Well, here’s the thing: if you’re doing it wrong, it can cause depression. That’s right, I’m going to explain why a super direct approach gets you too many flaky numbers and how that can negatively affect not only your results but your mental state.

The direct game can be very bad for you. If you’re a super good-looking guy and just get results by going direct to the nightclubs, that’s fine, you’ve got it easy.

But when it comes to day game, even the pretty boys struggle with this but the vast majority of you guys will not be using direct game and being super good-looking to accompany that direct game and it’s going to negatively affect you.

This daygamer is a prime example of someone who was using the wrong strategy in the wrong part of the world.

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Direct Daygame: High Hook and Number Close Rate

This daygamer was having trouble with the day game in Sydney, and it was because he was using the wrong strategy in the wrong part of the world.
This daygamer is an elitist British guy with some tattoos, who’s a little goofy; he had little success with a day game in Sydney.

He was doing the London day game model, just stoping all over places and after there was one interaction with me where I was with another guy who was a prick, wanted to exclude me and the funny thing, a student of mine who I took out on his first-day game session, taught him my methodology ended up being this guy’s wing.

My student ended up with a ton more success than him (Craig), obviously struggled, and he was using the wrong strategy in the wrong part of the world.
Though he had some success with the ladies, it was probably because he was handsome and girls were choosing him for superficial reasons. You know that the direct day game is not only a good way to get a girl’s phone number, but it’s also a great way to meet new people and make friends.

Direct Daygame High Flake Rate

Place and venture — When you start day gaming, it’s natural to want to jump right in and start talking to girls. This (Yad stop) is what most people do when they first start out and make a lot of mistakes.

The first common mistake is choosing which places to approach women. This daygamer was doing day gaming at Pitt Street Mall Sydney, which is a busy place where lots of beginners hang out and try to pick up girls by being so obvious they can barely stand it.

It’s also full of guys who are stuck in intermediate purgatory: they can talk to girls but they don’t know how to escalate things, or even how to get a number without coming across as a complete creep.

Pitt Street Mall isn’t the best place for beginners because it attracts people who are already comfortable talking to girls and that means they won’t be receptive when you approach them with something new or different.

Another problem with this direct daygame approach is that it doesn’t give you any time for comfort building or rapport-building, something that’s important during early interactions with women. Instead, it gives you an opportunity for quick chats before you move on again, which isn’t always going to lead to the best results.

So, not going to the right venue is one of the most common mistakes that I see guys making and it’s a big one.

If you’re not going to the right places then you’ll never meet the kinds of girls that you’re looking for. You need to go where they are and hang out in those places until they start coming to you.

Direct Daygame Works For Guys Who Punch Down

The right approach and sensible conversation — This daygamer ran up to a girl he liked and jumped in front of her to ask about her jumper.

That doesn’t make sense. Nobody likes being interrupted like that by a stranger who’s just trying to hit on them (yes, even if you think she might be into it). No wonder this daygamer wasn’t getting any success. He was doing everything wrong.

This daygamer didn’t have any idea how to approach women during the day, he just ran up to them and asked about their clothing.

The problem with this direct daygame cold approach is that it doesn’t make any sense, it’s not something that anyone would do in real life and so this daygamer wasn’t getting anywhere with his interactions.

The only way to really start a conversation with someone is by approaching them like a normal human being would: by saying hello and asking them how they are doing today. It’s not hard, but if you’re not used to doing it regularly then it can seem intimidating.

So, you need to approach women in a way that sets you apart from other men. A friendly smile and a compliment are not going to cut it, even if she is smiling back at you.

You have to have something interesting to say or at least be able to hold her attention long enough for her to want to hear more of what you have to say.

Direct Daygame Weird Logistical Questions

Don’t rush to judge their nationality, instead ask them — If you’re into day gaming, you’ve probably heard the phrase: “don’t judge a book by its cover.” You can sometimes get away with judging a girl from her appearance if she’s wearing something that clearly states where she’s from.

The mistake we want to talk about today is when guys judge a girl by her appearance without asking where she’s from, or even worse, assuming she’s from somewhere else because of what she’s wearing.

In this case, Craig was doing a day game in Sydney, Australia. He thought, he had landed himself a hot European girl because of the way she looked and dressed. Turns out she was actually from Australia, but he didn’t ask where she was from before making his assumptions about her nationality and ultimately missing out on an opportunity with her.

So remember, don’t assume anything about a girl just because of how she looks or dresses. If you’re at all curious (during the approach) about whether or not there may be an opportunity for you to meet up later with someone during your day game session, just ask them where they’re from.

Direct Daygame Pumps Your Adrenalin So You Cannot Think

Not computing fast in conversation — One of them is not computing fast enough in conversation. You don’t want to repeat her words in conversation because if you’re not computing fast enough, you’ll only be able to come up with two or three different ways of saying something.

And that’s not enough for her, she’s used to hearing the same things over and over again from guys who can’t think on their feet. She’ll get bored fast.

So why is this important? Because if she feels bored by your conversation and stops responding positively, it won’t matter how good-looking you are or how much money you have, she won’t go home with you.

You also don’t want to be talking so fast that she doesn’t have time to respond and engage in proper conversation with you. That will make her feel like she’s being rushed out of the bar as soon as possible, instead of giving her a chance to actually enjoy herself and get comfortable around you.

So how do we fix this problem? Well, first off: slow down. The best way I’ve found is by taking deep breaths while listening intently to what the other person is saying; then asking them questions based on what they told you so they know that you are listening to them and actually care about what they’re saying.

Next, speak at a speed that is slow enough for people to follow along with you without having to stop and ask questions. This will give them time to think of their own responses as well.

Learn Advanced Indirect Daygame With Me

I hope this blog post has given you some insight into day gaming. The main thing about cold approach I want to point out is that day gaming is a skill that can be learned.

It’s not easy (daygame), but it can be done with the right approach and mindset. In order to improve your day game, you need to practice regularly.

You should also look for ways to improve your skills through resources like books, videos, and forums. You must remember when learning how to day’s game is that it doesn’t matter if you are ugly or fat or old.

The only thing that matters is if you have the social skills required to get women attracted to you in a short period of time.

With enough practice and dedication, anyone can become an expert at this art form. If you follow these tips and use them consistently while out on the streets, then I guarantee that within just a few months of practice, you will be able to get at least one phone number per day without fail.

Here are some of my best posts:

• Cold approach is a lifestyle (My Philosphy)
• What is indirect daygame
• What I say to Girls (Logistics)
• How to Write a PickUp field report
• How to spot a fake dating coach
• How I got laid in Japan (epic post)
• Why Thailand is NO longer good for getting laid

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