Here‘s a free video series on what exactly it is.

Some people call it Daygame, which is usually the art of seeing a girl walking down the street and going over to her to introduce yourself. Building rapport during the conversation, showing some charisma, then hopefully impressing her with your confidence. Getting her contact information afterwards, in order to line up a date with her on another day.

I’ve created a 30 challenge that you can do from home, simply watch these videos every day for the next 30 days. I’ve included 40 videos, with homework everyday, it’s like a short university course for meeting girls. At the end, you should be well on the way towards becoming proficient at cold approach.

Another free option I give to my clients, is the facebook group which is full of educational videos, showing men cold approaching girls in the street and you can hear the entire conversation. Join up

What’s Your Experience Dating Younger Girls?

Here are some of my best posts:

• Cold approach is a lifestyle (My Philosphy)
• What is indirect daygame
• What I say to Girls (Logistics)
• How to Write a PickUp field report
• How to spot a fake dating coach
• How I got laid in Japan (epic post)
• Why Thailand is NO longer good for getting laid

If you want to learn more about the sweet art of cold approach, Enquire here, join my group, where I’ll have a chat to you before entering. Get my free video series and finally, if you are adventurous, try my 30 day challenge.