How Can I Get a Girlfriend If I’m Not Handsome?

Dave

May 20, 2022

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Nobel Advice for an Ugly guy to get an Attractive girl. Women are not complicated, they simply want some common things in their man. Looks, money and your status.

The key to attractiveness is display of value to the opposite sex. You may have drawn the short straw genetically but it is not the end of the road. It will be a complementary thing when you have the confidence that naturally comes when you have these things. It is possible for an ugly guy to get an attractive girl.

But the thing that we have to deal is attractiveness and it comes from either naturally or you can enhance your appearance by doing some struggle.

The Less Attractive You Are The Better Your Game Needs To Be

No one is going to be attracted towards your fat belly, if you are overweight you have to deal with it somehow by acting upon a diet plan or work out.

So, this is one of the major things that alter in your way of attracting others. If you are still seeing ads like secrets to get a girl or 5 things or 5 steps or whatever written in blog posts.

Dude honestly it will not affect you in anyway, they are just doing experiments and using you as a material of some sort of experiment.

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Overweight Guys

Nothing in this world is easy to get. Not just your overweight but there are some other things that should be kept in mind to attract a girl. Don’t worry about the steps, tinder hacks or anything else, switch yourself from taking short cuts to lose weight. Choose a wise strategy and work upon it.

Good things happen and take a lot of hard works and these short cuts can’t bring change, instead they discourage you. Motivation is a key to success in this journey.

When you are consistent and motivated no one can ever stop you from success. There’s a quote “Success isn’t always about greatness. It’s about consistency. Consistent hard work leads to success. Greatness will come.” – Dwayne Johnson. Girls are unattracted to overweight, unless you have billions of dollars.

Acne Problems – Skin Issues

If you have acne on your face, do recommend yourself a dermatologist to resolve that problem. Your face is your first thing someone looks before or after getting in touch with you.

An untold truth and harsh reality, everyone judges you by your looks. If you have acne on your face, do something to get rid of it. Otherwise you are not going to get attracted by girls.

Moisturize your face daily and if you have scars or pimples on your face you really need to solve that problem. 3 hacks can’t help you. There’s a saying you look like what you need.

Eat good to look healthy and fit. Acne problems need time to resolve. But after it resolves, you good to go and focus on other things.

Bad Body Odor

To look attractive the most important thing is how you smell. Yes!! Girls are attracted to unique odors. It doesn’t mean you just have to buy a perfume to attract someone, it is a fact that implies after your looks. If your cloths smell bad use a perfume or wash your cloths well.

Then after your cloths, if your teeth’s look bad or your mouth smells bad, brush your teeth’s. If you have any problem related to your teeth’s, go to a dentist and get rid of them. You need to have a relatively clean tooth. Use mouth wash, do floos first. Also, it depends on the girl and the perfume.

Girls usually hate if the guy has bathed in perfume or has overused it. And also, guys have the habit of not bathing and just spraying perfume on themselves.

Girls like clean, tidy, hygienic men. Girls do get attracted but use a classic one and stick to one brand rather than changing it every time. Girls love aroma and if you use prominent one they will always remember you by that aroma so be wise and use the smart one.

Dress Sense

A common sense of dressing is very important to attract a girl. If you have 20$ shoes and you wear thousands of dollars Rolex watch, it’s not a match. She often goes for least desirable piece of your clothing to identify who you are. Which is unfortunate. You have to be very careful with your dressing.

Your fashion sense matters. If you put yourself together in a nice respectful way, that means you have a status and an evidence that you also respect your other aspects of life.

Being nicely/smartly dressed up doesn’t mean you are forcing yourself to change for someone else. Wearing well-ironed clothes, getting them matched up properly, choosing nice colors and quality fabric (which need not always be branded or expensive) – is a quality worth having, which always happen to leave a mark.

Whether in professional or personal life. No harm in acquiring it. You might not have great taste in clothes but don’t wear crumpled clothes and slippers to work.

How Can I Get a Girlfriend If I'm Not Handsome?
How Can I Get a Girlfriend If I’m Not Handsome?

Don’t be Needy and Desperate

if you’re desperate there are a few things that are probably mostly true about yourself. You aren’t confident in your ability to achieve your goals. You are not going to make someone feel special if you seem to want to just go for anyone.

You are going to either push too hard and become annoying very quickly, or you are desperate because you don’t know how to properly make a move so it will never work.

Also, if you’re desperate a person can assume that other people have probably turned you down before, and if you’re acting so strange that you’re obviously desperate to them, then they will consider why that may be and it’s never going to be for a positive reason.

Why be desperate when it isn’t a desperate situation? It will happen when it happens, if you’re desperate you’re more likely to get into a low-quality relationship and convince yourself it’s fine until you’re 55 years old and realize you wasted the vast majority of your life.

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