Today’s dating tip is building momentum in-game, especially at the moment. Because of this quarantine and all of the lockdown laws that have restricted people from going outside, it’s hard to build momentum. So that’s what I want to talk about today.

Most people are scared to go out at the moment and there are no nightclubs, open restaurants, bars, or clubs. There are very few places to meet girls left that you can go. So it’s very difficult to build momentum.

And social distancing laws mean that if you were to start up a conversation with a stranger, especially at the moment, they might be wearing a mask, they could even be wearing goggles and gloves. And not to mention the fact that you have to stand 2 meters away from them when you say hello.

If you had approach anxiety before if you were to go out now, your approach anxiety would be next level, especially if you’re walking around and if you are seeing too many people or you’re talking to someone in the police, you can get a fine of up to $10,000. Especially in Australia, people are receiving $10,000 fines for not social distancing.

How To Daygame

Nightclubs are all closed, so that’s not an option at all. But if you were to go do some day game, it’s day game on the highest difficulty level at the moment because of not just the fact that people are covered up and they’re scared of the virus. There are also police running around and security guards. And it’s extremely difficult. Myself, I have been doing some social distancing approaches, but it’s difficult to build momentum.

And one thing I’d like to tell you guys is that stop blaming other people, stop blaming the pandemic, and stop blaming the world. You are responsible for your action.

If you’re not taking action and you’re hiding inside, don’t blame anyone else. And so what I do is I just do my best to try and, you know, I’ve got to go buy food, I’ve got to go to the cafe. I know it might not be politically correct to say this, but there are a lot of guys under 40 or under 50 that are scared of a virus in the future.

Daygame Cold Approach Success Rate

I bet I put money on it. I bet in the future people look back and go, what a bunch of pussies. They were scared of a virus with a death rate of a maximum of 3%, even if it ran wild. Look at Sweden at the moment. Let’s just be realistic.

The statistics, they’re muddling it up with older people. There are people in their 80s dying, not to mention how stupid our society is as well.

You got someone like Elon Musk and you have doctors and surgeons who run hospitals coming out and saying that the death rate is not that high if you’re under 40 you have no reason to fear this unless you have some other complicated issues and therefore then the virus will be hurting you anyway.

Any virus would hurt you so to get that out of the way life is tough if it’s a virus man up. So anyway, the only reason why I am super careful is that that’s the law, and respect other people’s right to want social distance.

Daygame Approach Anxiety

So that makes it a little bit difficult to approach within the current laws therefore it’s almost impossible to build up some sort of momentum. Well, there are two different types of momentum.

There’s momentum within the day which is like your constant engine that needs to start up every day. Like you wake up, you have breakfast, you probably stare at your phone for 20 minutes before you get out of bed and you have a shower or whatever your morning routine is.

Once your first approach of the day just say you’re on your way to work and I don’t believe that you should be wasting thing hours out there doing a day game session.

I think that day game which is your only option at the moment should be done around your daily routine.

Mean. But your first approach is usually a tough one. So therefore it should be an easy approach. Say hello to the neighbor, say hello to someone, and don’t expect too much from the first approach. And then you build momentum during the day.

And that’s just because when you wake up, you’re in your head. But then there’s also the long-term momentum. So if you haven’t done an approach during this pandemic for several months and you go out there, you’re not only trying to start the engine for the day, you’re starting the engine for a long-term momentum as well if that makes any sense.

So, for instance, if you’ve been approaching every day, starting your engine every day for several months, at the end of several months of doing approaches every day, starting the engine becomes easier.

But if you haven’t done any approaches so you have no long-term momentum built up, and the short-term momentum of waking up and trying to start your engine and make an approach, it’s going to be so difficult.

Daygame Momentum

Not to mention you’re going to be in your head, you’re going to be nervous. You’re also going to judge yourself more. Your ego might tell you that it should work. And I guess what I’m trying to say is take the pressure off, relax. Take the pressure off the first one.

Just know that you’re going to fail. Accept it, and just allow the first couple of approaches to fail.

I don’t know where you are in the world or what situation you’re in, but there’s a good chance that you’re still in lockdown and you’re not allowed to do too many approaches.

You might only get an opportunity to approach a shopping center and you’re both covered in masks and plastics and goggles and glad wrap wrapped around your head. So it’d be tough to even make one approach.

But you still should be doing your best to get out there and be as social as possible. Because one thing the government isn’t being honest with you guys is that this builds a form of antisocial society.

Daygame Rejection Rate

It affects your immune system by being stuck inside and you’re not outdoors enough. You don’t have all of those. You’re not outdoors, like taking in all of these different viruses all the time that you don’t feel. And being in a sterile environment is very bad for you.

The mental problems like acrophobia, you might start to feel scared to go outside if you’re locked inside for too long. I’ve seen some people that are starting to behave that way already. So there are all these problems, and then once they let us all out, they let go of the wheel of the economy and they give us our freedom back because we’re in a police state at the moment.

Once they give us our freedoms back, which they shouldn’t have taken in the first place, in my opinion, you’re going to go out there and you’re going to feel weird it’s going to feel anxiety because there’s too many people around so I can imagine people having a lot of anxiety and it’d be really tough to build momentum and my suggestion is if you actually have an hour and you’re like.

Daygame as a Lifestyle – Daygame Everyday

Okay I’ve got an hour before work or maybe after work when they let go of this wheel of the economy and they give us our freedom back after work maybe you might have an hour and you’re like, okay I’m going to grab a coffee.

I’m going to go for a walk around the block around my workplace or in the CBD something like that and I’m going to make a few approaches and one suggestion I would like to make is that you put a lot of pressure on yourself to make an approach so much pressure that if you don’t make an approach during that hour and you go home and you’re really disappointed make sure that you are really disappointed in yourself.

Build up that be annoyed with yourself be annoyed that you did nothing because that anger at yourself is going to motivate you the very next day to make a few more approaches and that is the engine that drives the short term momentum which then builds on the long term momentum.

So putting pressure on yourself is important too often I see guys that say, oh look no it’s okay I didn’t make any approaches they make all these excuses just ridiculous excuses and they’re not valid in any way, shape or form.

If you are not making enough approaches then you’re not getting enough opportunities then you’re not getting enough leads then you’re not getting any data.

Here are some of my best posts:

• Cold approach is a lifestyle
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• How to spot a fake dating coach
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• Why Thailand is NO longer good for getting laid

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