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Methods to texting a girl and making her like you. Do the other person a solid.

• Don’t be afraid to ask questions.
• Asking good questions about her is a great way to get to know someone and show that you’re interested (shows intent) in what they have to say.
• Asking also helps the other person open up and will let them feel more comfortable around you.

Remember, though: if you’ve been texting endlessly for days or weeks without ever meeting in person, it might be time for you to slow down and make sure the other person is on the same page as you.

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How to keep a girl interested via Text?

Be self-aware. Awareness is the key to success in all things. Self-awareness is a key part of that and can help you achieve your dreams and be happy along the way. Be aware of what you like and don’t like, be aware of how others’ actions make you feel.

Be self-aware enough to know that when a girl seems like she’s not interested in talking with you, it may be because she’s just not interested in talking with you. Don’t keep at it; let it go.

After all, picking up girls is a numbers game, there are plenty of fish in the sea, so don’t waste time on someone who isn’t feeling it — we’re just one person after all!

When someone is mean to us we might think they’re really cool or good at what they do — but if they are being mean then they are probably not worth our time!

Don’t just text to text. Don’t just text to text. You have to have a reason for texting her. Otherwise, it will seem like you’re just trying to get a rise out of them or that you’re pretending you have nothing better to do than message them all day long.

If you come off as seeming desperate, needy, or even worse–a stalker–you’ll end up scaring her away and hurting your chances at ever dating her.

Be interesting. To become interesting, you must do interesting things. By doing interesting things, you will know more about the world and will have more to talk about. If you are not an interesting person, no one will want to spend their time talking to you.

When texting a girl and making her like you, make sure that the content of your texts is stimulating. If all we do is send text messages that say “I had cereal for breakfast” or “my dog ran away”, she’ll lose interest pretty fast.

Try something more engaging like: “I just saw a raccoon in my trash can eating my cereal.”

Be Interesting Over Text With Girls

Again, be interesting. Again, be interesting!!!!!!!! The key to getting laid is to make sure you don’t sound like a cliché or a poser. If you’re passionate about hiking, don’t just say that — talk about your favorite trails and trips!

If someone says she loves the outdoors, ask what her favorite places are to backpack and camp.

Be specific when it comes to things like this. It shows that you genuinely care about the world around you rather than just wanting a girl who’s into “outdoorsy” things so your posts look better on Instagram.

This section isn’t just for letting her know what she can expect from you in the relationship; it’s also your chance to get an idea of whether she’s right for you in the first place.

You might not be head-over-heels in love right after this conversation, but by talking openly and honestly with each other about your interests, hopes, dreams and goals (and listening politely without judgment), both of you will have a better idea of who the other person is beyond their good looks and slick texting game.

Be Funny When Texting Girls

It’s OK to let them know you’re laughing at their jokes. If she makes a funny joke and you want to let her know that you think it’s funny, go for it.

No need to be overly elaborate; “LOL” or “haha” will do just fine. This is a lighthearted way to show someone that you enjoy their company, and if they like your company as well, they’ll probably send you back an emoji of their own.

A good rule of thumb is this: If a girl sends an emoji in the first text message after the initial introduction, respond with another emoji and work your way up from there.

Plus, letting someone know you appreciate their sense of humor can make them feel good about themselves! If the girl’s feeling down or stressed out one day, she’ll likely be grateful for any kind of support she gets.

It’s also OK to not text her too much.

While we’ve been focused on what to say, it’s also important to know when to be silent. There are a few situations when either listening is a better option than talking or remaining quiet is just the best course. In any of these cases, hold off:

• When you’re tired (early in the morning) or in a bad mood (something bad happened to you). Poor sleep and low energy translates directly into not being fun to talk with, so if you’re feeling wiped out or irritable, don’t force your company on someone else. Similarly, if you feel like something is bothering you but you’re not sure what it is yet, take time alone to figure out your feelings before reaching out to others—people can tell when something is up and they may make assumptions that aren’t true!
• When they’re not in the mood for conversation. This one piece of dating advice seems obvious but can be easy to overlook in practice. If someone doesn’t respond right away or their answers are short, it could mean they’d rather talk later (or in person). See if that’s cool with them before taking up more of their time.

Ask open-ended questions

• Ask open-ended questions so she cannot give a yes or no answer.

An open-ended question (prevents short answers) is one in which there isn’t a right or wrong answer, and to which she’ll have to reply with more than just “yes” or “no.” Here are some examples:

• What was one of the most interesting things that happened to you last weekend?
• What are 3 things you are looking forward to this week?
• How was your workout today?
• What are your thoughts on that movie … (insert movie)?

Be willing to say yes, or maybe even make the first move.

Be willing to say yes, or maybe even make the first move.

• Maybe you are not always the one who needs to make the first move.
• Maybe, if you’re feeling brave, it’s worth giving someone a signal that you like them.
• Maybe it’s worth letting someone know what you want.

Who knows? Yes can mean new friends, or yes can be the beginning of something more. It all starts with a yes!

Don’t Overthink Texting Girls

Don’t send a second text if she doesn’t text back.

• Most of the time, girls don’t respond because they don’t have much to say or they think you are busy doing something.
• If she hasn’t responded, then it’s probably best to leave her be and let her get back to you when she has the time.
• Give her some space; don’t be clingy!
• Don’t go crazy when texting a girl, but don’t make it a mindless endeavor either. Don’t overthink things too much; keep it simple and fun.
• You want all of your conversations with women to be light-hearted and fun; they shouldn’t feel like an argumentative sledgehammer that is crushing the spirit out of your soul!
• This means not taking yourself too seriously, being able to laugh at yourself or even just making silly jokes that come off as stupid (but still funny).

You should enjoy texting girls

Men have so many different preferences when it comes to texting girls, and it’s entirely possible that you do not enjoy texting as much as some other people.

This is perfectly fine. Some people are great at texting, while others find it more difficult. It’s also true that some people would prefer a phone conversation or an in-person meetup over a terribly long text session. You won’t enjoy texting every person you meet, and that’s ok!

The good dating advice news is that there are ways to make texting easier for those who aren’t particularly interested in the medium but still want to create a connection with someone new.

Here are some of my best posts:

• Cold approach is a lifestyle
• How to get a younger girlfriend
• What is indirect daygame
• How to spot a fake dating coach
• How I got laid in Japan (epic post)
• Why Thailand is NO longer good for getting laid

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