Ways men can take lead in relationships. A lot of women look for men who are confident, assertive and take the lead in relationships. If you’re looking to get into a relationship with a strong, independent woman, you need to be prepared to take the lead when needed and be supportive of her interests and dreams as well as your own. Here are the best ways men can take the lead in a relationship.

Pull her closer

If you want your lady to feel more physically connected with you, it’s important that you can connect with her on an emotional level. Don’t tell her everything is fine if it isn’t. Tell the girl you are dating how she makes you feel and what you need from her. It may sound trite, but women love men who are honest and open especially when it comes to their feelings!

If you truly want to take charge of your relationship, then be vulnerable enough to share what is going on inside of you with her. She will respond by pulling herself closer into a deeper connection with you.

Talk about future plans 

Whether you’re having dinner or curling up on your couch with a good movie, don’t just sit there and stare at your spouse or significant other.

Ask her about his day, upcoming work projects, and anything else that he thinks you might be interested in. Keep things engaging by asking follow-up questions. If you can the girl you are dating talking about something she loves, all the better! And if not, talk about something you love. You never know you may end up learning something new from each other.

Talking about future plans together is a great way to take charge of your relationship because it allows you both to share what’s important to you and spend quality time together. It also shows your partner that you are interested in his/her goals and dreams as well as yours. It helps couples connect on a deeper level.

Your partner will feel more included when you do things like ask how their workday went, talk about an event coming up soon, or tell them about your upcoming vacation. Being open and sharing details with one another builds trust which ultimately leads to greater intimacy within a relationship.

Asking these types of questions gives us insight into who our partners are as individuals outside of their relationships with us and makes them feel appreciated and understood.

Ask her what she wants

Many men make the mistake of not letting their women take control. They are afraid of not doing it right and looking like an idiot.

However, instead of asking her what she wants, you should ask her what she doesn’t want. Let her tell you what she would rather have done differently if she were planning things out. This way, she is more likely to be comfortable with your future actions than if you just blindly do everything yourself.

Then, once you know what she likes and dislikes, feel free to ask her how you can make those things happen again. The best part about taking charge is that it allows both partners to enjoy themselves fully.

Don’t look at other women

If you’re interested in leading your girlfriend or wife, don’t even think about looking at other women while you’re dating her. Put your mobile cell phone down and stop checking out pretty girls on the subway platform.

How can she trust that you won’t cheat on her if you can’t even resist looking at another woman when she’s right next to you? Even if it doesn’t mean anything, it means something.

Create a comfortable atmosphere 

The best relationships are based on mutual respect, love, and trust. In order to make sure your relationship with your significant other stays at that level, it’s vital that you give them their space when they need it and take it back when you need it too. Remember neither one of you should feel like they’re walking on eggshells just to keep from upsetting their partner.

If either of you is feeling suffocated or anxious, then something needs to change. This can be hard sometimes because there will always be times when your spouse will want to talk about something personal but there will also be times when they want to escape reality for a little while and do something fun or exciting.

It’s important that both partners find ways to balance these two aspects so both parties feel equally satisfied throughout their time together.

Don’t wait for an excuse to surprise her

As most men know, they are often more comfortable with routine and predictability than their girlfriends. For us, showing love is easy when it comes in predictable spurts, sex on Saturday night, and flowers on Sunday afternoon.

If you’re looking to make your lady swoon, though, wait until she least expects it (maybe Monday morning!) and surprise her with a spontaneous act of affection.

 A good idea could be bringing her coffee if she gets up before you do or filling her car up with gas after work. No matter what you choose, just remember that spontaneity goes a long way! A man who makes his woman feel secure is a man who can take charge in any situation.

Doing fun activities together

Communication is vital, but don’t rely on it as your sole source of interaction. What you do together is just as important as what you say which means having fun is just as vital to a relationship’s longevity as sharing your feelings. Think of fun activities that you can do together and set aside time each week to engage in them.

You may not always be able to get out of work or school early, but if you (as a single man) plan ahead, there are plenty of things you can do with your partner even if only have an hour or two at night. (Just make sure they’re something both of you will enjoy.) 

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