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How To Text a Girl You Just Met Through Cold Approach. In this day and age, texting is very present in the dating world.

Whether you met a girl on a dating app or in person and you exchanged numbers, you will do a big part of your conversations via text.

Because of this, you can’t just count on future dates may or may not have with a certain girl to attract her more to you. You need to become appealing to her before you go on your first date, and that’s probably through text messages.

If you don’t know what is the best way to do this, read below to find out.

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Dave

Good Cold Approach Makes Texting Her Easier

You need to create a good image of yourself. If you met a cute girl but either you or she don’t have time to get to know each other better at that specific moment, the next thing you want to do is to ask for a number so you can text her later.

If she agrees and gives you her number, that’s great. However, whether you decide to wait the famous three days before contacting her again or decided to text her right away, you will need to cause a good impression on her.

If you briefly met and only exchanged a few words before going your separate ways, she doesn’t know much about you. She probably only agreed to give you her number because she found you physically attractive.

So, now that you are going to text her, it’s time to fill in the gaps and create an image of someone she would like to engage in conversation with.

You will want to share as many things as possible about your personality, so she can understand how you view the world and how you interact with others.

She needs to feel excited when a notification of a text from you pops up on her screen. So much so, that she starts throwing off hints about when you should meet again or even asking you out directly.

Good texting comes from good cold approach

Dave

You need to appear confident to her

Looking confident is much easier to do in person than over text, that’s for granted. But, as you probably know confidence is one of the things that makes a girls feel attracted to you besides looks. However, every single men need to be very careful with women when they try to look confident to her.

There’s a thin line that separates confidence and arrogance. You can’t just assume that she gave you her number because she thinks you’re the hottest man she’s ever seen and she can’t wait to go out with you.

While you spiked her interest when you first met, there’s still some work to be done. You need to figure out what type of person she is, by asking ordinary things about her life and trying to match your personality with hers.

Although you don’t need to change your personality to be interesting, you can bring to the surface the aspects of your personality that might interest her more.

Single men need to be able to create a connection between you two and for that, she needs to feel that she can relate to what you think and/or what you do.

Think of this stage of texting as creating a bigger appeal that surrounds you making her feel more attracted to you each time you chat.

Find a way to introduce sexual topics

Let’s be honest, you need to make it clear that you’re interested in a girl because of the sexual factor too. Otherwise, your texts might get too casual and you might make the mistake of her seeing you just as a friend.

But since you’ve just met this girl, it’s not wise to blurt out multiple sexual topics to talk to her (there are exceptions to this case, but you need to be able to read the atmosphere correctly before doing that).

You need to remember that the girl you’re texting gave you her number, not because she just wants to be your friend, but because she sees you as a potential sexual partner too.

However, it’s not likely that she will bring up the topic too soon in the conversation, so most girls will be caught off guard in a negative way if you do.

This doesn’t mean that you can’t touch the subject. It just means that you need to find the right opportunity during your conversations and subtly bring it up.

You need to find creative ways to express your sexual desire towards her but also assess her reaction once you do.

It’s okay to back down temporarily if she gives you a negative reply. It doesn’t mean that you can’t try it later again when a new opportunity comes up. If she gives you a positive answer, you can become more comfortable talking about sexual topics bit by bit.

The moment you have her contact information, it’s game on. Don’t let it go cold by forgetting to text her regularily

Dave

Text Her Often To Keep The Conversation Warm

Don’t wait too long until you see her again. Texting is a great way to find out each other’s interests and what type of personality each one of you has. It’s perfect to discuss casual topics and even to flirt a little to show that you have a bigger interest in that person beyond friendship.

But you can’t deepen the relationship more just via text. What you can do is, with the help of the conversations you are having with this woman start mentioning that you would love to see her again in person, or even suggest things that you could do together on a date.

If she mentions that she has nothing to do on the weekend don’t hesitate to take that opportunity to ask her out. She was probably giving you a hint so she won’t reject you.

If she doesn’t do this you could also start asking what she would like to do should you go out hypothetically.

If you have been getting to know each other through text and having long conversations, she will likely be excited about the idea and start throwing off hints to see if you could really go out on a date.

Here are some of my best posts:

• Cold approach is a lifestyle
• How to get a younger girlfriend
• What is indirect daygame
• How to spot a fake dating coach
• How I got laid in Japan (epic post)
• Why Thailand is NO longer good for getting laid

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