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When you clicked on this blog post about dating Australian girls. I’m assuming that you are looking to date the typical Caucasian Aussie girl, that the main stream media portrays.

She usually has a European background, Blonde, with hobbies like sunbaking at the beach, saying the c word and watching footy while drinking beer.

The fact of the matter is, Australia has become the most multi-cultural country on Earth.

This means that the typical ‘’Australian Woman’’ is rarer than ever. The ‘’typical’’ Australian girl comes from every racial, religious and cultural background that exists in the world today.

Taking that into account, I’ll be trying to give the most broad advice based on the complexities in the Australian dating market today (2021).

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How To Get An Australian Girlfriend

Here are a few of the traditional ways to meet Aussie women :

• Meet an Australian girl at a house party
• At an Australian University
• At Work (be careful though)
• Meet Aussie girls at the local pub
• Dating apps (increasingly popular)
• Aussie nightclubs
• Meet-up is a great website to meet Australian women doing a hobby you both have in common
• Australian girls love the Beach

How Socialism affects the dating market in Australia

Australia is a socialist country, which means that Australian women are easily financially supported by the government through a multitude of welfare packages.

This means that an Australian girl doesn’t need to rely on a man to support her when the Australian government will.

Dating in socialist countries are far more difficult than capitalist countries for this very reason.

In short, men in Australia pay taxes and those taxes are redistributed to women. This takes away any leverage men historically have had.

Australian Girls Version of Hypergamy – Tall Poppy Syndrome

This is a uniquely Australian cultural phenomenon. Tall poppy syndrome is an important thing to talk about, when it comes to dating Australian women. The basic definition of tall poppy syndrome is that Australian women are not impressed by money, status or power.

Well, it’s not quite that clear cut. Australian girls don’t like guys who brag about their high status, their money, who they know etc.

It’s quite a turn off to Australian girls but simultaneously they do appreciate high status men, it’s just bragging too much and thinking that you’re better than everyone is a turn off to them.

Partially, the reason for this tall poppy syndrome phenomenon is Australia’s socialist economic structure. Women don’t need to seek out the most wealthy of men to ensure their off springs survival.

Well, because the government will support women and their children, no matter what poor choices they make.

So, Australian women would like to find a wealthy man, but not one that wants respect for what he’s achieved in life.

Instead, they want a wealthy man that will be submissive and treat her as if she’s the successful one (even though she hasn’t achieved anything in life). Yup, that’s a brutal way to put it, but that’s as close to the truth as I can explain it.

The optimum strategy to avoid being rejected due to tall poppy syndrome, is to not brag about anything. I’ve even seen guys get rejected because they were driving a Ferrari.

Girls will sometimes avoid a guy with a sports car, because that sports car can sometimes represent arrogance. Yes I know how weird that sounds. As a result of this tall poppy syndrome, you’ll see men dressing down and acting quite humble in a Australia.

Methods to Get an Australian Girlfriend

Now we get to my favourite topic. There are only really three 3 ways to bring girls into your life.

1. Online dating : This is by simply using one of a multitude of dating apps on your mobile phone
2. Night Game : This is the 2^nd most common method used by men. Get drunk on the weekend and hit the local night club.
3. Daygame : The sweet art of cold approach is by far the best method to meet women. Yet, interestingly is the least popular method. Daygame is cold approaching women during your day to day life in order to ask girls out on dates.

The Best Australian City to Find a Girlfriend

I’ve travelled to all the major cities in Australia. There are a few smaller cities that I have not visited, but I’d argue that my limited experience is still worthy of being taken seriously.

In my opinion.

Brisbane is the best Australian city to get an Australian girlfriend.

Let me explain why.

Melbourne and Sydney are busy cities. People are way too busy to stop and speak to strangers. People in these cities are generally more rude too. Not to mention the fact that Sydney and Melbourne have wealthy/high quality men to compete with.

Brisbane on the other hand, is more laid back and relaxed. The people are in less of a rush and therefore they are more friendly.

The approach to hook ratio in Brisbane

The first thing that I noticed about Brisbane, was how almost every girl that I approached, would be friendly with me. Girls in Brisbane are just more friendly. If you say hello, they will say hello back.

Hook ratio is so important when doing daygame. Because, if you can get into a conversation, you can run your game more often and this will increase your conversion rate over time.

Why Brisbane girls are better

Brisbane has a population of 2.2 million which is half the size of Sydney’s 4 million. Plus, Brisbane’s CBD is smaller. It’s only a short drive outside of Brisbane cbd and you’ll find yourself in a small country town real quick.

This is key. Girls who live in a big city know that the chance of them meeting you again is slim. This means that they don’t have to worry about insulting you and therefore a generally more rude to strangers.

Girls that live in country towns, know that a stranger is more likely to know their friends or family or work colleagues.

So, if they are rude to a stranger, that stranger could tell others within her community about her rudeness and this could negatively affect her reputation. This is why country girls try to be friendly to everyone.

In Brisbane, there are a higher concentration of country girls and therefore a higher probability of them being nice to you, when you cold approach them.

There are many more reasons why I think Brisbane girls are better, but perhaps I could write another blog post for that specific topic in the near future.

Types of Australian Girls

The Bogan Australian Girl

Avoid at all costs! She came from a broken home. Her father left when she was young (usually grew up with her mother). Her default conflict resolution strategy is swearing and violence (yet the Australian police never put her in jail).

She is mostly uneducated. Takes drugs or drinks heavily. Drama follows her where ever she goes.

She has usually developed serious mental illness due to her poor lifestyle choices. She is often a single mother before her 21^st birthday and everything that has gone wrong in her life is everyone’s elses fault except herself.

The Trash Australian Girl gold digger!

This girl came from the same background as the bogan but shes very different.

She avoided the pitfalls of drug abuse and dating low quality men (which the bogan did not). The Trash thinks that she is better than the Bogan, plus she has delusions of grandeur.

The Trash likes to leverage her friends and family for financial gain (money is important to her). She will get into pyramid schemes and try sell these scams to her friends and family.

The Trash will go to a house party with pate, ‘’fancy’’ cheeses, crackers and some cheap caviar.

She thinks that this makes her look classy. She will also be caught wearing fake dolce and gabana sunglasses, fake ‘’coach’’ bags and other accessories that she bought for $5 when she last went on holidays to Bali.

The Trash moves around a lot, she tries a fancy suburb for a while (looking to make it rich) renting a place she cannot afford (keeping up appearances).

She like to think of herself as a socialite, but in reality, she’s only invited to parties and events because she’s beautiful. Most people hate The Trash because shes fake, but she doesn’t understand why. Avoid The Trash at all costs.

The Shire Australian Girl

She comes from an upper middle class family, where both her parents never divorced.

The shire can spot a high value man from a mile away, she won’t fall for your tricks. If you earn less than $250k per year, the shire will most probably not even talk to you.

She will sleep with a jacked middle eastern man when shes under 30 and still playing the field. But by 30 yrs old, she’ll start looking for a provider to settle down with.

The shire usually has long well manicured nails, hair extensions, long eye lashes, she loves the Kardashians. What makes the Shire such a controversial Australian girl to date is that she always seems to get what she wants.

And this makes people envious to the point of outright hatred. Avoid dating the shire after she turns 30 yrs old.

The Good Country Australian Girl

The good country girl comes from a middle class family on the outskirts of a big city. Her parents never divorced and would do anything for their little angel.

Instead of becoming a problem girl that’s negatively influenced by bad, inner city people. She instead listens and respects her parents.

It almost feels like her family life is too perfect, but if you dig deeper, you’ll realise that it is truly perfect. She is polite and friendly to strangers.

She knows that nothing is earned without hard work, which means that she has a university degree. Under stress, she is centred and logical.

The good country girl has a close set of life long friends that she met in primary school and they will be friends for the rent of their lives.

If you are damaged in anyway, she will accept you because she’s an angel. But her friends and family will sabotage you, because you are no where near as perfect as she is and you don’t deserve her.

The good country girl is usually religious, her family will pray before eating a family meal together every Sunday.

If you are willing to work hard on improving yourself and proving this to her family, they will melt and accept you in.

The good country girl is the gold standard of Australian girl and you should wife her up immediately or some other lucky chump will!

The ABA (Australian Born Asian) Her community wants her to date within her racial identity

The ABA which means that she could be an ABC Australian born Chinese or ABK Australian born Korean or any other background. Her culture comes first, even though shes born in Australia.

Many Australians think (wrongly) that Asian girls prefer white guys. This is a myth. Her family and friends are all Asian.

And it’s important to understand that Asian families prefer their daughters and sisters to date within their racial background. This does not mean that if you are from the sub-continent or of European background that you cannot date her.

Just keep in mind that her family and friends will put tremendous pressure on her to date an Asian guy. You might see this as racism and you will be 100% correct.

But that doesn’t change the fact that this happens. The ABA is usually the most educated of all Australian girls. She is also in most cases the most logical and rational.

She is a career focused girl who likes to surround herself with high status people. This doesn’t mean that she doesn’t sleep around, she does.

But again, she is more likely to sleep around with Australian born Asian men.

She will never receive a backlash from her friends or family for sleeping around with Asian men, but if she was to sleep around with a white guy… All hell will break loose and her reputation will be in tatters.

Long story short. If you are an Asian man, go for it. She will sleep with and date even low status Asian men. But if you are white guy or from the sub-continent, then proceed with caution.

The Career Australian Girl – Hypergamy at it’s finest hypocrisy

The career girl is highly educated at is making bank. She works with high status men and they see her as a little bit sad and pathetic.

She is busy all the time, and her busy schedule keeps her from having a good look at her life. She will go out to dinner with almost any man that asks her, but she will expect you to pay for everything.

If you don’t take her somewhere expensive for dinner and treat her like a queen, she will abruptly tell you to your face. No kindness you show will get you into her good graces.

Because she is wealthy, she just expects that all the money you spend doesn’t matter. You could get a loan, to pay for her dinner (as an extreme example) and she will never be thankful to you and even acknowledge your effort.

The career girl is extremely selfish and as a result finds herself single, way into her 30’s or finds herself getting divorced within 10 years of marriage. The career girl should probably be avoided.

Nightclub Australian Girl

The reason a serious relationship should be avoided is she has trouble pair-bonding.

When a girl hits the clubs frequently, she is likely to have many partners over time. Multiple partners over time leads to an inability to pair bond with you.

Not to mention that she has a higher probability of developing drug and alcohol addictions that you may end up paying for. Another commonality is daddy Issues.

Another equally concerning problem some nightclub girls, is the co-dependant with emotional problems.

She is the opposite. She falls in love with you immediately, even though you’ve only known her a few hours and you met at 2am in a random night club.

This type of girl can be quite possessive and even dangerous. Over the years, I have heard of many guys finding girlfriends in the nightclubs but they are still few and far between. Mostly, the nightclub girl is one to be avoided.

Here are some of my best posts:

• Cold approach is a lifestyle (My Philosphy)
• What is indirect daygame
• What I say to Girls (Logistics)
• How to Write a PickUp field report
• How to spot a fake dating coach
• How I got laid in Japan (epic post)
• Why Thailand is NO longer good for getting laid

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