Men’s first date ideas, So that’s what we’ll be talking about today. You’re probably expecting me to name a specific restaurant, pub, or romantic date venue.

No. You’ll have to find it out for yourself. I will talk about something I haven’t seen discussed previously, but I believe it is critical.
To begin, determine What kind of girls are you meeting and how much money do you have? How much time do you have available?

Suppose you’re a billionaire with 24 hours to date, seven days a week. As long as you have enough leads, you can do whatever you want every day.

You can do anything if you have enough girls coming in. Go to a restaurant or do anything expensive together during lunchtime. For example, Let’s go on a boat and go for a lunchtime cruise.

The vast majority of you, on the other hand, work Monday through Friday. 9 a.m. to 5 p.m. You’re not particularly wealthy, and you don’t have 24 hours a day, seven days a week, to date up to 14 girls, do you?

However, dinner dates after work, during the week, and on the weekend may be possible. You have Friday, Saturday, and possibly Sunday available for dates. As a result, you must consider how many leads you have.

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If you work Monday through Friday and only have one lead and are only paid minimum wage, you only have one date available on Friday or Saturday.
You could take her out to a decent restaurant or bar and spend a little money because the money you spend will only be used for one date.
What if you have two dates? Then you have to think about halving the amount of money I’m spending. You don’t want to bankrupt yourself by going out on dates with girls.

I’ve heard of gamers having a lot of success, and they’re having a lot of dates. I don’t recommend this, but if you are doing a nine to five Monday to Friday.

You have a lot of skill, plus you’re using all the tools that you want to dispose of, so Monday to Friday, you’re still day gaming on the weekend, you’re hitting the bars and the clubs, and you’re getting leads there as well.

Seven days a week, you’re also using online dating and getting information. Many of their dates are a walk in the park or a coffee at 7-11, which I don’t recommend you do.

When you’re not a multimillionaire and can spend hundreds of thousands of dollars a week on all of these dates, you need to figure out how many successful dates you are having?
How much money do you have to put into them?

That’s the trick here. So we go back to you working Monday to Friday, and you have one date and say your budget is like $200.

You can take her out and sweep her off her feet if you’ve only had one date.
But you know if you have two dates, then I would say you’ve got a hundred $150 to spend, right?

What if you have three dates that weekend? 75 to $100. You’ve got to spend on that date.

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It would be around $50 per date if you received four, five, or six dates. Then you’re out of the $30 per dinner bracket and down to more than $15 per meal. Each one costs $15.00. You might also need to purchase a drink.

That is the most crucial issue I believe you should consider.

Remember that nowadays, girls don’t take dating very seriously. Some girls will go on dates, especially on Tinder and online dating, if they run out of money and want to have a good meal and want to use up some guy for what he has.

And he and she have nothing else planned for that night. It’s more prevalent than you might think, so I’d consider all of those things, particularly in first-world countries.

If you are out there spending a lot of money on dates, it doesn’t mean that she likes you, or the more money you spend on these dates doesn’t mean that you’re going to have success. She’s going to sleep with you or date you afterwards.

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Quite often, it’s the reverse, but there is A threshold, I sat down with a girl once in a place where it was probably $15 a meal, and it was a mid-range and she said to me she said; you’re taking me here.

What is this? There’s a threshold of where you can. Take a girl, and if a girl was to tolerate you taking her for a 711 coffee in a walk in the park. I Would question what type of girl you’re taking out on a date.

So if you’re showing some honest signal that you are interested in her, she’s more likely to accept the date and see that you’re serious with her. But still, on the flip side, it’s game theory.

Just because you’ve proven that you’re interested in her and you’re willing to spend money on the date, that doesn’t mean that you are guaranteed to have any success with her.

That doesn’t mean that she’s going to sleep with you or date you or even really take this honest signal seriously because, in first world countries, they often don’t.

So you’ve got to understand that when you’re taking a girl out, I think it is essential to take us somewhere that you want to go or do something that you want to do, girls don’t handle dates seriously these days, and you need to think of strategies to protect yourself, so hopefully, that makes sense. Pick out some date locations.

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You want to do and don’t spend too much, or you might get burnt. Because a lot of my friends and I have been burnt, and what often happens is.

We go through a phase of taking girls to cheap budget places, and then something happens where we decide to take a girl out to an expensive business, and then we get burnt, and she burns us badly.

She ghosts us and doesn’t even reply after the date, and you go. You do things that you’re interested in and things that you want to do, and you avoid.

Avoid spending too much money hoping to get anything in return because that is not guaranteed, shape or form. Quite often, it has the reverse effect.

I’ve had dates where I went out on a date once with a girl, and she asked if she could invite her friend. She and her friend turned up late, and as soon as she sat down, she grabbed the menu.

They didn’t even ask me about it and started ordering the most expensive things on the menu. She was going to use me for dinner and then take a friend to go out to a nightclub afterwards.

So she’ll be eating with me. I inquired as to whether you planned to hang out with me later. I got out of there after she stated she was going out with her pals after this.

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I believe it takes a lot of expertise to recognise that and not be eaten up. Many guys get chewed up like that and sit there like they’re waiting for something to happen.

No one can be cruel and use someone in front of their face with that bit of integrity. Take your girlfriends on fun dates. Also, divide the amount of money you have to spend by the number of dates. If you only have one date that weekend, you know you could probably spend more money.

Still, you also know she might use you, so be cautious of that and be willing to walk away and look for those ominous signs before the dinner because it’s better to spend that money on yourself than to have a girl chew up and then use you.

After all, it’ll hurt you later, so that’s the best strategy if you get right to the point. This is solely based on my personal experience and years of having many successful friends in-game and, more recently, coaching. So I hope that made sense to you.

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