What Makes a Man Less Attractive and How to Change it. Before We talk about unattractiveness we should have a clear concept about what makes you attractive.

And what does it means being attractive. Attraction is inborn quality of an individual that can be enhanced. Everybody has his own traits/qualities that makes him different from the others. The main thing is enhancement.

Now I think we should talk about the things that alter our attractiveness and makes a man less attractive. Attracting others is not that easy for everyone. It actually requires patience, selfless love, kindness.

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What Makes Men Less Attractive?

I know what you are thinking, but appearance does mattes, before anybody get into something, the first thing that someone looks is your appearance. That’s why we say. First impression is the last impression.

Good Clothing and unique dressing sense can overcome this fault of yours. We learn from our surroundings. Human is a social animal. You as a man are judged by the company you keep (people you hang out with).

Your company does have an impact on your sense of humor, dressing styles, the way you analyze different aspects of your life and the way you deal with your problems.

How Can a Man Become More Attractive?

By keeping yourself in the surrounding of good peoples will help you to enhance your abilities. If you keep yourself in illiterate people who cares about nothing, you will ultimately lose your courage and things will get worse day by day.

Bad Behavior and Way of talking. After your first impression the main thing that come forward is your manners. Good Manners on a man are like wearing an exquisite suit. They never go out of style
Good manners and polite behavior attract everybody.

It is a key that opens heart and once you conquer someone’s heart there’s nothing remains to be done. Strive to be a good person. Treat other people with the kindness and way you would like to be treated. Keep your promises. Be compassionate and forgiving. Cultivate an approachable, caring manner.

Poor Vocal Tonality

According to a survey report British accent is the most appealing accent in the world. Your voice attracts, low pitched voices are more attractive. We can practice our way of pronunciation and deliverance of words while sitting alone.

Everyone has an accent and many are considered more attractive than others. I personally can’t stand the German “Mundl” accent from Vienna as it always sounds extremely uneducated. So, that is an immediate turn off. When it comes to British accents/varieties, then I haven’t encountered one that I didn’t like. 

American Southern accents are also a bit of a turn off as they are hard to understand and some experiences with tourists speaking some of those southern varieties didn’t exactly make it any better. So, it’s not really the accent, that is attractive/not attractive, but what our mind relates to these accents.

Poor Hygiene 

No one likes bad smell. Ever wonder what makes roses so adorable and preferable than other flowers. It’s because of smell and the color. Fragrances are considered to enhance sexual attractiveness.

The scent and smell of a person definitely influences your attraction to another. You may not even realize it at first but many people have said “I just love the smell of her/him”. And of course, once you’re attracted I think the pheromones released increase one’s attraction for another.

It’s not the “be all” for a relationship but it’s definitely a part of it. The book “Perfume” by Patrick Sueskind is by far the best exploration of this idea of subconscious reactions to the scent of people I have ever read. Even the movie was very well made. Anyway, the writer seems to propose the idea that we are loved or hated based on our natural scents.

Dull facial expressions

Everybody loves to laugh. A smiley face looks more attractive. Once said 

“A smile can resolve thousand problems”.

NO MATTER!! What happen in your life keep smiling. It gives you courage and make you a healthy human. Giving a smile to a stranger or anyone you know is a small kindness that is easy to afford.

Smiles are as much as gift for the person smiling as they are for the person receiving the smile. Even if the person does not smile back, it does not hurt to send out a smile. The world is a difficult place – showing a positive facial expression can enrich someone’s day – don’t withhold that simple gift from someone.

Laziness and Always Being tired 

Yes, laziness makes you less attractive because it shows you have no passion or desire to fulfill your goals or do something productive with your life. It also indicates that you are not willing to put in hard work towards yourselves or others which shows your type of character you have.

The human brain is programmed to avoid discomfort. When someone is in a situation that requires effort but can be avoided without consequences, then they are likely to act lazily.

For example, someone would likely decide to stay at home and watch TV rather than go to the gym, as their brain finds the gym more exhausting than their current situation. To top it off, there are no dire, immediate, consequences for evading the exhausting scenario. Further encouraging lazy behavior.

On these grounds, I’d state that laziness is primarily a natural part of being human. However, living in the twenty-first century and in a developed country may have made laziness a more glaring and ubiquitous trait as there are fewer consequences for it. In contrast, I am confident that someone facing starvation would act as swiftly as possible; death is certainly more exhausting than attempting to gather food.

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