How to Overcome Men’s Fear of Cold Approaching girls/Social Anxiety. Approaching a girl perhaps the most difficult task a few thousand years ago, but today there’s essentially no threat…just the “feeling” of threat.

The fear of approaching a girl comes from misfiring in the reptilian part of our brains. It triggers a mans fight, flight, or freeze response even though there’s no danger in approaching a girl.

Cold Approach Anxiety Hacks

Many of us don’t know about the appropriate way to approach a girl. If you can’t speak to her in the beginning, then you are never going to get yourself a girlfriend. So, we are going to discuss some strategies that you should use to get rid of that social anxiety.

Also, there are some strategies that will help you in effective approach. You can’t just drink a soda to get rid of that anxiety. These are just some sort advertisements. They are not going to help you in any way.

You have to face your fears, that’s life. If you throw yourself down today then no one can put your self up. You have to be self-confident. You have to believe in your faith.

Nothing in this world is easy to get, don’t lose hope. You must survive in dark first, if you are waiting for sunrise.

Defeat Approach Anxiety

Be Confident. Confidence is very attractive, but it’s not a get-out-of-jail-free card when it comes to the opposite sex. You don’t need a wing to approach a girl because it will somehow decrease your courage.

Like when you get to approach a girl and any how she rejects you after your approach. Then in your next try before approaching, your wingman will start to judge you according to your previous bad experience.

It will build a type of fear in you. So, your wingman needs some type of validation in this matter. But if you succeed, it is possible that you become dependent on your wing man. So, in both ways it is not benefiting you. It’s good to have it when you are solo.

Ways To Cold Approach Without Fear

Fear of being violently Assaulted. If you give it a thought, approaching a girl is a very simple thing. But, as a guy who has had bad experiences with female friends and how those relationships ended up in, your mind starts to set this boundary and expect a formulaic response when you approach a girl.

For someone who has been rejected before, the next time you approach someone, you mind already has this small preconceived notion that you are definitely going to be rejected again.

And honestly, that is something that i feel… Makes us human. Anyone who claims to feel no kind of fear, has either gotten so much rejection that they are pretty much immune to rejection.

Or, they are simply lying. You have to put this fear out of your mind. Some people due to fear of being assaulted, never try to approach a girl. Try to be optimistic.

Think about positive things. If you make your mind positive then it will not only help you in effective approach, also it will help you to combat with your fear. You have to deal with your fear before approaching the girl.

How Men Can Beat Social Anxiety Around Girls?

Calm and Clear your mind. As discussed before, you have to be very clear about what you are going to do. Put yourself in positivity, neglect the overcoming negative thoughts.

Try to calm down. Actually, it is in our genes and a very natural thing, when you watch a very beautiful girl sitting next to you and your adrenaline make your heart to beat fast.

It’s a natural thing that happens with everyone not just you but also it happens with girls. Always keep this in your mind. Just stay simple and be the man you are.

Stop show off and you will feel confident being Yourself. Simplicity is the ultimate sophistication. Be humble and polite. Be Respectful. Don’t use bad words just for being cool. Follow your passion.

Introverted Men Can Get a Girlfriend

Improve your game level. Try to improve your level by approaching girls as many as you can. When you get off from your work or get a break from work for a coffee.

Go to any street and try to talk with any girl and at the end of the day, analyze your results by counting the number of girls you approached. Give yourself a level, like if you approach 2 girls a day then according to it give yourself a level.

It will help you to gain a lot of confidence and experience. As your level progresses, your fear level drops. But if you don’t try and continuously remain in a same circle of farness. You can’t be able to improve yourself. You drop your level of confidence and will get frustrated.

How Men Can Destroy Social Anxiety Around Women?

Build Your Personality. Try to improve your personality. Be a genuinely kind & thoughtful person, Be open minded, non-judgmental & passionately compassionate. Enrich yourself with good traits. Also go to gym and build some muscles.

Try to do some cardio and punching.

By doing this you release your anxiety. Getting into a fight also releases your anxieties and everyday frustration. It doesn’t mean you have to fight with someone to release your anxieties. It means if somehow you get into a fight, it will improve your confidence.

So, do some boxing, jumping in the fool and get a shower and go solo. Being Anxious is Natural. Being anxious is a proof that you are not a psychopath or sociopath.

There are some psychopaths, who get up and go to a girl without any anxiety and talk to them like they have no fear. Usually these psychopath’s can be seen everywhere.

They actually feel nothing, they can’t able to enjoy the feeling whether they talk or not. So, don’t worry upon being anxious, it’s a natural thing.

But once you get used to approaching girls, you will never fell this anxiety again. It’s difficult in start but approaching a girl will become easy, if you try it over and over again.

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