Should you DHV display high value and should you sexualize and use all these complicated methods of the cold approach?

I want to talk about that today in a little bit more depth and talk about an interaction that I had with two girls, me and my clients.

I noticed that he went straight into DHV and lied a few times about some displaying high value, but he lied a few times and then kind of sexualizing off the cold approach, saying that he’s dominant, talking about all these other things like Kama Sutra and things like that.

I want to talk about that and that interaction and where it went wrong and why it went wrong.

So what happened was we approached two girls, were walking along, and my student went straight into a lot of what he had seen on the internet, they’ve been watching this on internet where they talk about you should display high value all the time.

And you should talk about being dominant in a sexual kind of way and ask her how open and adventurous is she to new experiences, and how open-minded is she?

How To Demonstrate Higher Value To Women

There are a lot of questions along with that kind of line where we’re walking along and he was getting to know them, talking about how they’re traveling somewhere.

And he goes, oh, yeah, I was thinking of traveling there recently, talking about how he’s traveled the world, how he’s trying to display high value as if he’s traveled many places.

He has a lot of money. He even dropped that this area can be a little bit boring, but if you know the right people and suggests that he knows the right people.

At the end of the interaction, we got to a point where the girls needed to turn left and we were going straight. The interaction ended there, and he didn’t know where they were going.

He didn’t know what they were doing. He didn’t know if they were working today, whether they were working this week, or whether they were free this week. He didn’t understand anything real about them.

The whole interaction was more it was a very smooth interaction, but it was more like he went over and just told them how awesome he was.

At the end of it, there was no number cross. There was no contact information exchange and it felt like it was more I just want to tell you how awesome I am.

This is very wrong. I don’t necessarily think that you need to display too much high value. You can hint it, you can suggest it.

But when you cross the line, you can seem to a high-value girl that you are being egotistical. You are just telling her that you are better than her.

They’re better than she is. And you got more money, you’re more educated, you’ve traveled the world more.

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You’re just better than her and can come across as a little bit arrogant. Secondly, sexualizing the cold approach.

I guess it might be okay if you ask how adventurous they are, but I think there’s a lot of information there that could be exchanged for the cold approach.

Just the basic level stuff that when you watch too many of the pickup marketers online and they tell you to try all these different things, I think it can get you overcomplicating something that should be a little bit more simple.

If you focus on the basics, which is just introducing yourself, finding out what they’re doing right now, filling out to see if they’re even interested in you, show a little bit of empathy, finding out.

You see if she lives nearby, if she works nearby, what days of the week she might be free whether she’s single or not, these really basic things, especially in a short interaction where you might be walking together, you know, you don’t have much time.

There’s some information and some things that you should be talking about that are more important than others. And I think that the reason why I focus on logistics so heavily is it’s one of those basic level beginner things that you should be focusing on.

And a lot of guys out there, I have noticed guys that become students, etc. They think that they’re at that intermediate level because they’ve been doing it for such a long time.

So therefore, it’s time to get more flamboyant. It’s time to be sexualizing and experimenting with new things and doing things that in fact, decrease your chances of lining up a date and knowing more about her.

What we discovered was these two girls, were staying at a backpacker.

That was the only information we had. And we’re currently staying in a beautiful resort.

We discovered when we got to the beach that they were walking to the beach. We didn’t know that because he didn’t ask the question, where are you going? What are you doing right now?

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Most beginner-level thing. And if we had known that, we would have had the opportunity to offer them.

Would you like instead of going to the beach, we’ve got a resort, a beautiful resort. Would you like to come for a swim with us? I’ll shout, we’ll buy a few drinks and things like that.

But we didn’t get to that level because the entire interaction was the students telling them how much he’s traveled, how rich, how educated, and how awesome he is.

We didn’t even get to the base level beginner things that you really should be focusing on.

And I have noticed that a lot online that you have a lot of guys that are focusing on things that don’t push the interaction forward and don’t get you that many results.

I think that you guys should be focusing on the basic sure I can complicate it up I can make it as complicated as you want it to be strategy-wise, but when it comes to this I think you really should be just focusing on logistics and that’s the message that I wanted to say.

Try not to get caught up in the marketing from a lot of these guys. I’m a dominant do you like dominant guys?

How adventurous are you about the first date or all of these things? Sure it shows a little bit of intent but if you don’t know if you discover that she’s into you she’s very into you and she’s very attractive to you but she’s going home to her husband or tonight she’s flying out to another country.

You haven’t really got the base level things downtown first and I think to focus on them and then you can build on top of that.

So if you get the logistics down as a nice platform and then build of that then you can go into DHV then you can go into sexualizing and doing things like that but if you don’t have the basics down it’s going to be a bit more hit and miss.

That’s not necessarily something that you should be focusing on as far as I’m concerned, focus on the basics.

That’s was the message of this blog so that you don’t make mistakes like what my clients did because I feel like that interaction should have gone so much better and I feel like it would have gone in our favor if he had just focused on the basics.

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• What I say to Girls (Logistics)
• How to Write a PickUp field report
• How to spot a fake dating coach
• How I got laid in Japan (epic post)
• Why Thailand is NO longer good for getting laid

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