Ways To Be a More Masculine Man. There are many notions of what a masculine man should be, and if some of them don’t sit well with you, then you should listen to your instinct.

There are several ways you can become more masculine, and maybe you have already mastered some of them. If you still feel that something in your dating life is lacking, take a look at the ideas below on how to be a more masculine man.

Accept new challenges or create some for you

Being able to take up more challenges means that you, as a man, become more equipped to deal with the natural harshness of life. It means that you developed strong willpower, perseverance, and even a better physical shape in some cases. 

It’s not as hard as a single man as it seems to challenge yourself. You could start increasing your workouts or even gain the courage and confidence to move up the ladder of your career.

You must stand up for yourself 

One great way to make sure that you are a masculine man is that you don’t need to rely on the support of others to stand on your two feet.

Of course, this doesn’t mean that you shouldn’t learn when to accept help and work as a team. However, knowing that from now on you don’t have to give explanations to anybody about your life because you can take care of yourself perfectly is a way to assert your masculinity.

Make yourself seem larger

This is valid for any human being because when someone tries to make their body look like a smaller target, it can convey the impression that you don’t want to be noticed or are afraid of something.

If you’re a man and you try to consistently make your body look smaller, try to sit or stand with your back straight, don’t cross your legs, and don’t look down. People already expect men to have a bigger presence, so try to match that to appear more masculine.

Don’t avoid eye contact

As humans, when someone avoids looking directly at us or looks shifty. When we are trying to look other men in the eye, they immediately look shy and passive to us.

Men usually take a more active role in social interactions, so don’t look away when you are having a conversation with someone. Measure how much you can look them in the eye to make them comfortable. 

Being able to maintain eye contact is a good masculine trait a man can have. You show that you’re not afraid to be straightforward or to accept challenges head-on. It also shows that you can be a great leader.

Have a calm and relaxed posture

Having a relaxed posture doesn’t necessarily mean that you become indifferent or even rude to other people. It merely means that you are comfortable and possibly even in control of your surroundings. For certain people, it’s easier to think like this than to put it into practice. 

One of the alpha things that might be holding back your inner alpha and you in trying to appear more relaxed is that social interactions make you nervous.

A good way to control this is to distance yourself from the situation. First, try to not exaggerate your body movements, you don’t need to instantly turn your whole body to the person who’s talking to you.

Second, think about what you should say first, and then communicate your message slowly and clearly. You will easily grab the attention of the person who’s talking to you if you do this.

Don’t be afraid to talk louder

When we are forced to repeat ourselves because we weren’t loud enough, we tend to lose confidence. You can only seem like a leader if you catch the attention of people the first time. Although you don’t need to shout, you could project your voice loud enough so that people will hear you the first time.

If you constantly need to make yourself heard without much success you can be seen as a push-over and not very masculine at all.

Know how to react during moments of fear. Many people agree that men are better mentally equipped to deal with fear. If you can react quickly in a fearful situation and support and protect others who cannot you will be seen as a very masculine man.

It doesn’t mean that you can’t feel fear to be masculine, on the contrary. You should (as an alpha) be able to deal with fear and carry on with your role as well as if you weren’t afraid.

Be passionate

Men can be generally defined by their passion to pursue their goals and being very outgoing. If you are stuck to a routine, not have many goals to pursue, you will start to appear passive and potentially lose the appearance of a masculine man. You need to think of things that would make you feel energized and excited and then go after them.

It’s not very easy to think of things like that, especially if you think you already have everything you wanted. However, no one has everything they want, you probably just forgot about things you thought you could never achieve.

Revisit those goals and look for ways to achieve them. This way you will appear more masculine as you are striving to live your life to the fullest.

Prioritize yourself

You can only genuinely give to others when you have already satisfied your needs. It’s normal, as a man, to want to protect others, but for that, you need to learn (as an alpha male) how to take care of yourself first.

Turn off those internal voices that tell you that that’s a selfish action. You’re only doing this so you can reach a peaceful state of mind and be fully available to aid others.

Be surrounded by other men who you consider to be role models

Inspiring people inspire us. A good way to be the masculine man you want is by spending time with similar people. By making friends with men who inspire you, you can learn from them and subconsciously mimic their actions.

More actively, you can also talk with your friends to ask them for advice on how to improve your masculine side. Maybe you can help them too with gaps they haven’t figured out yet but you have.

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