Diversify Your Cold Approach with Your Daygame Results. If you’ve been practicing daygame regularly, you’ve probably seen your results plateau at some point or another. It could be that your style of talking to girls isn’t working anymore, or it could be that you’re just not getting enough practice.

You can overcome this plateau by implementing these tips into your game, which will make it less predictable and more rewarding in the long run.

The dangers of sticking with the same cold approach

It’s easy to fall into your comfort zone. When it comes to approaching girls during the day, there are few men who could honestly say they have no idea what they’re doing when they get up in front of a set of pretty girls. If you look at yourself that way, then you might want to rethink your approach entirely. 

The biggest mistake most men make is sticking with their tried-and-true method until it stops working for them, or becomes stale and boring. By staying too comfortable with what you know works, you risk becoming known as that creepy guy or worse: someone who will ask every girl out on her way down an escalator because it worked once.

You don’t want to be remembered like that. You also don’t want to miss out on opportunities by not being willing to branch out and try new things.

Stop learning from your cold approaches

Rather than seeing each day as a chance to learn, you get caught up in your head with how many approaches you’ve done. Instead of trying to use every approach as an opportunity to learn, you decide that if it wasn’t a success (in other words, if she didn’t respond positively) then it must not have been valuable. 

To address this issue make sure that your goal with every approach is learning: talk yourself through what happened during each interaction and what insights you gained from them (whether they were positive or negative). You can also journal about your approach afterwards if it helps solidify things in your mind. 

Do whatever it takes for you to truly value each cold approach for what it is: an opportunity for growth. It will pay off dividends down the road when you are able to take something away from even your worst days.

If you find yourself frustrated by constant rejection: Don’t be afraid to vary your openers and delivery even within one day! When it comes to approaching women, there is no such thing as perfect delivery. If one opener doesn’t work well on a particular girl, don’t give up try another one instead!

Keep working at it until you hit on something that works for her and don’t let rejection deter you from going out there again and again until you do.

You stop seeing progress in your cold approach

It’s possible that you have plateaued. Even though you are doing daygame perfectly well, you’re not getting results as quickly as you were at first.

When most people hit plateaus like these, they think something is wrong with their strategy or that it has stopped working and so they change things up hoping for better results.

The thing is, there is nothing wrong with your approach, In fact, it’s likely that your current game is exactly what will take you all the way through your journey of self-improvement. 

 That said, sometimes we just need to mix things up and try new approaches in order to see new results. This is why I recommend diversifying your cold approach if you start hitting plateaus with your daygame results.

By changing how you interact with women during your interactions, you can get more out of each interaction than before and make progress faster than ever before! 

How Many Cold Approaches Per Day

I would cold approach, on average, between three and six times per day. If I didn’t make at least two approaches every day, I would feel unsatisfied with my progress. But then things changed. I was experiencing diminishing returns: it was taking me more work than before just to stay where I was. 

And worse yet, women were beginning to reject me more than ever in certain areas of town, despite still being able to pick up all kinds of quality women during warm-ups and random street encounters. Needless to say, something had to change! What worked for me was diversifying my approach. 

In other words, instead of approaching exclusively through direct game (and occasionally indirect game), I began using online dating as well as nightlife venues like bars and clubs.

My results shot up almost immediately after making these changes because they allowed me to reach different types of women who would have otherwise never crossed paths with me if I only approached them on the streets or outside their homes.

The lesson here is that you should never fall into a rut by doing one thing over and over again without thinking about how you can improve your results by trying new things or tweaking what you’re already doing.

Daygame fear of being seen as a weirdo

I’m more than happy to talk about daygame now, but it turns out there is another fear that stops many men from talking about their success with cold approach. They are scared of peaking! The concern goes something like, if I open too many girls on my first few days then when will I get in trouble? If I talk about daygame, how can I make sure my opener is working like it should?

 This is an important point because if you are relying on your opener as a crutch, then you won’t be able to react well when it isn’t working. You need to develop other ways of opening so that you don’t feel like everything hinges on one line.

Testing new cold approaches on different groups of girls

Some of your new approaches might succeed, others fail. And that’s fine, we’re just looking for progress here! The goal is simply to get out there more often and try something new. In fact, you can even structure your approaches in a way that mimics your learning schedule if you want.

Take note of what happened when you did approach X on girl Y. Then repeat it with girl Z if it worked out well or try another variation if not. 

You will also notice that some approaches are inherently better suited for certain types of girls but don’t fret over that! Rather than stick with only one type of game (and risk getting too comfortable with it), actively seek variety by testing different approaches against different types of girls.

Sometimes my cold approach worked

When I was first learning how to cold approach women, I’d walk up to girls on campus and sometimes they’d talk to me! But other times, girls would look at me funny or ignore me. That left me feeling discouraged and wondering what I could do differently in order for them to like me. 

It took me awhile (and hundreds of approaches), but eventually, I figured out that my approach style had a big impact on whether or not a girl liked me; it was either love it or hate it. Once I understood that, I knew it was time to start experimenting with different styles until I found one that worked consistently well.

The key is to experiment with different styles until you find one that works well for you so if you’re struggling with your daygame results, try something new!

Here are some of my best posts:

• Cold approach is a lifestyle
• How to get a younger girlfriend
• What is indirect daygame
• How to spot a fake dating coach
• How I got laid in Japan (epic post)
• Why Thailand is NO longer good for getting laid

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