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This is a catch-up. Just checking back in with an immersion client from four months ago and this is important because what we’re going to do is we’re going to see what has happened since.

Since because what often happens is guys do boot camps or they do immersions and it’s like an approach coach or they’re motivated for the short period of time and then it all just falls apart afterward.

Firstly he told me “I did a boot camp with Bradicus and then I had this massive spike where I was approaching.

I was complimenting, not on the attractiveness of the girl, but on something like clothing or whatever.

But it was still a compliment. And then it was kind of like once because that was a three-day boot camp, but then it was 4 hours a day.

There was a lot of other stuff going on both with me and him, it was money well spent. They got me a little bit of a boost.

But then it’s kind of like when that person goes away, it’s like, what happened? Why can’t I consistently produce those results? And then as it gets further and further away, you start to think, well, what was that?”

I asked him “Where were you at? So after Bradicus between and coming out and doing some coaching with me, specifically where were your results? What was happening with you.”

And he told me “I was just not approaching anymore basically or just going out during the weekend and having a lot of issues with motivation or what am I doing? Do I still want to continue? It wasn’t fun anymore.

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Yeah, like I still had a long-term girlfriend from the stuff that was going on in the boot camp, but whether or not I retained that relationship was down to how I handled it.

Then I asked him that’s the general understanding of where you’re at that point. And so then we did the immersion together.

Then after the immersion, four months later, up until today, what has happened? What have you done? How many girls have you met? Dates, pools, give us everything. Lay it all out there.

He then told me “Well, but since the boot camp, I’ve had actually the phone coaching. I had the hottest girl ever.

I think she was like 28 or something. She was incredible. I’ve had probably like three of the hottest girls I’ve ever had in my life.

I would say one of them I had to stop seeing because she was too intense.

But if I didn’t have your advice, I would have stuck with her and had some problems because I wouldn’t think that I’d be able to reproduce that.

Yeah Like, she was well educated, stunning. She had incredible Turks.

She was just amazing to be with. She had all these positive points, but then she had really bad, like, a lot of emotional problems.

Previously I would have put up with that and enjoyed it. But with your advice, I could help navigate that mindset”

Afterward, I asked him over the last, say, four months. I don’t know if you’re able to calculate that, but what are some of the epic moments? Like, what was the most amount of dates you got in a week? What was the most amount of pool?

He told me “Yeah, so there was that week I had ten dates. I’ve never had that. Like, I was getting basically three dates in a day, three days in a row.

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They’re all in their 20s, nearly like this last week. And this is the problem. I go on so many dates, but because I’m whatever age I am over 40, as you can understand, this girl, I saw her on the street, like, yesterday. I was like, fuck, she’s hot. And I’m like, oh, it’s her just about lost her.

But she was like, I’m on the highest difficulty level. So if I was going for girls even ten years younger, the problem is they’re always like, I want to go like the early 20s or whatever.

So I go on a fuck ton of dates. And the ones that are obviously super-hot, but 25 to 28, I’m having a lot of success there”.

I told him “If you’re getting, like ten dates with girls under 25 in one week that’s like a lot that is more than enough”.

He told me “Yeah, If I was in my even in my late twenties, I would have, like a full blow in rotation.

The number of girls that I’ve dated, once you get to know how not to burn out an area, how to do it. I’ll get up at 7 in the morning, and I’ll do it, like, before work. I’ll do more on a weekday than I would do the entire weekend.

So just having that consistency, it’s a lifestyle. And it’s something where I’ve managed to engineer my whole work, my location.

Before I met you, I didn’t really have a problem with money or the ability to engineer my lifestyle, but I had a lot of things that were in the way that I wasn’t able to talk with anyone about.

So what you’ve done is help me engineer my lifestyle so I don’t have to game just during the weekend I can do it before or after work.

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I could travel to any location I can go around the world combined with my work and actually have a sustainable, consistent lifestyle.

Actually have a sustainable, consistent lifestyle where no matter where I go, I’ve got stuff to do, girls to meet, and, you know, we are in the first world country.

So I am, again, working at the highest pulling level. Like, I don’t I want the best and I want the youngest.

Afterward, I asked him “So being around 40 years old, and in a first world country, and if you’re aiming for girls around 25 and younger, that’s the highest difficulty level.

Approximately. I bet it’ll be really difficult for you to come up with this data, but approximately how many have you dated in the last four months? Approximately. Just throw out, like, an approximate number.

And guess what he told me “I would say to approximately like 70”.

Then I asked him what about the pool?”

And he surprised me by telling “I think ones that I’ve slept with, I think it’s five.”

He told me “Well, probably the thing was I’ve been working on slow dating them. I even had girls that had boyfriends that just broke up with their boyfriends and come to move over to my place as well.

Last week, she went to meet me, and then her boyfriend was around the corner and then found out chucked all this stuff on the road like she was 19. Oh, yeah. It just comes and moves in”.

I told him you’ve had a lot of girls that are just outside of the reality of anyone your age that would be outside of their reality. And you’re still taking it really slow, too.

He told me “I guess I’ve had a couple of tastes of that before, like with the whole Braticas boot camp.

But then it was only because I was going out and approaching a lot of that was not straight. Like, I was drinking and whatever. So what I’ve got now is consistent luck, I understand what’s going on. It’s not magic before.

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It’s magic it’s like, oh, and I’m like, how did I do that? And finally, I don’t have all these unanswered questions, which is the thing that I find that stops when you get success and it’s all going on.

You get ten dates and then because they’re all half your age, like, you do this and you don’t do this, and then some of it slips through your fingers, but then you’re there to remind me, well, I am 40, so what do I expect?

If I was in my twenties, oh, my God, it would just be nonstop. The amount of like, they go, how old are you? They’re almost convinced, you know what I mean? But I’m getting better and better at handling that”.

I told him I think we needed to do a slow dating strategy for practice and experience. That was really why that was so important.

Over the past four months to see people think this is quick coaching and it’s like Virgin Superstar overnight. And that’s just not how it works.

It took me years to figure out this stuff and I had to figure it all out on my own. And over four months you’ve got so much experience. And by following the right strategy, you’ve got more dating experience than I dare say, most men.

He told me “Yeah. Well, when you say stuff like that, it’s hard when I’m doing this and I’m like, Jesus, I should have a rotation of all these different 20-year-olds.

But then I look at all the experience I’ve got and whatever. And also I know you’re not a qualified psychologist, but a lot of it is psychology.

Like when you’re deciding what sort of lifestyle, where you’re going to live, how you’re going to do it, it actually has someone that understands. Because dating is my biggest hurdle at the moment.

The business is fine. I’ve done all of that. I spent a lot of my twenties and thirties working like 80, 100 hours a week sometimes.

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But now I’m focusing on this alongside whatever else I’m doing because I don’t have I think you even said yourself like you have this thing wherein ten years you could be in a wheelchair. Just putting things in perspective”.

Then I told him there’s a reason why. So it might seem like I’m taking the slow route with you by saying, look, and slow date them.

But in fact, that’s the fast route, if this is the fastest, I can change things. Because the thing is if I was to just go, okay, go out, party, do night game, drink rapid pools, go out every weekend, where would you be in four months’ time?

You wouldn’t have all the dating experience. You wouldn’t have the proper analysis of what’s going on.

You wouldn’t understand and notice all the small little signs that each girl is giving you and noticing the patterns on the dates and refining all of that stuff.

And now it makes you far more efficient on the dates when it comes to screening good girls, getting rid of dodgy ones, knowing the signs that you can pull, and all these other factors that you really need more experience on the dates.

And that’s why so now from you now compared to, say, four months ago, the amount of time on dates, sitting there on dates with girls, I dare say now you would have so much more, you’ll be so much more competent on the date too, compared to, say, four months ago.

And that really does help. And you’re doing it on the highest difficulty level too.

So a guy that’s like over 40 and to is dating girls under 30, that’s still on the highest difficulty level because you’re in a first-world country too.

You sounded disappointed that you dated a girl twelve years younger than you or 13 years younger than you when you’re age.

Like the one, you were most disappointed with. Her age at 28 is still 13 years different and the vast majority are around 25 and younger.

There are guys in their late 20s that struggle with girls in their early 20s as it is. So that’s evidence of a good strategy, I dare say. Lots of dates, lots of pools.

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Even girls that you’ve had a sleepover that you’ve decided not to rapidly sleep with. There were all these opportunities which are evidence of a good cold approach.

Then he told me “Yeah. Just knowing you can replicate it like if you just apply the strategy and you do it and there’s no way you can burn out the area.

You can keep doing this for years. And then there’s also the thing where you can go to all sorts of different areas. Mixed martial arts or whatever.

You have all your different styles one on top of the other and keep it fresh and exciting. You can go to the beach. You can go to the mall. I think someone was saying that guys freak out when they go into a supermarket.

And the best thing is going into a supermarket is like it’s really nice because a lot of them don’t have that city attitude”.

All avenues are at your disposal, which is something that not a lot of coaches have that skill set. Right. And you brought up a good point there.

The fact I think it’s important to bring up is that you’re not relying on wings. You’re entirely solo alone, Wolf out there, and you’re getting all of these results without any wings.

You’re not being tainted by the community. And all of the bad advice yet you’re getting all of these leads, all of these dates, approximately 70.

Onwards he told me that ” Dating more girls is more experience in a short period for me and that was just amazing because I’ve just been working so much most of my life.

I told him that’s pretty important too. Yeah, so you’re autonomous and still able to do everything.

You’re going inside the shops as well as outside shops, inside cafes, outside cafes, inside malls, and outside. And you’re not reliant on the CBD.

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You have, in fact, some of the better areas to approach. There’s a way of identifying them. And you’re not just reliant on going to the absolute center of the CBD looking for the highest foot traffic, which is also another misconception in the community as well.

He then told me “Yeah, well, I went to the place that you suggested, and I was at the coffee shop and I just got talking about the coffee there to this girl with an amazing rack.

She was gaming me for like 2 hours. I barely even said anything. I was like, yeah yeah, just talking about all this stuff that was incredible.

But just so open. She actually said that the people there, we won’t name the area are basically trapped. I said, what’s this area like? She goes, it’s an in-between area because she wants to move to the beach, but she’s moving.

She’s living there because they’re in between and blah, blah, blah, blah. And I’m like, all right, I said this area. She says, yeah, everyone has been trapped. They can’t get out”.

That’s something for you guys at home. There’s a way of identifying these areas. I can literally look at a map and identify gold mines all over the place and it’s not the same. And you don’t need a wing to go, there you go, they’re solo and they’re gold mines.

He kept up telling me “Well, you read a lot of this crafted stuff and it’s like you need a wing to put your state up and whatever.

I never used wings, apart from organic ones that came my way through friends or whatever.

I always had friends that were really good at approaching and some of the strategies that they use natural or they learn from their brothers or their dads or whatever you have.

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I was like, all right, don’t save the numbers. Don’t get emotionally connected until they approve of themselves, etc.

And all the videos and stuff reinforced that, which is great. But yeah, I just couldn’t. But this is something that I’ve always wanted.

But I didn’t even think was possible. And just when it’s you alone. And I followed this guy and he was going through all these things because he was yet stopping.

He was like 43. And then he goes on a few dates and he gets depressed and he’s like, oh, I’m going to go on seeking arrangement or go to Thailand or whatever.

Because if he had a nice less than direct strategy, he would have got some results.

But just his metrics. I think he did 3000 approaches in Queensland and I think he got like three bangs, like one Colombian.

The way he talks about him, he goes, oh, it’s boring Colombian. And I banged her all around the room and she was boring and all this. I’m like, just no connection, no idea.

Onwards I told him “You would be throwing back a lot of girls that he would jump on. You’re approaching girls that are way higher value too.

To be honest, I wouldn’t worry about the other guys as far as I’m concerned. It sounds bad, but let them do their stupid shit.

I get a few guys criticizing me like, I’m like, I don’t care. I’m focused on getting results for guys and those guys can go out and get a better life and you can watch infields all you want.

You know what I mean?

He told me “Well, it’s when you actually listen to what you’re saying and it makes a lot of sense and then you do it even though a lot of it is pretty intense, you know what I mean? Like the quality of the girls and the business skirt, the business thing was something I always wanted to do.

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Yeah, well, the girls that you see with the high heels, the really expensive dresses in the CBD, and you go, oh, I would, but it’s just too intense.

I just can’t do it. A lawyer, a doctor. It’s possible now. Whereas before it’d be like, oh, we’re all in backpackers and once all the backpackers left with the covert, that’s it.

I remember just looking at them. But now I go down to the business district in the morning, you know what I mean? Like, it’s all good.

So I can go mix it up with the most intimidating businesswomen now, which is something that a lot of the guys in the community, they just don’t do. They want to find a Colombian or something or backpacker. Yeah.

Well, when you’ve got the right strategy, you find out that yes, they’re like super intimidating, but they’re also super interesting.

They buy you stuff. I remember going out on this date and the girl, she was stunning. Like, oh my God, I banged her. She paid for everything.

She took me out. She paid for like I think she spent probably about a grand on me just in a couple of two or three days. I just couldn’t believe it. It was like living in a movie. It was just unbelievable.

I had a few businesswomen, there were a few high-quality girls there, some flew in, and some flew out. Someone was a lawyer or something as well.

Yeah. It’s something that I’m doing more and more, but I’ve had a lot of success with that. It’s something that I can continue doing.

I just can’t believe how easy it is. If they’re like 27 or 28, they don’t really worry about the age.

But I get very fixated on, okay, they all got to be 18 or they’re all going to be this type of girl or whatever, a lot of the time you’re pulling me out of that mindset.

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It’s like I don’t really care about banging them. I just want the challenge, you know what I mean? At the end of the day, that’s more like me proving to myself that I can get whatever I want. And I think a lot of people can be stuck in a certain type of girl”.

Afterward, I told him Do you remember that last week or two weeks ago you met a girl, you took her out on a date, she broke up with a boyfriend, and then came and lived with you for a couple of days. How old was she? 19. Over 20 years difference. Now let’s just put that in perspective.

In the end, he told me that “It was like a total lifestyle change from where I was. Like I had all the resources, everything like that.

But I was just stuck in my own things basically like I couldn’t make a move. I didn’t know what to do. I knew what I wanted, but I didn’t know how to get there.

So it’s a life coaching thing as well, which is really important because to consistently go out there, you need to know why you’re doing it as well. You can’t just do action, especially if you’re going you’re aiming really high.

You need to be really well-grounded in your strategy and your perspective. Otherwise, you can’t keep doing it.

And that’s what I’ve got with you is all that background, all the questions, all the stuff that you’ve been doing for so long and also, you know, a lot of the stuff as well out there. So you can sort of relating. This is what Taylor is doing.

This is what James Marshall is doing. This is what whoever’s doing. And then you see through a lot of this stuff and who’s actually doing like decent game and decent strategy. So that’s really great, too”.

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To wrap things up we’ve also got an advantage. Like there’s some guys out there that advantage, as in geographical.

There are a lot of those European coaches even that haven’t been able to game in twelve months or generally they can’t do any cold approaches really during winter.

So year on year, if you consistently go out there and game and make it a lifestyle, you’ll be doubling their experience year on year.

The consistency matters, right. If you’re doing any sport or doing any skill, if you have to take six months off, you start from ground zero again.

I think the James Marshall stuff, they were saying, if the girl in New York, if the girl doesn’t walk away, then you just stay there.

If you actually have to physically be told to go away and you’re not reading the signs, it might be all right if you move from city to city and you just don’t care if you burn places out and just give the game a bad name.

But if you’re in one area and you do it every day, you really have to be aware of what’s going on.

So I think a lot of those coaches can’t be blamed too much because six months of the year they can’t game. So, you know, they have to start again.

Their experience isn’t that great. But I think that kind of covers everything.

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• How to spot a fake dating coach
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• Why Thailand is NO longer good for getting laid

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