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This is a daygame coaching testimonial from a student who got some results. And so I thought I’d get a little bit of a testimonial.
This is Abdul from Pakistan. He has managed to get lucky with a girl from Brazil recently. We’re going to break down what happened, and apparently, he used some of my strategies.
I started by asking him before coming to get a coaching with me who was your coach?
He replied “I’ve been coached by someone really who speaks about it a lot.
There’s so much hype and there’s so much dating and stuff, which is a lot of marketing basically, some people are, like, really good at marketing, but not as good at pickup.
I left a boot camp midway because it was not making any sense but with you, you were a big shot. With you, even a simple conversation with you was like, so valuable. It was incredible.
I told him I’m blushing right now. I don’t know how to take that. So we won’t mention that guy, yeah for now let’s keep it this way.
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Onwards I asked him “You have any luck with this coaching? Is mine the first time, we need to get to the bottom to see if it was my coaching, too.
I’m not taking credit for something that could have happened anyway. But did you get any success between them and meeting me since you’ve been in Australia? Success, like bedroom success?
He answered “No, I didn’t have any success before that. This is the first time. This is my first ever lay from day game.
It’s a huge morale booster for me. Like, I thought that those guys who look good and are well built, that’s who the game is for.
I was like, honestly doing it for my self-development and to build my resilience. The reason why I kept on doing it is that I was dedicated to it, and my self-development.
But I didn’t expect any concrete results or anything.
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But after coaching with you, things changed for real. And I was not expecting this. This happened, like, literally after my day game session.
So after I had like an hour and a half day game session in the city and I was just going back home, I was walking home and I saw this cute, like, South American girl, and I was honestly not gaming her that.
On that, I answered that is normally when that happens, if you got Win and you meet up with the wing, you’re just fucking around let’s just be honest.
Because a wing is only going to get in your way, you’re going to talk shit with each other. You’re going to challenge each other to do stupid shit and it gets you in the mind, right?
Yeah. And when you go home, when you’re so low, that’s when the magic happens.
He said “That’s what I love about you. Nobody gives me this advice. You told me, like no-bullshit advice and it hits hard sometimes.
But that’s what you need to know. I think in my opinion, that’s what you need. And that’s pretty much worth it for me.
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So yeah I meet her on the way home and I asked her. She had a peculiar accent. So that’s how I started the conversation.
I just cold read her if she was from South America or if she was Spanish or something like that and I went indirect as you coached me.
Yeah, so since I had an hour and a half day game session, I was pretty unstaffed and I literally just normally carried on a conversation and I just went in for the number at the end of the small conversation and she gave it to me.
I asked him during the conversation, did you know where she lived, where she worked? Did you know all the logistics? Did you understand what time of the week she was busy and free?
Abdul answered “Honestly, she didn’t have too good English. And like we had just met and I was not sure if she was very comfortable sharing everything, like to a stranger on the street it’s very hard to share personal information.
But I did instead, though. I remember what you said. And what I did instead was told her where I lived and got her to open up to me a bit and maybe that build some comfort.
That’s why she probably shared her number or something like that.
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I asked him Okay, so you told me so far that she kind of went quiet? Obviously, by the way, you need to fix up that logistics thing. You need to know that’s very important. That’s a work in progress
No pressure, but yeah, a little bit harder, and make sure we get a little bit more out of you. So we need to fix that as well.
She went quiet like she was ghosting you that’s what you told me on right?
He replied “Yeah, so I got her number and a few days later I texted her if she would like to grab a coffee or something, just like we spoke.
So when I got her number, I just casually asked her if she would come to the city and we could have a cup of coffee or drinks maybe.
It was just a follow-up text, which she didn’t reply to. So I deleted her number, just like you advised me and I just moved on.
She messaged me two to three days later. She messaged me. I didn’t have a number even, but she WhatsApp me. I did remember her name from WhatsApp?
After that I told him when you’re getting a lot of rejection by deleting by not having her name on your phone, it protects you from the rejection.
She doesn’t become real. You don’t let her into your emotion you don’t build an emotional connection with someone that doesn’t deserve to be there just yet.
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So what you do is you don’t put their name in there, you just have the text thread, and if they become flaky, which is the majority of times then you just delete it and then focus on enjoying your cold approach and then they sometimes come back.
You don’t get angry at them, you don’t message them, which some guys do, you just delete it. And then sometimes a couple of days later, a couple of days is very not too long to wait. Sometimes I’ve waited six months.
But yeah, if you send an abusive message, you burn it. But if you just leave it hanging.
So she replied to me a few days later and asked me my whereabouts. And I was too busy with my work back then. Just like you advised, I was like, you see, I’m not available right now, but maybe we can catch up over the weekend and I just let that go again.
Because honestly, she had a history of flaking. That’s how I took it. If she replies, then I replied to her and I would not go after her or something like that.
That protects your emotional state. You don’t get stressed about rejection all the time. You just enjoy the game. And it’s a marathon. It’s not a sprint, it’s a marathon.
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I like your advice, on why you should stick to someone when you can make unlimited approaches. So I took it into practice. I tried to put that into my system.
If you get kind of a girl like that, that just doesn’t reply and she’s not respecting you, then you put her on the kind of the back burner.
She’s in the background. If it happens, it happens. If it doesn’t happen, it doesn’t happen. You don’t care. You focus on tomorrow.
You focus on meeting a girl that’s going to show you the respect that you deserve. But yeah, it sounds like this one panned out.
So I confirmed her the night before and I didn’t get a reply. And so I again deleted the conversation altogether because clearly, she had a history within 24 hours, was that.
Literary, half an hour or an hour before we were supposed to meet, she texted me. I mean, she was at me and she was like, hey, how are you? And I’m going to be in town soon.
Let’s catch up. At that time I was just going for another day’s game session and I’m like, sure, why not? So yeah, that’s when we met. It was an awesome interaction after that.
She respected that I was not all over her like other guys. I think that’s what built a lot of attraction. And it was genuine.
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It was not that I was trying to fake it or something, but I genuinely didn’t care if the interaction went anyway. And another thing was that I’ll let her play the game as well as you said.
I told him yeah, allow her to come to you. And also she’s proven herself to be flaky. So then it’s like, oh, well, this girl, she’s going to come in, she’s going to flow in, she’s going to flow out, and she’s going to continue doing that.
So whatever. And then you analyze her accurately. That’s the type of girl she is.
Onwards I asked him on the date, did you have the mentality that we’re just going to pull and burn it? She’s not into it. She’s a flaky girl. Did you have that idea?
He answered “Honestly, I didn’t know how to I mean, I read her, but I was not sure if I should trust my reading on her.
But I made all the arrangements from my end and didn’t keep any expectations. We had a solid interaction and we had a few drinks thereafter.
Then everything was super easy when she was like, she was herself into me. The pool was very natural. I didn’t feel any stress at all. I had imagined bullying a girl, like, maybe hundreds of times before, and even imagining it was stressful to me.
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But when it happened, it was so normal. After it was all done, I had the greatest sense of achievement. Yeah. In the sense that it gave me a lot of confidence that I can do this and that I am making progress.
I asked him did he use route mapping and watched out for black spots where things would go wrong?
He replied “I did, I chose the venues which were into the route, just like you explained, and then it just went according to plan.
Finally, I told him there was a whole process. And now you’ve completed one entire process. Now what we do is we start from the beginning and then run it again and run it until you have it down part.
Yeah. And then probably find yourself a girlfriend and a wife.
I think that’s pretty much it. I think that’s everything that’s the testimonial. I hope you have learned something from this conversation.
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- What I say to Girls (Logistics)
- How to Write a PickUp field report
- How to spot a fake dating coach
- How I got laid in Japan (epic post)
- Why Thailand is NO longer good for getting laid
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