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So next on the list is Ultimate Man Project. So my understanding is three guys that are part of this pick-up company.

But today we’re going to be looking at one guy, His name is Alex. And so we’re going to break down an infield of Alex today.

Obviously, if you disagree with my analysis, leave a comment. If you want to suggest to anyone else that I should break down their infields, leave a comment. So let’s get into this one.

So he’s obviously pretty young. He’s a really good-looking guy. I think he looks relatively tall. Good looking guy, 25, and he looks really thin, too. But good-looking guys, let’s just get into the analysis.

Firstly, he is saying that “It’s always been like the fucking real difficult part for me is getting out of anxiety.

That has always been the big thing. If I wasn’t constantly crystallized by anxiety, I would have 20 times to result”.

Alex From Ultimate Man Project Has Approach Anxiety

So it’s got approach anxiety by the sounds of things. I noticed this here. Maybe they gave me my understanding.

It just seems to me like they were going to do some infield and he’s laughing because he’s saying maybe day gaming.

So the approach anxiety kicked in and he couldn’t do any infield that day, which is perfectly okay. Guys have their days.

Sometimes they’re confident, sometimes they’re not, sometimes they’re in the right mood, sometimes they’re not. But he does say that he has anxiety with doing approaches.

Now approach anxiety for you guys at home that is depending on each guy, obviously. But this is a guy that’s had results.

He’s coaching, so he’s a coach. I think it would be very difficult to be a coach in the field teaching guys. I’m getting the impression if he’s teaching guys he’s probably not demonstrating too much.

Daygame Newbies Allow Their Ego’s To Get Out Of Control

He’s a good-looking guy, so he would get results based on his looks and being good-looking. And now obviously making a lot of money coaching, he is good-looking on the make value spectrum right at the top. He’s making money.

He’s traveling around the world and his job is pretty much to meet women. So, therefore, his mate’s value is not just his looks, there’s the status with money.

There are the stories with wherever he’s traveled, you could easily say that he’s probably a nine.
Now that would actually create more approach anxiety with him because what happens is your ego gets so big that if you’re a nine and there’s a girl that’s a nine, you’re more likely a girl on your level, a nine or a ten.

Which game is the game supposed to be building a connection with a girl on your level or higher mate value than yourself?

And you’re a good-looking guy and you’ve got this status, you’ve got more to lose.

So what most commonly happens is the ego kicks in and they don’t want to do approaches. If they do approach, they’re worried about getting rejected.

That’s going to hurt their fragile sort of ego because they’re attractive and they’ve got status and they’ve got all these things going for themselves, so they shouldn’t really get rejected.

Also, the fact that if they’re coaching and they’re afraid of getting rejected because they think that other people are going to judge them, say that they don’t have a game.

So what happens is this feedback loop of if you’re afraid to approach because you might break your reality and people might not see you as high status anymore, then you don’t get enough experience.

UMP Alex (UltimateManProject) Daygame Analysis

If you don’t get enough experience, you don’t improve your game. And he’s only young, he’s only 25. So, therefore, his game, from what I can see, would probably be struggling and not really improving because he’s not taking enough action, not getting enough rejections, and therefore not improving overall.

That is very common with a lot of good-looking guys.

But on the flip side, I’ve also seen a lot of guys that are even virgins that are coaching. I’m just saying this is what he just said and this is what I’m seeing. So let’s get into the infield.

Onwards he said “I think it is like more neglected in the community. No one ever talks about sexualizing day game because it’s already so assumed that you’re not supposed to do it because it doesn’t work in the daytime all of a sudden”.

It doesn’t make sense that he would go from having approach anxiety to the opposite extreme, which is sexualizing in a day game.

Fair enough, In the nightclub, maybe he has even had a drink in a nightclub. Sexualized, you can’t really communicate too well unless you’re whispering in her ear or yelling in her ear at a nightclub.

Alex Lindberg Approach Anxiety (Daygame)

But in the daytime to be sexualizing would be very tough if you have approach anxiety.

So I think that doesn’t make sense to me. It will go from having extreme approach anxiety that it looked like he went out to do some infield, and ended up doing nothing but making a video about the game instead of actually doing an infield.

It’s sitting in a cafe because approach anxiety kicked in. And now he’s going to the opposite, the total extreme where someone with no approach anxiety and totally uncalibrated would be approaching and sexualizing in a day game. So there are inconsistencies there”.

Now he started approaching a cute girl saying “Excuse me, are you a Hungarian?”

She said “Yes”.

He said, “Okay, you speak English right, that’s amazing”.

She said “Yeah, I speak English”

He again complimented her by saying “You glasses are looking great”

She said, “Yeah, I know everyone says that”.

And the conversation goes on just like that.

So when a guy has social anxiety, they will try to overcome it.

They’ll try and put this facade on and try to overcompensate by being over relaxed while they’re speaking to a girl, which is you get a rush, you get an adrenaline rush.

It’s good fun, especially in a day game. Day games are by far the best. But this doesn’t make sense. What I just saw.

Ultimate Man Project Daygame Infield Looks Fake (Allegedly)

So she’s sitting there on her phone with her earplugs in the cameraman standing here, and it looks to me like just a little bit about a bit of my background.

There’s a guy called Jamie Zhu. Jamie Zhu has about 6 million followers on Facebook.

I have spent hundreds of hours out with Jamie Zhu filming pranks. I was with him when Jason Me and he made his largest viral video that received 46 million views and put him on the world stage.

So I was there from the very beginning, all the way through, till he popped and became mega-successful. I spent hundreds of hours with him filming pranks, holding cameras in covert different areas all over the place, and doing stupid things.

We also got to the point where Jamie wanted to fake some infields and fake some pranks. Once we did one where we’re on the trains and got him to sit next to guys and put his hand on their lap on guys lapse on the train, that was real.
Actually, one guy actually tried to fight off. And then the second one we did touching a guy’s legs in public. We set the entire one up.

Every single one was set up. Now, I’m not a stranger to filming pranks and doing this type of stuff. There are hundreds of channels out there.

But I was involved in one of the biggest in the world. This cameraman standing really close, and the camera angles up high.

She’s positioned facing away. She’s looking over here. Just the body language doesn’t look natural.

Okay, there are a few things that don’t really add up so far.

She is got earphones in. And if you guys have done enough approaches, do you understand what I mean?

Her earphones are still in, and she’s listening to music or a podcast when he says, are you Hungarian? And that’s a really weird way to start a conversation.

It looks like they actually know each other as they’ve already met each other. The earphones came out after. So he said, are you Hungarian? She pulls them out and goes, yes.

It doesn’t seem like she’s asking, who are you and why are you talking to me? So far, it’s very inconsistent with what I would deem to be a proper cold approach.

So he walked over and started the conversation, and then they just got straight into a conversation.

There was no real meeting. It was as if it’s all been at the same level. There’s no real rocky road here.

Daygame Cold Approach Pick-Up Infield

Let’s have a look at her. It looks like her legs are probably bigger than his. She might be taller than him, but on the flip side, he is definitely more attractive than her just in my opinion. It looks like maybe we can’t see her face, but she could be.

I don’t know. It’s on a sliding scale. So as you get higher in your mate value, depending on where you are, it’s always on a sliding scale.

But I dare say he’s a lot more attractive than her. So he’s not approaching a girl that is on his level or above him.

Daresay he’s more traveled than her as well. Daresay he’s got more money than her. He’s definitely better dressed than her as well.

She’s wearing kind of cheap clothes and some cheap shoes. He looks really well decked out. So therefore he could just get a really good reaction from her off the approach because he’s so attractive.

That could be what’s going on here? I’m not exactly sure.

Then she’s straight away into where are you from? She’s asking questions about him, which is showing a lot of investment within literally 10 seconds for work, actually.

So he seems very relaxed. He seems like he’s the prize. She hasn’t changed her body language, she hasn’t moved around, she hasn’t looked around at all or anything.

It’s as if they know each other, to be honest, the way I’m looking at this and it seems very inconsistent that he’s got approach anxiety and then he just walks into being this superstar in this interaction.

It just seems very inconsistent to me to someone. I have a bit of experience and this doesn’t really match up. I also know that if you’re filming, the cameraman is holding it up there. It looks like the cameraman is standing right on top of them.

Now we have the police walking in the background or security by the looks of the police and the cameraman has not flinched at all. That doesn’t seem right. It’s either a super-duper hidden camera or something. Not right.

Now the boy is saying “I’m Swedish. I see, but I live in Sydney. I also live in Las Vegas, but I’m traveling around Europe now”.

Huge DHV and so there’s a big difference between her and him. So obviously the game is meeting girls on your level or above your level.

That’s definitely what the game is in my opinion. I think most people believe that as well. It’s not just a good-looking guy going to a poorer country like this and meeting girls beneath his mate’s value. Because that’s not really a game, is it?

UMP University Of Daygame Cringe

Yeah. So the ranges are closer together. He’s just a little bit older which also does make it seem like she’s a little bit beneath him.

He’s traveled the world. She’s from a little town. She’s just staying with a mom so he’s of such higher mate value.

That’s why partially why he’s leaning back. I’m still questionable on this entire infield. I’m not so sure whether it’s real or not because there are so many inconsistencies here.
Anyway, the conversation went on and on and he ended up getting her phone number.

Now, if you’re spending so much time trying to get the number, sometimes it can really lower the vibe. So it’s good to at least keep talking. The phone number isn’t the price. Getting to know her and building an emotional connection with her is the real price.

That’s what you really should be aiming for. And when you’re getting the number, I like getting the number in front of her. Kind of like that lull where you’ve got to go home and you got to put a condom on.

Putting the condom on just lowers the vibe. The sexual tension drops. The vibe in, the conversation drops. It’s kind of the same.

It’s obviously different. But getting the number, when you put the condom and it can just slow everything down and it’s like, get the condom on quickly because you don’t want to lower the intensity of the moment.

Sydney Daygame Coach

When you’re spending so much time just putting the number in, it can be like, okay, the numbers are the prize. You can be a little bit smoother by continuing the conversation while doing that long time spending.

In the end, the boy says “It was nice meeting you” and It doesn’t make any sense? Why would you just end it like that? Is she busy right now? Is he busy right now? Does he need to go somewhere? If you were in that situation, what would you do? You’ve got a yes girl in front of you.

Well, what you do is what the time is? It looks like it’s afternoon. It looks like it’s lunchtime. Invite her out to lunch, take her out to lunch, get to know her a little bit more than obvious, and maybe take her out to dinner.

She said she likes wine. Why don’t you take it for a glass of wine tonight? Why don’t you take her for a glass of wine? Now? How far from this exact location does he live? How far from here is she staying with her mum? Is she free tonight? Is she working tomorrow or tomorrow morning?

If she’s working tomorrow afternoon, she could probably come and stay at your place tonight. It doesn’t make sense why he would just get the number and get out.

Because now what you’ve done is you’ve slowed everything down.

All the vibes slowed down. And when it gets to the point of getting the number, it can make it very difficult to then restart it up and then line up a date when she’s a yes girl at the moment.

Right now, she seems kind of down. Why not make the most of now instead of doing this?

He didn’t even explain why he’s going away that’s very inconsistent with what the game is to me. Really inconsistent.

I could be wrong okay. I’m not saying it’s fake. I’m just saying that it looks very fake. That’s all I have to say about this approach or instant date, whatever you name it.

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• Cold approach is a lifestyle (My Philosphy)
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• What I say to Girls (Logistics)
• How to Write a PickUp field report
• How to spot a fake dating coach
• How I got laid in Japan (epic post)
• Why Thailand is NO longer good for getting laid

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