Today I want to talk about mate-value and, more particularly, my mate value over time, where I’m right now and where I was in the past. When I was a lot younger, there was a difference between what I call mate value; some other guys call it SMV, sexual marketplace value the actual scientific terms mate value.

I’m not sure where many of the other guys in the community got SMV from, but the proper term is mate value, and I want to be the first person to bring it to your guys’ attention.

I think I am the first to say mate value. Where was my mate-value? When I was younger, a friend of mine wanted to do some modelling. We Went to a model Agent, We walked in there and the model agent.

I just went along with my friend because he was keen to do it and the model agent said, oh, I can’t do too much with you, then pointed to me and said, but I can do something with you.

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Mate Value as a Dating Coach

So, at that early point in my life, I realised that I was a little more attractive than the average guy. I don’t know what my objective mate value was at that stage, but I can give you guys a little bit of the stats as to how I was going with the ladies back then, and that might blow your mind.

There are a lot of guys on Instagram these days who are far more attractive than I was back then, but I did pretty well. Many girls looked at me back then, and I was aware of women constantly looking at me, complimenting me, and treating me well because of my appearance.

There were girls after me going out partying. They would go out drinking, and then they would go to my front doorstep and sleep in my front yard and wait for me to get back till, I don’t know, 2:00 AM so they could all come in and have a drink in my room.

So there were a lot of girls around before my 22nd birthday, so I was 21 and 1/2 at the time. Before my 22nd birthday, 21 and a half, I slept with about 20 women; I slept with about 50 women.

The vast majority were obtained through cold approaches. Tinder didn’t exist back then. There was no Internet. If you meet one girl who enjoys spending time with you, she will sometimes refer you to her friends, which was very common back then.

Being a Natural at Game

Many of the girls I dated back then were beach surfer chicks in bikinis who were fit and attractive. Assume I could go back in time and bring technology with me, such as an Instagram account. I was (when I was younger) hanging out with a lot of beautiful girls back then.

I’d have a vast audience, and if I became a coach, I’d probably have hundreds of thousands of followers. So this differentiates me from Almost every other coach out there in the world because the vast majority of coaches out there were super nerds in high school.

They give you this evolutionary transformation story, but I see it differently. I was getting success early on.You’re getting success, and you continue with that success as you get older.

You gain experience. People downplay experience a lot, which I think is A form of fake marketing; the transformation story I don’t believe to be very relevant.

I believe that excellent experience and success throughout your life, and as your mate value declines as you age, you see, I became disabled at the age of 28. Fit at the moment, so my mate values have dropped due to my recent success.

Definition of Having ”Good Game With Girls”

When mate value continues to decline, my game needs to improve if you’re having success between 18 and 25 by swiping right on Tinder or using Instagram, for example.

Consider what someone with my experience could teach you over a year. If you were to have a way to go back in time and ask a 25-year-old me for dating advice, I would have no idea.

I couldn’t help you because my results were based on my appearance. I was swimming in a pool one day when I noticed a girl staring at me. She’s wearing a bikini, so you can only imagine how good she looked in one. I just walked over to her because she was a beautiful girl.

She kept staring at me, so I asked, “How are you?” It’s tedious, you know. I guess the day game approach is signal selection. She looked at me and said, “Let’s go for a drink in about 20 seconds.” When I looked at their infields, I felt like half of the pretty boy coaches.

That’s what I recall, as well as how simple it was. It’s incredible how many of these hot boy coaches are out there.

Never Trust a Young Good Looking Dating Coach

This is how I play the game. It’s like, no, your results are coming because you’re a pretty boy who has no fun, and it’s all because of your faulty marketing, and your clients are getting ripped off. Because someone like me, with all of my experience, needs a PhD in this field.

I would have no idea how to coach you guys if I were younger. I would not have the experience that I’ve got today, and I wouldn’t be able to help you guys. M Another story I’ve got to tell you guys is sometimes because of the abuse I suffered at home.

I would smoke marijuana to self medicate, and I remember going to a party. I got stoned and grabbed a packet of chips, and I sat in the corner, and this beautiful blonde American girl came over and sat next to me and went, hey, you look lonely over here. She didn’t care that I was lonely.

She came over to talk to me because I was attractive and ended up sleeping with that girl, and this is just a reoccurring story through my early 20s.

Many of my results came from simply being in the presence of attractive women, but if this young me could go back in time and teach the old me proper cold approach at the age of 18 to 21, I would not. These girls were stunning. Don’t get me wrong: the girls I saw back then were gorgeous.

What Most Men’s Dating Coaches Do

If I were to go back to meet my younger self and teach him a proper cold approach, I wouldn’t just approach an Italian bikini model; I’d become a supermodel.I would be going over there running some good games with them, and I’ll be like, come on, let’s go to find Victoria’s Secret models and try that.

You think that might be a bit delusional, but if I was having that much success back then, imagine how much success I would have with a proper cold approach.

This is something that a lot of men don’t understand. The sweet art of the cold approach can get you many matches on Tinder, Bumble, or any of these dating apps.

You should be able to access the absolute pinnacle of the most beautiful women ever if you learn the cold approach.

Are you the type of single guy who wants to push the boundaries of what he can accomplish, or are you the type of guy who wants to punch down and tell his buddies to look for another notch on the belt this weekend?

Are You Ready To Change Your Life?

What type of guy are you? You’re going to (as a single man) have to make that decision for yourself. But that’s young me. And as I’ve got older, my game has had to increase over time slowly and just so that I can compete.

So, I just wanted to show you a little bit of a history of myself and where I’ve come from and differentiate myself from the vast majority of coaches out there and explain that.

Experience does matter, and just because I’m a little bit older doesn’t mean I can’t coach an 18-year-old or a 21-year old that wants to get out there and let some cold approach because I remember what it was like to be 21. I have the experience and the ability to get the most out of them these days I became disabled overnight when I was 28 years old.

It was like one day I woke up with a sore hip, and my entire life changed at that moment, so if you’re 25 years old or something, and you think you’re young and have a lot of time.

You might wake up the next day to find your entire life turned upside down, as happened to me when I was 28. So, it’s not that uncommon for things to go wrong in life. So many people get ill, they get sick, and they get cancer. They have some osteoarthritis.

If you are young and think you’re invincible, you’re wrong. You might end up a lot faster than you think. I hope this will be helpful to you guys as a reality check.

The first thing is mate value second one is the cold approach is far better to get a girl above your mate value. Now I got a perfect game. When my looks decrease, the game has to be increased. That’s the message.

Here are some of my best posts:

• Cold approach is a lifestyle (My Philosphy)
• What is indirect daygame
• What I say to Girls (Logistics)
• How to Write a PickUp field report
• How to spot a fake dating coach
• How I got laid in Japan (epic post)
• Why Thailand is NO longer good for getting laid

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