Why Results Come When You Stop Caring! Why do results come when you stop caring? Well, firstly, it’s really tough to stop caring. I totally understand that. But what is an attractive man in the eyes of a woman? What is the type of man?

Man who leads. He’s the type of man who has a lot of options. He’s the type of man who doesn’t need her. He’s the type of man that is a leader of a group and he’s got a mission. He’s got a life mission.

He’s going somewhere and she is just a compliment to his life. And I know it’s really tough when you find a girl that you really like to not want to make a big part of your life. But girls are hardwired. 

They’re hard-wired to avoid this type of guy because that’s the type of guy who is not going to go out there and provide for her and create a good life for her because he has no mission, he has no goals. He has no ambition.

Stop Caring What Women Think About You

His ambition is her. And if his ambition is her, they’re not going to have a good life. So I’m going to try to analyze this as best I can.

Well, what to do about this problem? It is a huge problem. A lot of guys talk about this and they talk about it as one item.

It’s one item. You’re infatuated with this one girl and you are showing all of the signs of neediness for this one girl. And what does that do that turns her off? It gets not interested in you.

And then sometimes you’ll meet a girl that you’re kind of interested in.

You show a little bit of intent. You show that you’re kind of interested. And next thing you know what happens? You realize you don’t really care. And then what happens with her?

She’s all over you. She wants to hang out with you and she’s a little bit she’s texting you. She’s frustrated that you’re not answering all the time. She’s frustrated that you’re busy and you’re like, can’t be bothered with this one. How frustrating is that?

But that’s unfortunately, how it is sometimes it’s not just the ones that you can’t have and the ones you don’t want, you can have. It’s more about you getting to a point where you stop caring.

Stop Caring About Girls, It’s a Superpower

And now if you’re a single guy out there, to stop caring is a superpower. And that’s when the results will start to come. So the best way to overcome this, in my opinion, is to make sure that you are bringing more girls into your life.

And they find themselves on that level of they’re testing you out. They’re seeing if you’re worth getting into a relationship with. But if you’ve only got one of those girls, she’s feeling you out. She’s not sure about you. You’re infatuated with me.

You’re showing neediness, and you’re more likely to screw it up. You’re more likely to show the nuclear bomb frustrated text message or confront her about not replying on time or not turning up to dates on time.

And you’re more likely to get frustrated because she’s not reciprocating with you and you’re not getting what you want. So the best way to overcome that, especially when you’re in the early dating phase and you feel like a little bit of this one item might be creeping in.

Cold Approach Will Help You Stop Caring About Women

Learn some cold approaches. I don’t know. Yes, you can try dating apps if you want. You can try meeting other women as well. And that’s why a lot of guys, end up dating multiple women.

It is a strategy to avoid the frustration and the pain of caring so much about one. And because you’re caring so much, you’re pushing it away. It is like this internal trauma that all men go through.

I recently went through it myself where there was a girl that I went on a few dates with her, and I was like, just got frustrated. And it’s because I’ve been working so hard and I’ve got all these other things going on, and I only had one new girl on the kind of she was out there.

There’s only one really new one. At that particular moment that week, I got frustrated that she wasn’t doing what I needed her to do to make this work. And she wasn’t texting fast enough. In hindsight, she actually was. And in hindsight, it wasn’t really that bad.

It was more meat, you know what I mean? So if you’re in the same situation where there’s this girl and you might have got a little bit frustrated and you’ve blown it, and then maybe it’s happened this year or last year and you think back and you think what she was doing really wasn’t that bad.

I just needed the chill. I just needed to step back a bit, and give her a bit more space so she can come to me. And I blew it because I said, how dare you not text me fast enough?

Or she turned off an hour until our first or second day, and I thought that we were building on something, and she disrespected me.

That’s a huge issue. And it’s something that all men have to deal with because especially in Western countries, the women have the leverage, they have the options.

And so one of the best strategies, obviously, to stop caring and you can get those results is to be in the early phases of dating different women, multiple women at one time, and all liking them all pretty much the same.

Who Cares What Women Think

They are all the type of girls that you would love to be with and then not care so much about all of them and eventually one will just fall in. That’s probably the best way because you can’t control your emotions.

There’s no real hack to this. This is just life as men we’re just built that way and that’s why I like to coach guys’ cold approach so you can go out and meet women you can meet multiples of women and you can have them dating and who cares?

You might have like three or four girls you’re dating at the same time and they all might be very frustrating they might be taking their time to reply they might be taking their time to turn up on dates they might be frustrating the hell out of you but if you have multiples of them you’re kind of busy with each of them.

You are just that little bit less than you’re just out of the red zone of frustration and you might care a little bit less out of the one item and then the results will come and then you never know all of them might want you and then you get to pick which one you want and that’s the ideal situation, isn’t it? That’s why I like the cold approach I love the cold approach.

It’s also an adrenaline rush going over and speaking to people. It’s awesome. It really is. But this is my analysis of why sometimes the results come when you just stop caring and the best strategy is this this is by far the best strategy and having a life’s mission. One man’s life’s mission.

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