Are you a bad man for dating younger women? Well, it seems that I just found a video on YouTube where a guy was just it seems like that’s exactly what he was saying. School of attraction. It’s a big company run by this guy.

He made a video talking about older men dating younger women. And a lot of inflammatory manipulation was used to say that the men that date younger women, should not date them or get into a relationship with them because it’s manipulating younger women.

But I think that video that I saw was actual manipulation against men. This is pretty shocking stuff. I just went through the comments the like to dislike ratio is not very good.

I’m going to give it a thumbs down because I’ve already seen it and it was discussed with me in this video. This one comment just popped up that says “I’m in my mid-thirties and I date women ten years plus younger. I get a lot of shit from other men for dating younger women”.

Okay. You can see what the audience thinks.

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In this video he is saying “Men who consistently date younger women need to control them. And it’s a control-based relationship.

And that’s why they consistently only date much younger women. And again, I say date not have sex with because again, I can’t see anything wrong with a much older guy.

I want to have sex with younger women. It’s when a guy exclusively only wants to date younger women, that typically seems to be a lot of a problem”.

Now that is pretty inflammatory as far as I’m concerned. Do you want to control younger women?

Then he is saying “Well, when it comes to relationships, when I look at men who exclusively deep breathe younger women, especially much younger women, you tend to see a pattern with those men”.

Let me guess, they’re all bad men.

He’s saying “Not always. It’s not 100% of the time. So men, some of you watching who date young women, this doesn’t necessarily mean

The time men who do this have control issues.

When you have a look” and then he puts up an image of a guy that is a couple that’s some sort of trash. They got their leather jackets and their country people.

It’s probably like a bit of a joke. And she’s got a dog collar on that’s the imagery that he decided to use. Really? And that’s a joke.

He’s got a smile on his face. She’s joking around. What is he trying to say here?

He is saying “Look, the relationships that they create and their attitudes towards dating and conflict resolution, it’s very much control based. In other words, these men feel very insecure in a relationship”.

If you’re dating a younger woman, you’re insecure and controlling, you’re a control freak and you manipulate younger women. Wow. This is a dating coach, a guy’s school of attraction.

He says “They can exert control, like the undue amount of control over the woman to control the outcomes of things”.

Wow. How could you say that? How could you be a dating coach and try to give advice to men and say things like that?

These are the type of men that get you in trouble. I fear men like this. I think that these types of men that pitch these types of arguments publicly are a danger to the safety of all men in society as far as I’m concerned. Why would you say that?

Onwards he is saying “For these men dating women their age, they can’t do that. Get away with it. Women their age are like all close to their age, maybe only five years younger are usually going to be like, I don’t think so, Buster”.

I don’t think so.

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Buster. Let me tell you guys a little story about it. The girl couldn’t have been 14 15 years old.

I recently saw her on the street abusing a homeless man. The homeless man was a lot larger than her. He was massive and he probably stunk. He was homeless, right? And this little cute little 15-year-old girl, haha.

She clearly can’t stand up for herself. The right was in his face and spat in his face and was screaming at him for doing this, going, Come on, what are you going to do? Why? Because she knew that the homeless guy if he laid a hand on her, would go straight to jail.

It was a sad sight in Australia to see a little underage girl who’s probably 14 or 15 years old, standing in the face of a homeless man, spitting in this homeless man’s face and telling him, come on, come on. And she did this. She’s like, come on, come on, who do you think you are?

Because no one’s ever stood up to her. No one’s ever slapped her down. No one’s ever done anything like that. She knows (as a young girl) that she can get away with everything.

And I know that if I had done that at 14, I would have been just punched in the face and no one would have cared. It was even more insulting and disgusting to see that this poor homeless guy had nothing else in his life.

This little girl was just bullying him and spitting in his face. And I saw this with my own eyes and was only a couple of months ago.

Attacking this homeless man was one of the most disgusting things I’ve ever seen in my life. For this guy to suggest that women in this modern era can’t stand up for themselves is an utter lie.

It’s a lie to think that a younger woman can’t stand up for herself because I see it in Australia with my own eyes every day. What about that poor homeless guy that can’t stand up for himself? Are you making videos caring about him? Probably not.

Afterwards he is saying “You’re not going to get your way on this. And that’s untenable for these men. And so what you get is often”.

The story that he’s pitching is just totally false. And there’s nuance in what he’s saying. But I would say that the vast majority of people would not be in this guy’s reality.

This guy’s reality is on a couch in some mansion somewhere where he’s not even engaging in any dating. He doesn’t know what he’s talking about.

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Now he is saying “Let’s pick the end. Let’s say 18-year-old women who just become adults are very impressionable.

I mean, yes, they’re called legal adults, but let’s not forget. I mean, I can say this as a 37-year-old man. Most 18-year-olds are still just as many children as they are adults at this point”.

Well, legally, they’re adults. So what are you saying? That they are not responsible as legal adults for their actions? I guess that’s what he’s saying here, right?

What if they make a mistake, and you should suffer? Is that what he’s saying? I don’t know exactly what he’s trying to get at here, but it’s very dangerous. It’s the manipulation of society.

What he’s doing right now, it seems to me they haven’t experienced the world.

Afterwards he is saying “They don’t know about setting boundaries for themselves. They don’t even know what they do and don’t like. They’re not good at saying no. Young women are not good at saying no to people, especially authority. Right?”

Wow. Is he suggesting a consent thing? He’s talking about dating relationships. Is he talking about consent? So if she doesn’t say no, she has to say yes.

She has to verbally give you a yes for consent. She has to fill out the form. You have to get video footage of her saying giving consent, or it could be sexual assault or something like that. I’m not saying that that’s what he’s saying.

But he said they’re not good at saying no. And that means that they’re not good at saying no across the board in every aspect of what they do as an 18-year-old. And part of not being able to say no in every aspect of not being able to say no across the spectrum. One aspect of that is giving consent to sex, even though the legal age is 16 in Australia, I believe.

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So 18-year-olds still in this guy’s mind doesn’t know how to say no. Wow. And he’s saying that publicly. This is a dating coach, by the way.

So what does that mean? You don’t date 18-year-olds because they can’t say no. And if you sleep with an 18-year-old and they change their mind?
They didn’t say no.

They were into it at the moment, and then later on they changed their mind. Does that mean you deserve to get in trouble? Like, society is already dangerous enough for men.

It doesn’t need to get to this level where you have to sign a contract before having sex. I like, if a girl’s a little bit dodgy and I feel like she’s a little bit too agreeable or something’s, not on, I ask for consent on camera.

I get consent on camera. And if they refuse and they seem a little bit dodgy, I’m just like, see you later. Go away, because I need to protect myself first. And this is a warning for you guys out there that this is a dating coach.

This is supposed to be on your side, but he’s pitching this. The like to dislike ratio says it all and we can go through the comments.

Onwards he is saying “We don’t teach young women to be good at setting boundaries”.

Is this an educational thing? Well, firstly, should we increase the age of consent to 21? Should we make it illegal to drink alcohol until 21 in Australia? Is that what you’re suggesting, buddy?

And if they’re not being taught boundaries, should we set up special classes in high schools about setting boundaries? Is that what you’re suggesting? Or is all of the onus on men? Is that what you’re saying?

Onwards he is saying “Emotional coercion and manipulation. They’re mostly quite blind to that stuff because they haven’t experienced it. They haven’t been hit with a hard edge that they can experience with men”.

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Well, I’m getting hit with a hard case of manipulation myself. Just watching this video

Wow again he is saying “I got to say that when I see this playing out in couples 90% of the time, even 35-year-old couples 90% of the time, what I see is both genders, men and women.

But we’re talking about the men here trying to manipulate the other person into doing what they want during arguments, during fights when things aren’t going well, there is always a degree of social-emotional manipulation taking place”.

See, he’s pitching his case that if you’re dating a younger woman, you’re eventually going to manipulate her. You’re going to be older and wiser and able to manipulate her better.

So, therefore, she’s in danger of you manipulating her. But I want you guys to be aware of what this guy’s manipulation is.

He’s manipulating you. And I dare say that society is manipulating men more often than older men are manipulating younger women in a macro sense.

Across the board, men are being manipulated far more than young women are being manipulated.

And men across the board are suffering more in a macro sense. The vast majority of men are suffering in Western society because of the threat of being accused of manipulating women when we haven’t necessarily done anything wrong.

You see how he’s pitching this he’s manipulating his audience.

Now he says “You could unknowingly hurt her, damage her even if you’re generally a good guy because odds are you have some issues around manipulation when times get tough”.

I mean wow, I couldn’t be more disgusted about this guy.

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