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How Many Dates Until I Should Try Kiss Her? So you’ve been on a few dates with a girl and you like her. What’s the next step? Are you ready to kiss her? We’ve all been there, and it’s tough to know when the time is right.

Single men don’t want to come across (creepy) as too eager, but at the same time, if she’s into you then it’s not like you have much of a choice in whether or not she wants to kiss you.

So what do we do? How many dates until I should try to kiss her?

The answer (dating advice) depends on how far along in your relationship with this girl you are. If you’re just getting to know each other and it’s still early days, then you might want to wait for another date or two before trying anything intimate.

However, if things are going really well and she seems open to the idea of kissing then go for it.
The key here is communication – talk about what both of your expectations are so that nobody gets their feelings hurt later on down the line.

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What Should I Do Before Kissing Her?

How many dates? It varies This is a common dating advice question that we get asked a lot, and the answer is: it varies.

The first thing all men (you) need to do when deciding whether or not to kiss a girl on a date determines what your relationship is with her. Are you dating exclusively? Or are you just casually seeing each other?

If so, it’s probably best to wait until the fourth or fifth date before trying anything more than a hug or brief peck on the cheek (depending on how long your date has been).

If you’re dating exclusively and have already established that there are no hard feelings between the two of you from any past relationships, then it’s safe to say that if neither party has made an attempt at physical contact by that time, it’s time for some tongue.

We did some research on the subject of when should you kiss a girl on a date, and we found out some pretty interesting things.
First off, half of US citizens think you should kiss on the first date, while 33% of people think it’s okay to kiss after 2-3 dates.

And when we compare the opinion on a kiss on a first date, we can see 60% agree while 48% of women think that it’s okay on the first date.
18-24 age, or younger were less likely to agree to the kiss on the first date.

When Should The First Kiss Happen?

Too many dates will make you seem like a friend, not a lover. Too many dates will make you seem like a friend, not a lover. This can be especially problematic for single men if the woman is looking for more than just friendship but isn’t sure yet where you stand.

If she’s looking for something serious, don’t wait too long to make your intentions clear, she might just get bored and move on.

If you’re looking for something casual, then it can take longer to get to know someone well enough to find out whether or not they’re worth kissing. The best rule of thumb is to wait until at least the third date before trying anything romantic with your new crush.

Don’t wait too long – she’ll lose interest

If single men wait too long, she’ll lose interest and think you might be gay. If you try too soon, she’ll think you’re creepy. So how many dates until you should try to kiss her?
The answer is: it depends on what type of girl she is and how much time you’ve been spending together. Here are some general guidelines:
If it’s a first date (or even a second date), don’t wait for the end of the night. Make your move early on in the date so that if she’s not into it, there’s still plenty of time, you can use all night haha plenty of time left in the night for both of you to have fun without feeling awkward.
If she does like it and wants to continue kissing, great. If she doesn’t like it or isn’t ready yet, no harm done… at least not yet.
If it’s a third or fourth date, try waiting until late in the evening.

If she hasn’t made any moves towards kissing by this point, then chances are good that she isn’t interested in moving things forward physically with you just yet (or ever).

But if she has been flirting with you throughout the night or otherwise making it clear that she’s interested in physical contact, then go for it.
If you’ve been trying the dating scene for a while and are both very comfortable with each other, then you can pretty much kiss her whenever you want.

At this point, she’s probably already made it clear that she likes you, so it shouldn’t be a problem.

So, try not to rush things with women too much and definitely don’t wait too long, but pay attention to her body language and signals. If she wants you to kiss her, she’ll make it abundantly clear.

It’s worth it to try earlier rather than later

The first date is typically the most awkward, so it’s worth it to try earlier rather than later.
But how many dates until you should try kissing her?

It depends on your personality and the type of relationship you’re trying to build. If you’re looking for something casual, then there are no hard and fast rules about how many dates you need to wait before making a move.

But if you want something more serious or long-term, then there are some things to consider.

If you’re trying to build a casual relationship: You don’t need to wait until the fifth date before making a move. If she seems receptive and you feel like it’s time, go ahead and kiss her.

If you’re trying to build a more serious relationship:

Wait until the third date before making any moves, this gives her enough time to get comfortable with you and shows that you respect her boundaries and aren’t just out for yourself.

Once she’s comfortable with you, hopefully, she’ll be open to a move like this as well.

If you’re trying to build something long-term: I would recommend waiting until at least after the first date has come and gone before thinking about kissing her, this will make it seem like you’re not just interested in a physical relationship and that instead, you truly want to build something deeper than that.

You may have better luck if this is what she’s looking for too.

Send her Signals

Before you kiss her, send her signals that you’re romantically interested in her through touch. Hold hands while walking, put your arm around her waist, lean in when she talks, and touch her shoulder or arm whenever you say something sweet.

These actions let her know that you’re interested in more than just friendship with her.

If she reciprocates by touching you back in the same way, then the time is right for a kiss.

To avoid any awkwardness or miscommunication, make sure that she knows what’s about to happen before you plant one on her. If she seems excited about the idea of kissing you back, then go ahead and do it.

A bashful kiss is a terrible idea, especially if you’ve waited until the third date.

A bashful kiss is a terrible idea, especially if you’ve waited until the third date.

By all means, wait until the third date, but don’t wait until then to try to kiss her. If you’re not sure whether she’s down with kissing, go for it right away. If she’s not into it, it’ll be clear early on.

If you wait until the third date and then try to kiss her, she may feel like you were just waiting for that magic moment before trying to make a move. It might also come across as presumptuous or desperate like you were counting down the days until she was willing to give in to your advances.

Here are some of my best posts:

• Cold approach is a lifestyle
• How to get a younger girlfriend
• What is indirect daygame
• How to spot a fake dating coach
• How I got laid in Japan (epic post)
• Why Thailand is NO longer good for getting laid

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